Indima yomama empilweni yengane kunzima kakhulu ukugcizelela. Phela, umama ngumuntu obeletha kakhulu, owesifazane okwakungenani, owabeletha futhi wakhulela, futhi waba ngumngane omkhulu kakhulu wokuphila. Umama uhlale ekhona, ungamethemba ngesikhatsi esinzima, akalokothi athengise. Kodwa ukugcwaliseka kwalokhu kuza, njengomthetho, usuvele usukhulile, lapho umuntu esevele enezingane zakhe.
Futhi okwamanje, noma yikuphi owesifazane okhulelwe nje owazi ukuthi ungamama wakhe ongcono kangakanani emhlabeni, nokuthi yini umama okufanele akwenze ukuze athole uthando lwakhe nenhlonipho.
Yini okufanele ibe ngumama omuhle?
Ukwazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani umama omuhle, ufika ngokwawo. Sizizwa nje ukuthi kufanele siziphathe kanjani nomntwana, lokho afuna ukuzwa kithi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kodwa nokho, noma yikuphi owesifazane oshaywe ngokungathandabuzeki, ikakhulukazi ekubambeni okubalulekile futhi okubalulekile njengokukhuliswa kwezingane.
Yingakho kubalulekile ukuzikhethela ezinye izimiso eziyisisekelo okufanele uzigcine njalo, ukuze ukwazi ukufeza indima yakho njengomama emndenini ngaphandle kokucabanga okuningi nokudumazeka.
- Ukunakekela ingane kufanele iqale ngaphambi kokuba azalwe. Khuluma naye, funda ngokuzwakalayo, uhlabelele izingoma futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, uhlakulele umuzwa wangaphakathi wothando ngaye, into encane futhi efiselekayo!
- Akufanele nje uthande ngokungaboni, kodwa futhi uhloniphe ingane yakho njengomuntu. Lokhu kunzima kwabanye omama, kodwa kuyadingeka. Izingane zizwa kahle ukuthi ziphathwa kanjani, futhi ukunakekelwa ngokweqile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuqala ukuzihlola. Kunalokho, unikeza ingane yakho inkululeko ethile ukuze ifunde ukuthi ikhulile.
- Ukukhulisa ingane ngendlela efanele, ukumfundisa ukuthi angayenza kanjani, futhi kungenjalo, ngezinye izikhathi senza isijeziso. Ukujezisa ingane ngendlela efanele, kube eqinile, kodwa kulungile ngesikhathi esisodwa. Phela ungacabangi, ukuthi le kiduna lazizwa lihlazekile noma, kubi kakhulu kwalokho, lingathandwa. Chaza ukuthi wenze isenzo esibi, kodwa awuzange uyeke ukumthanda. Yazi nokuthi ungacela kanjani ingane ukuba uthethelele uma kudingeka.
- Ngaphansi kokungaqiniseki! Zama ukugcina njalo izinto ezihlukahlukene zokuthuthukiswa kwezenzakalo (okuphathelene nokuphila nentuthuko
izingane). Uma wazi ukuthi yini engase yenzeke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, ngokusemthethweni uzoba nokuzethemba, futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. - Xhumana nomntanakho kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngisho noma ulayishwa ngomsebenzi, zama ukuthola isikhathi sokuxhumana, okudingekayo kuwo wonke umntwana! Ungavumeli imibuzo ye-pokachki yakho encane, ungayinaki izingxoxo nezicelo zakhe. Ukuxhumana okugcwele kuyisihluthulelo kunoma yikuphi ubudlelwane obuhle.
Noma yimuphi owesifazane angakwazi ukubhekana nendima yomama ekukhuliseni izingane. Ngempela, ukuba ngumama omuhle, njengombuso, akulula. Uthando, inhlonipho nokukhathalela - futhi konke kuzovela!