Amaphupho ahlanganisa izinto ezihlabayo ahlale ephazamisayo futhi egcwele ingozi kumuntu, ikakhulukazi uma ehlasela ummese. Uma ubheka ibhuku lephupho, ummese ngamaphupho ungahunyushwa hhayi nje kuphela njengengozi - konke kuxhomeke kuma-nuances abalulekile ukulalela.
Umkhwa uphupha ngani?
Ukuchazwa kokulala ngommese kufanele kuqale ngesimo: okuphikisana nabantu, ukulandelela imizwa yabo ngalesi sikhathi lapho umuntu ebonakala ngomunwe ezandleni zabo, noma lowo uphuphayo ubamba ummese, khona-ke le nto yayisezandleni zakhe. Uma kuhlaselwa ngamaphupho ngommese, yini eyandulela lesi siqephu somcimbi. Konke kubalulekile. Uma ngesikhathi sokuvusa umuzwa wokukhathazeka ovela, mhlawumbe ingqondo engacabangi iyazama ukuxwayisa ngesidingo sokunaka indawo okuyo.
Kungani kuhlasela ummese?
Uma kuhlaziywa iphupho lokuhlaselwa, iphuzu elilandelayo kubalulekile: ummese ophusheni wayesehlotsheni lomphuphi noma ukuhlaselwa kwenzelwa omunye umuntu. Ukuhlukahluka kokuchazwa kwephupho elinjalo:
- Uma behlasela umuntu olele, uthembisa izinguquko ekuphileni kwabo;
- ngommese ehlaselwa umuntu ojwayele emvelo - lowo uphuphayo uhamba eseceleni kwesivunyelwe (phezu komlenze);
- uma umuntu elele ephusheni ahlasele umuntu - ngesikhathi esifushane angenza isenzo esingavumelani, lapho azolahlwa khona, noma abonise izici ezingekho emthethweni zobuntu bakhe;
- owesifazane, ukushushiswa nokuhlaselwa komuntu onomese - umhlangano ozayo nomthandi omkhulu;
- Dream Book ngokusho Freud - Knife esandleni sohlaseli - uphawu phallic okubikezela esikhathini esiseduze socansi loyo obona iphupho;
- uma ubheka ibhuku lephupho lokuphumula - ummese, onamathele emphinjeni ngesikhathi sokuhlaselwa, uphathwa njengokukhethwa kwesinye isimangalo.
Kungani umese ngemuva?
Ngemuva komuntu yindawo engengozi, ngakho-ke noma iyiphi incwadi yokuphupha ngommese ngemuva, ngesikhathi sokuphupha ihumusha njengento engavumelekanga:
- uma omunye wabangane ehlasela, kufanele uqaphele abantu abavela emvelweni wakho, esikhathini esizayo esiseduze omunye wabo angakwazi "ukubeka ingulube", umngane angathengisa;
- ukushaya emuva - ukuvela kwezinkinga ezingalindelekile;
- amaphupho amaphupho omuntu omgwazayo ngemuva - empeleni uyobhekana nokungavumelani emndenini, izinkanuko zabantu abanobukhwele;
- lophupha ngokwakhe uhlasela abanye ngomese ngemuva - isenzo esiphansi ngokuphathelene nomuntu osebenza nabo noma othandekayo;
- i-dreambook kummese kaDanilova ngemuva kokubamba iqhaza njengasekuqaleni: isimemo sephathi, kodwa ukungabi nesilinganiso sokuya emithonjeni enjalo kuzosithinta impilo.
Kungani uphupha ngokuqeda ummese?
Amakhiwe angenalutho endlini - isibonakaliso sokuthi akukho muntu kuwo, ngakho kwakubhekwa njengdala. Yini engayibonisa iphupho likhaliphe ummese ephusheni:
- uma ubheka ibhuku lomndeni iphupho, ummese ukhalime - kumqondo webhizinisi elibi;
- lapho ugaya ummese umbuthano wesimiso isetshenziselwa - owesifazane iphupho elinjalo uthembisa amacala amaningi awile, angakwazi ukubhekana naye yedwa;
- ukuze indoda ikhulise ummese ekusebenziseni umzimba noma ekubhekaneni nokuthambekela okungalungile nesithakazelo;
- ebhokisini lephupho lasehlobo, ukuqinisa ukucindezela kommese ukuthi lo mphupho uzofuna ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lokuqamba okungcolile noma enze into embi;
- Ibhuku lephupho lika-Oracles liphethe iphupho lapho umuntu ekhalipha khona ummese, okwamanje lophupha ugcwele imicabango engalungile ngenxa yesicala asenze kuye futhi ucabangela izinhlelo zokuziphindiselela.
Kungani iphupha lokubulala indoda ngommese?
Ukubulala ephusheni kunomthwalo ohlukile we-semantic, konke kuxhomeke ezimweni, ngezinye izikhathi ukuqonda okuncane ngakho kuzama ukuqeda ubuhlobo obunzima, imicabango noma izenzo ezimbi. Okunye ukuhumusha kokulala:
- incwadi ephuthumayo yokuphuka ukubulala umuntu ngommese, iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukukhanga okuqinile kocansi kumuntu ophikisana naye;
- kungabonakala sengathi kuyingozi kangakanani ukuzibulala ephusheni ngosizo lommese, kodwa iphupho elinjalo lingabonisa injabulo noma isifiso esinamandla sothando;
- ukubulala ephusheni ngommese wezifiso ezimbi noma abaphikisanayo bathembisa ukunqoba empeleni;
- ukulala ukubulala indoda ngommese, izazi zengqondo zihunyushwa njengokungaqiniseki kanye nokuyinkimbinkimbi kwalokhu leli phupho eliphuphayo;
- Incwadi yephupho ngokusho kukaFrud ichaza ukubulawa komuntu onomese, njengesibonakaliso sokuphela kobudlelwane obungasasebenzi lapho kufanele kuvezwe khona iphuzu.
Kungani uphupha ukuthola ummese?
Umkhwenyana ephusheni angenza njenge-artifact, ikakhulukazi ummese omdala futhi athole into enjalo kungasho ukutholakala kwamandla. Lapho uhumusha iphupho, kubalulekile ukuba unake ukuthi hlobo luni lommese kwakuyiwona nokuthi yimiphi imizwelo evivinywe kusukela ekutholeni, bekuyini - ukwesaba, ukwesaba noma ukuhlonishwa? Thola ummese ephusheni - ukuhumusha okuhlukile:
- I-Dream Book Felomeny ikhuluma ngephupho elinjalo ukuthi umngane ongacabangi uzovela empilweni yomuntu, kodwa empeleni kuyoba ngumzenzisi futhi kufanele aqaphele abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo;
- incwadi yamaphupho yasendulo - ukuthola ummese, uxwayisa ukuthi imfihlakalo enikezwe umphuphi kufanele ihlale iqaphelwe ngokucophelela, akekho ovela kwimvelo ongathembeka.
Iyini iphupho lommese ophukile?
Kulophupho kubalulekile ukuqaphela imininingwane yokwahlukana, yini ephukile i-blade noma isibambo, yiziphi izenzakalo ezandulela ukwehla kommese? Kusukela kulezi zingu-nuances isithombe esiphelele sephupho. Yilokho okushiwo yizincwadi ezahlukene zephupho ngommese ophukile:
- phupha uMiller - ukubona emaphupheni ummese one-blade ephukile, angabonisa ukugula kwasekuqaleni noma isimo esibuhlungu;
- ukuwa kwamathemba namaphupho;
- ukulungisa ummese ophukile uthembisa ukubuyisana ubudlelwano obuseduze nomngane omdala;
- uma ummese wokuzingela uphukile - ekuhlangenwe nakho ngenxa yokulindela okulindelekile, igumbi lokudlela - ukuxabana nezihlobo;
- waphupha ngokunikeza ummese ophukile - umphuphi akajabuleli igunya phakathi kwabanye ngenxa yesimo sengqondo esinobudlova nokungahloniphi abantu;
- uma umuntu ephusheni emnika umuntu ummese ophukile - isimo sakhe sengqondo kulo muntu sihilela ukulwa nokubhekana nenselele kule mpikiswano.
Kungani uphupha imivimbo eminingi?
Imimese eminingi njengesipho ephusheni izokujabulisa umqoqi wensimbi ebanda, abanye abantu ekuvuseni iphupho elinjalo kuphakamisa imibuzo eminingi. I-World dream-books ihumusha iphupho, lapho kunezindebe eziningi ngezindlela ezahlukene:
- incwadi yokuphupha ye-gypsy - ephusheni, imimese ngezinombolo eziningi zibeka isenzo sobudlova futhi zibiza ukuziphatha ngokucophelela ezenzweni nasemagama;
- ukwamukela njengemikhono yesipho - ukukhohlisa nokukhohlisa komunye umuntu;
- ukubona amacu aphuphukuphuku - ukukhathazeka kwabathandekayo;
- unike isethi yemimese kumuntu okwehlukanisa noma ukuphikisana nomuntu okwenzelwe isipho;
- Imikhonto, ngokungahleliwe ilele emgqonyeni owodwa - intukuthelo, leyo mphupho izozizwa esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ngenxa yokuxabana;
- ngoba owesifazane owesifazane omningi amaphupho ephusheni ukubikezela izilingo, okulandelayo, ozibeka emiphumeleni eyingozi.
Kungani iphupha lokusika inyama eluhlaza ngommese?
Ukupheka kuyinqubo yansuku zonke yemvelo, kepha uma kuqondakala empeleni, khona-ke ephusheni kungaba uphawu noma uphawu lwezinto ezithile, futhi ngokuvamile labo abaphupha ngale nqubo banombuzo, iphupho lokusika inyama eluhlaza ngommese-kuyajabulisa noma cha? Amaphupho ahumusha lokhu okulandelayo:
- ngo-Miller, ukusika inyama enhle - ize, imizamo engenamsebenzi;
- U-Vanga encwadini yakhe yephupho uyaxwayisa ngezinkinga ezinkulu zempilo kumuntu osika inyama ephusheni, futhi uma lokhu kungummese ongcolile - akukho ukwelashwa;
- Umhumushi weJuno uhumusha iphupho lapho umuntu esika inyama eluhlaza ngommese obukhali ngendlela enhle yezempilo, uhlelo lwakhe lwethambo luqinile futhi luqinile;
- ukuze abomabhizinisi banqume inyama eluhlaza ngephupho - uphawu lokuqedwa kwebhizinisi ngokuphumelelayo;
- ngoba owesifazane iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu lokuthi empilweni yakhe izinguquko ezinhle zizokwenzeka ngokushesha.
Kungani ummese ephupheni legazi?
Amaphupho ngegazi amabi kakhulu, ngoba igazi liphulwa ubuqotho begobolondo lomuntu, futhi uma igazi elinjengomese, khona-ke kunemibuzo mayelana nokuthi kwenzekani, igazi layo liyi-ukuphendula ukuthi ungakwazi ukuhlaziya ukulala. Iphupho liphathwa kanjani, lapho ummese uketshelwa egazini:
- Ibhuku lephupho laseFrance ummese egazini lihumusha ngokulula futhi elizwakalayo - umndeni uxabana ngenxa yephutha lokulala esikhathini esizayo esiseduze;
- UMiller ubikezela ukulahlekelwa kwezimali noma ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside nendoda ebiza kakhulu;
- ummese okhuni egazini - ukungavumelani nempilo yomndeni;
- Ummese wamagazi ngumsebenzi wobuciko - empilweni yomuntu olalayo uzovela osizimele onomuntu onamandla;
- ummese egazini lomfazi owaphonsa umthandi - empeleni, ekupheleni kokumangalisayo ebuhlotsheni.
Uyini umese esandleni sakhe uphupha?
Ukulala - umese esandleni siwusizo kakhulu ekuchazeni isimo, imicabango, isimo sengqondo somphuphi, kungabonisa izinkinga ezibalulekile kule nkathi ehlushwa futhi idinga impendulo noma isisombululo. Yiziphi izenzakalo empeleni ukuthi umese esandleni sakhe uphupha:
- Uma ubheka ibhuku lephupho lomfazi, ummese owesifazane olele ephethe ezandleni zakhe, ukhuluma ngezinkathazo nezinkinga ezihlobene nomndeni;
- ukugcina nokumthanda ummese okhaliwe - ukwamukelwa kwesinqumo esibalulekile esithinta isiphetho sabanye;
- ummese ngecala elide - ukuvivinywa okuzokwenza kube nemizwelo emibi , okuzoba nzima ukubhekana nayo;
- ukudlala ephusheni ngommese - intukuthelo enhliziyweni nesifiso sokuphindisela;
- umuntu uphupha ukuthi unommese omkhulu noma inkemba esandleni sakhe, futhi uhamba naye - impumelelo emcimbini ongathandeki, onobungozi.
Kungani ngiphupha ngokuthenga ummese?
Ummese yi-archtype yamandla namandla, futhi amaphupho okuthenga lesi sikhali afanekisela isifiso sokugunyaza nokubusa phezu komuntu othile noma iqembu labantu. Yini ongayiqonda yona uma uphupha ngommese:
- incazelo yephupho UFelomeny uphatha iphupho ngokuthenga ummese njengesifiso nokulwela komuntu ukulawula;
- ukuthenga ummese wokuhlobisa ngamagugu afundiswe kuwo - isifiso sokulawula konke nonke;
- encwadini yokuphupha ka-Amedeya - ukuthenga ummese, ukuvuka kwesenzo esingathandeki kumuntu olele;
- U-Miss Hasse uhumusha iphupho lokuthenga ummese omuhle - umphuphi ngaphandle kwezinkinga ezikhethekile uzothola ifa ngenxa yakhe.