Kunezimo lapho ulinde ucingo isikhathi eside, kodwa idivayisi ithule. Kulesi simo, ungaletha lokho okufunayo kuwe ngosizo lomlingo . Yonke imikhuba ilula futhi ayidingi amakhono akhethekile, okusho ukuthi wonke umuntu uzokwazi ukubhekana nazo.
Umgomo wokubiza lowo owudinga
Kudingekile ukugcina izandla efonini noma into exhunywe nomuntu, bese uthi la mazwi:
"Ukukhanya kwami kumnandi, ukukhanya kwami kumnandi, kungani ngikhohliwe?"
Bheka kimi, shayela inombolo yami. "
Indlela yokwenza umuntu abize - icebo
Umkhuba olula ufanelekile lapho kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu owaziwa kamuva ungathinti, futhi abize okwesabekayo kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi lolu phiko luzosiza kuphela uma umhlangano kanye nokushintshana koxhumana nabo kwenzeka kamuva. Ukuqala umkhosi kuphakathi kwamabili. Etafuleni lasakaze indwangu ebomvu, futhi kulokhu kufaka ikhandlela elifanayo lombala ku-saucer noma esikhandeni. Okulandelayo, faka ifoni ibheke phezulu. Uma ubheka ucingo, cabanga ukuthi le ndoda iyakhala kanjani, inkhulumomphendvulwano yakho, njll. Emva kwalokho, kathathu ufunde ugobe olunjalo oluphumelelayo oluthiwa ngumuntu ofanele:
"Noma yiliphi izwi, darling, ngifuna ukukuzwa. Wabe inhliziyo yami, kodwa yaxoshwa emphefumulweni wami. Vula ngokuphuthumayo inombolo yami (tshela ngokucacile futhi kancane kancane izinombolo zenombolo yakho eyodwa), ngoba kubalulekile kimi! "
Nge-wax encibilikile, ugibe phezu kwengalo yakho bese ugoqa ibhola elincane kulo. Phakathi nalokhu, phinda futhi uhlaka. Gqoka ibhola eceleni kwefoni, isibonelo, ulibeke esimweni noma ephaketheni lesikhwama. Uma umuntu ephuma, ibhola lingasuswa.
Umlutha wokubiza umuntu ofanele
Uma uthanda indoda isikhathi eside akuzizwanga, khona-ke kufanelekile ukumxosha ukuba athathe isinyathelo esinqunyiwe ngosizo lomlingo. Ukwenza umkhuba, udinga ukuthatha ikhandlela elibheke esontweni ngesandla esisodwa bese ulibamba ukuze ilangabi liphumele ngaphandle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bamba into ehlobene nento yokudumisa, isibonelo, ukukhanya kwayo noma isithombe. Ngemuva kwalokhu, phinda le njongo:
"Ngilala phansi, ngithandaza, kodwa lapho ngisukuma, ngibhapathiziwe. Ngaphansi kwezibungu zomhlaba, futhi ngaphezu kwezilwane zasendle. I-Sun neNyanga ivukile, futhi ngedwa. Ngakho iNkosi mayibusise, futhi ebhizinisini lami kusiza. Isihluthulelo. Inqaba. Ulimi. "
Phinda amagama kuze kube yilapho ikhandlela liphuma. Kubalulekile ukusho amagama ngaphandle kokuyeka nokungabaza.