Leli gama lavela ngegama lesiLatini elithi actualis, elisho ngesiRashiya ukuthi "wangempela, wangempela". Sizocubungula inkinga yokuzivuselela ubuntu nobuntu izici zabantu abazibandakanya ekuziphenduleleni ngokwabo.
Ukuzibheka ngokuziqhenya nokwenza ngcono ubuntu
Abanye abacwaningi, okuphakathi kwabo abangakwazi ukuluhluza uKurt Goldstein, bakholelwa ukuthi ukuziqhenya okulungile nokuziphendulela komuntu oyedwa kunamandla kuzo zonke izidingo zomuntu ophilayo ongakwazi ukuncintisana ngisho nezidingo zamanzi, ukudla nokulala. Namuhla, ukuziphendulela kungcono kunendlela yokuphila okuyisici sabantu abakhuthele kakhulu nabaphumelelayo, labo abakhetha ukusebenzisa zonke izinsiza zabo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ngokusho komqondo kaK. Rogers, emqondweni wesintu, izimo ezimbili zingabonakala, zinikezwe ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Okokuqala, ukuzijwayeza okwenzayo yizinto ezizenzayo, izindawo ezizayo zomuntu; okwesibili, "inqubo yokulandelela umzimba," ilawula ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu. Kusekelwe kulezi zindlela ezimbili ukuthi kubonakala ubuntu obuyingqayizivele, kufaka phakathi "umuntu wangempela" kanye "nokuzikhethela." Phakathi kwabo kungase kube nesimo sengqondo esihlukile - kusukela ekuvumelaneni okuphelele ukugcwalisa ukuphazamiseka.
Kule mbono yokuzicabangela nokuzibuyisa ubuntu kubumbene kakhulu. Ukuzibheka ngokuzenzakalela kubonakala njengendlela yokudalula amandla akho, okwenza kube lula ukuba umuntu usebenzisa wonke amathuba. Enkambweni yokufeza umgomo, abantu baphila impilo ecebile, ethakazelisayo, egcwele ukucinga, ukusebenza ngokwabo nemiphumela emangalisayo. Umuntu onjalo uhlala khona, ejabulela yonke imizuzu lapha futhi manje.
Ukuziqhenya ngobuntu: izici ezijwayelekile
Umuntu ozinikele ekuziphatheni kwakhe futhi oye wazuza impumelelo enkulu kuwo ungabonakala kanje:
- wenza into ayithandayo;
- hhayi ngaphansi kwethonya labanye abantu;
- uthanda ukufunda nokuthuthukisa;
- ngumuntu wokudala;
- sebenzisa indlela enhle yokucabanga ;
- ukuvulwa ngokomzwelo;
- ukuzethemba;
- uzithethelela ukuhlukumeza ngezikhathi ezithile ezikhona kuzo zonke.
Abantu abanjalo bavumelana ngokugcwele nabo, okwenza kube lula ukusho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ukukhula komuntu kwenza abantu bajabule.