Thina, omama banamuhla, sivame ukuzwa kusuka kubameleli besizukulwane esidala ukuthi eminyakeni engamashumi amabili, engamashumi amathathu, engamashumi amane edlule abantwana (okungukuthi, thina kanye nawe) babengenamandla kakhulu, abanenkani, abangenangqondo njengamanje. Ngempela, kukhona iqiniso elikhulu emazwini abo. Isizukulwane ngasinye sezingane sinezici zayo zokuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?
Izingane zanamuhla zikhula ngokubanzi kolwazi. Uma ufunda lesi sihloko manje, kusho ukuthi awuyena oqinisekisiwe oye waya emzaneni wakude futhi wenqaba izinzuzo zempucuko. Ngakho-ke, awukwazi ukucabanga ngokuphila kwakho ngaphandle kwe-TV, ikhompyutha ene-intanethi yokufinyelela, ifoni ephathekayo. Ngakho-ke, ingane yakho, kungenzeka ukuthi isivele ikwazi lezi zipho nezinye izipho zokuthuthuka kwezobuchwepheshe ngezinga elithile (indodana yombhali walesi sihloko, isibonelo, wafunda ukusebenzisa isilawuli kude kude nesethi se-TV eneminyaka engu-7).
Ukuqaphela ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo nokuziphatha
Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule kwakungenzeka ukuvumelanisa nesitatimende ukuthi umsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali ukunikeza ingane ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, futhi isigaba somzwelo sizoziveza. Manje singasho ukuthi konke okuphambene nalokho. Umuntu angakholelwa noma angakholelwa emfundweni yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, kodwa abacwaningi bayavuma ukuthi ezinganeni zanamuhla zendalo zinesidingo namandla okubona nokucubungula ulwazi olukhulu. Kwenzeke yini ukuthi ingane yakho iphikelela ekumboniseni i-cartoon. Khona-ke enye, ke enye? .. Futhi ukudlala ngefoni yakho kuye kuyathandeka kakhulu futhi kuyathandeka kunokuba pobormanitsya noma ukugijima nomama wakho? Ingane yakho idinga ukudla okusha nokusha kwengqondo, kanti ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo kuhamba ngemuva. Kunezimo zokubambezeleka ngokomzwelo ukuthuthukiswa (uhlobo olunzima lokubambezeleka okuqondile ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo, okuyinto isifo).
Ukuze ugweme le nkinga, kubalulekile ukunakekelwa ngesikhathi esifanele sokuxilongwa kwengqondo nokuziphatha komntwana futhi, uma kunesidingo, ukusiza lokhu kuthuthukiswa. Uma udinga ukwenza lokhu, kungcono kuwe, ngoba wazi kahle ingane yakho. Yiqiniso, asikho isidingo sokubonisa ingane kumsizi wezengqondo ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila, ngoba ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo kosana kuncike kakhulu emaphethweni emvelo kunemizamo yakho. Kodwa isandulela ngculazi ayiphazamisi. Izazi zengqondo zenze izindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuthola ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo nokuziphatha kwezingane. Isibonelo, indlela "yezithombe ezenzelwe": ingane iboniswa izithombe ezibonisa izenzo ezinhle nezenzanga zontanga futhi zitshengise ukuthi zihlukaniswe zibe ngamapulangwe amabili ngokuvumelana nomgomo "omuhle". Izindlela ezinjalo zisiza ukuxilonga nokulungisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yomzwelo-yemibandela yengane.
Yini abazali abangayenza ngokwabo?
Okokuqala, ukuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha komzwelo kwengane yakho, qala ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukungena emagama asebenzayo amagama okuchaza imizwelo ehlukene: "Ngiyajabula", "Ngiyajabula", "ulaka?", Njll.
Kukhona nemidlalo yokuthuthukiswa kwesigaba somzwelo: isibonelo, umdlalo odumile "isibalo saso" kanye nokuhluka kwawo; umdlalo we "masks" (ingane ihlinzekwa ngesimo sobuso ukuze imele lokhu noma ukuthi umzwelo, umuzwa, nomunye ingane noma umuntu omdala kufanele aqagele lokho ingane ehlele khona). Ungamema ingane ukuba idonse, idansa kumculo ofanelekayo: "injabulo", "ukumangala", "ukudabuka", "usizi", "ukwesaba".
Izakhamuzi eziningi zengqondo zigcizelela umculo njengendlela yokuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo somuntu osemncane. Umculo awulisebenzisi izithombe ezithile, ngakho-ke usebenza ngokuqondile emizweni, hhayi ekuhlakanipheni. Ungalalela umculo, udansa kuwo, uxoxe nomntwana imizwa ezalwa lapho ulalele. Kuzingane ezincane ezingakwazi ukulalela umculo ngokuqondile (ziphazamiseke, azikwazi ukuhlala zisekhona), zikhona amafilimu akhethukile okuthuthukisa (isibonelo, "Baby Einstein", uchungechunge lwe "Bhokisi lomculo"): umculo we-classic uhambisana nokubona okulula okubukwayo .
Uma unquma ukuqala isilwane - kuzosiza ekuthuthukisweni ngokomzwelo kwengane yakho. Ungazithengi ngalenhloso izinyoka eziyinkimbinkimbi kanye nezilonda. Yeka ukukhetha ezilwaneni zendabuko: izinja ezingokomzwelo nokuzinikela kanye namakati azwelayo.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthuthukiswa kwezenhlalakahle nezomzwelo ezinganeni zasenkulisa. Ukuze umntwana azivumelanise nomphakathi, wafunda ukuveza, futhi nokulawula imizwa yakhe phakathi kontanga, vakashela isikhungo sokuthuthukiswa kwezingane, ungadluli indawo yokudlala. Ukwengeza, qaphela ngokucophelela ukukhetha kwesikhashana ingane yakho ingena enkulisa - ayikho imithi ejwayelekile kulolu daba, kodwa incomo ejwayelekile yile: akusekuseni kakhulu, kodwa hhayi isikhathi sekwephuzile. Awudingi ukwesaba lokhu, ngoba wena kuphela wazi ingane yakho kahle ukubona kuyo ukulungele lesi sinyathelo esibalulekile.
Futhi ekuphetheni - isifiso esibaluleke kakhulu. Nika ingane yakho imizwelo emihle, futhi uzokuphendula okufanayo!