I-imposter's syndrome enye igama ngenxa yokwesaba impumelelo , okuboniswa ngomqondo wokuthi le mpumelelo ayifanele. Abakhohlisi bangabantu abazitholela omunye umuntu, ngenzuzo yabo siqu.
Umuntu onesifo sofuba
Ukuqaphela abantu nge-syndrome yomkhohlisi kulula: bayesaba ukukhulisa umsebenzi wabo, bayenqaba uma beyanconywa, sonke isikhathi abahlala benomuzwa wokuthi abanye bayabancoma ngokungavumelekile. Bahlale bezingabaza ngokwabo namakhono abo, futhi bachaze impumelelo yabo ngenhlanhla noma ithuba elilula. Laba bantu bazizwa bekhululekile emisebenzini yesibili futhi besaba ukuphakama.
Uphi umkhuhlane we-umpofu ovelaphi?
Ukutadisha kwengqondo ngesimo esinjalo njengokwesaba impumelelo, kubonisa ukuthi iphutha liyimfundo, ngokunembile - ukungabi nothando nothando lomzali. Uma umama nobaba bevame ukugxeka ingane, befuna izikhwama ezingaphezulu, ngakho - ke i - syndrome ye-imposter yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwakhe. Okumangalisa kakhulu, kodwa i-syndrome efanayo iyakhanya futhi kulabo bantwana, "abazali" abaye "bathande". Uma ngabe le ntombazane ikhulunywa ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ihlakaniphile kakhulu, kepha ingathuli ngokubukeka kwayo, ingase icabange ukuthi iyingozi, futhi izolwela ukutshala imali emsebenzini, ngoba uzobeka isiphambano empilweni yakhe.
Ngokuvamile lesi simo sithinteka yizingane ezindala emndenini ongenalo uthando ngenxa yokuncintisana nezingane ezincane. Omunye umkhohlisi ongokoqobo uyindoda eyakhulela emndenini ompofu, lapho yayitshela ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi impumelelo ayiyona yakhe.
I-imposter's syndrome - ukwelashwa
Ukwelapha ukwesaba impumelelo kungcono kumhlengikazi. Kodwa okokuqala udinga ukubona ukuthi unenkinga enjalo ngempela. Thola izizathu ezizwakalayo, uqonde ukuthi konke lokhu ukungabaza kwakho kwakuyizithelo zemiqondo yakho kuphela, hhayi inkinga yangempela. Vumela ukwenza amaphutha futhi ungadluleli ibha.