UTom Ford wakhuluma ngokulwa nokulutha nokukhathazeka kokulahlekelwa yindodana

Emaphethini webhizinisi lefashini akuyona into engokwesiko ukukhuluma ngobuthakathaka bakho nezinkinga zakho, ukwesaba ukuthi uzoba yinto engenalusizo futhi ungenakuqhathaniswa, okwenza ube nomzabalazo nemikhuba yakho embuthanweni wabangane abasondelene kakhulu. Emagazini wokugcina we-Out, uTom Ford wanikeza ingxoxo epholile futhi wavuma ukuthi unezinkinga ezinkulu ngokuxhomeka kotshwala futhi nguye oyedwa owamsiza ukuba ahlale elawulwa yindodana yakhe.

Ngenxa yomsebenzi othakazelisayo, uTom wanikezwa isihloko esithi "Man of Art-2016", okungabazeki ukuthi uyamncenga, kodwa umenza aphinde ahlole isimo sakhe sengqondo ekuphileni kwakhe nezindlela zokuthola inkazimulo.

Usizwa indodana yakhe ukuba inqobe ukuxhomeka ekudleni kotshwala!

Impumelelo, abanamakhono, ama-performances kanye nemibono yomqondisi okubangela ukubonga nomona, isikhathi eside asikwazanga ukubhekana "namademoni angaphakathi". Kubonakala sengathi uyakwazi ukubona konke ayekuphuphayo. Esikhulumweni, wakhuluma ngezimfihlo zomzabalazo wakhe ongokomoya kanye nokugcwaliseka kwezifiso, ezinikezwa kakhulu. Ubani omsekelayo sonke isikhathi futhi kusiza ukudala?

UTom Ford akazange afihle ukuthi wayengumuntu ongqingili ovulekile. NgoSeptemba 2012, umklami wenziwa umlobi wezintatheli wakhe uRichard Buckley. Lo mbhangqwana ube ndawonye iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-20 futhi isinqumo sokubambisana nendodana, kubo, sasizibophezele futhi silinganiselwe. Eminyakeni emine eyedlule, ngosizo lomama wokuzalwa, ingane yabonakala emndenini, u-Alexander John Buckley Ford.

Ngokusho kukaTom, ukuzalwa kwengane yakhe kanye nokujabula emshadweni akuzange kumlethe ukuthula kwengqondo futhi uphume ekucindezelekeni. Umklami uvume ukuthi unenkinga ngaphambili futhi wayefuna ukuphuza utshwala, kodwa kuphela lapho eneminyaka engama-40 wabona ukuthi akanakulawula ukuphuza utshwala nezidakamizwa ezidliwe. Enkulumweni neNew York Post, uTom wabelane:

Ngangihlale ngifuna izingane, kodwa ukuhamba ngezinyawo nezinkinga zangunaphakade kwasusa iphupho lami lendodana esikhathini esizayo. Lapho uJack efika emndenini wethu (yilokho u-Alexander John abizwa khona emndenini), ngangisesimweni esibi futhi ngangingakwazi ukuzilawula. Okubi kakhulu ukuthi ngavumele ukuba ngiseduze nomntwana esimweni esinjalo. Kunzima kimi ukuqaphela ukuthi ngake ngilahla ezitebhisini, futhi ngesinye isikhathi, ngephutha ngatshisa ugwayi.

Ukudala nokuphila ngekusasa lendodana yakhe!

UTom Ford akafihli ukuthi uzimisele ukwenza imisebenzi yomzali futhi akaqondi yonke imithwalo yemfanelo kanye nezinkinga. Ngesikhathi esithile waqaphela futhi wazwakalisa izintatheli ukuthi:

Indodana yedwa engingakwazi ukuzidela yona. Ngemva kokubonakala kwakhe, ngisusa imicabango yokuzibulala kusukela ekhanda lami. Ububaba bube yisifundo esinzima kodwa esibalulekile kimi.

Yiqiniso, uTom Ford ucele usizo lwezokwelapha, ngemuva kohlelo lokuvuselela, waphula ezweni lomdwebo wefashini nefilimu ngamandla amasha. Ukushiya umqondisi wokudala we-Gucci nokuvula umkhiqizo wakhe uTom Ford, eminyakeni yamuva, uyazibona embonini yefilimu. Umdwebo othi "Lonely Man", okhishwe ngo-2008, wambonisa njengomqondisi onethalente, ukuqashwa kwefilimu yesibili "Ngaphansi kwesibopho ebusuku" kuzoba ngenyanga ezayo.

Funda futhi

Siyaqiniseka ukuthi ngokuqeda umzabalazo wobuthakathaka bangaphakathi, ngeke sikwazi ukujabulela amaqoqo omlobi omusha kuphela, kodwa futhi nokusebenza komqondisi nemisebenzi yefilimu.