Ukushintshwa kwengane enkulisa

Wonke umzali ozothumela ingane yakhe esikoleni esingaphambi kwesikole, ukukhathazeka mayelana nokufaniswa kwengane enkulisa kwakulula futhi kusekela. Uhambo lokuqala ukuya enkulisa, ukujwayela isimo esisha nabangane bakho bashiya izinto eziningi ezinganeni, ngakho-ke abazali kufanele benze izimo ezidingekayo zokulungiswa kwengane enkulisa.

Isikhathi sokuguquguquka enkulisa yezingane ngayinye kuhlukile. Ezinye izingane zidinga kuphela izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuze zijwayele imvelo entsha, abanye badinga amasonto ngisho nezinyanga. Ukuze ingane ishintshwe enkulisa ukuze ingamlimazi, abazali kufanele banake indlela yokuziphatha, amakhono kanye nomsebenzi wansuku zonke ekhaya:

Uma ingane ingenalo amakhono angenhla, uhambo lokuqala oluya enkulisa lingabangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu. Ukungabi nakho okuhlangenwe nakho kokuxhumana kuholela ekubukeni kwezinkathazo ezihlukahlukene emntwaneni, okungabangela ukuthi ingane izofuna ukuhlala yodwa futhi igweme ezinye izingane. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokunikeza ingane enkulisa, abazali kufanele bavakashele izindawo zokudlala futhi banikeze ingane ithuba lokudlala nezinye izingane.

Enye yezinkinga eziyinhloko zokuzivumelanisa ne-enkulisa yisimo sengqondo somntwana. Okushiwo ukuthi ingane izothola ngosuku lokuqala kakhulu kuxhomeke kakhulu kumnakekeli kanye nomkhathi jikelele kuleli qembu. Ngakho-ke, abazali bayelulekwa ukuba bajwayelane nomfundisi futhi baxoxe nabomama nabadade bezinye izingane abavakashela inkulisa efanayo. Ukuvumelanisa izingane enkulisa kwakulula, abazali kudingeka bashiye ingane endaweni entsha ngezinsuku ezimbalwa ezinsukwini zokuqala. Isikhathi esihle sokuvakashela okokuqala enkulisa yisikhathi izingane ezisichitha emgwaqweni noma ukudlala isikhathi endlini. Kancane kancane, inani lamahora ingane ahlala enkulisa kufanele landa. Kusukela isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa enkulisa yezingane ngayinye ngabanye, ungasheshi futhi uzame ukushiya umntwana ekuqaleni kosuku lonke.

Ukuguquguquka kwengane enkulisa kuyashesha lapho umntwana eqala ukuzungezwa izinto ezijwayelekile ezisha

isimo. Ukwenza lokhu, abazali bakhuthazwa ukuba bavumele ingane ukuthi ilethe amathoyizi abo ayithandayo enkulisa.

Ngeshwa, akuyona into engavamile ukuba ingane ihlakulele ukugula. Izibonakaliso eziyinhloko zokuzivumelanisa kahle kwengane kuya enkulisa yilezi: ukuthukuthela, ukungafuni ukuya enkulisa, ukufisa ukudla, ukuphazamiseka kokulala. Kulokhu, abazali kudingeka baxazulule le nkinga kanye nomfundisi. Okokuqala, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi unesimo sengqondo esihle kumntwana enkulisa. Ekhaya nezingane kuyadingeka ukuba uchithe isikhathi esiningi, ukuxhumana nayo nokukhuluma ngetekisi elihle kakhulu. Uma ungaqali ukuxazulula inkinga yokulungiswa kahle kwengane enkulisa ngesikhathi, izinkinga ezihlukahlukene zingase ziqale emzimbeni wakho ngenxa yokucindezeleka - isicashu, i-hysteria, umkhuhlane.