Ngezinye izikhathi abazali abasebasha kakade bezinsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuvela kwengane endlini bayabhekana nenkinga evamile - ingane iyalahla ukulala. Uma ubusuku ababili noma abathathu ukulwa nokukhala kwakhe nokugqoka ezandleni zakhe kusengenzeka kakhulu, bese kuthi kamuva ukukhathala kuqala ukuwa ngisho nangosuku. Wonke umuntu uyabuhlungu: umntwana ophelile, futhi hhayi abazali abanele, ngisho nomakhelwane endlini ephethe udonga.
Kungani ingane ingalali?
Uma kunzima ukumbeka embhedeni, abazali kudingeka bafune imbangela. Ukulala kwezingane kungaphazanyiswa ngenxa yokungahambi kahle ngokomzimba. Isibonelo, umntwana une-stomachache (ecasula colic), kodwa mhlawumbe kushisa noma ngokubanda kakhulu. Kulesi simo konke kuxazululwa ngokweqile. Ezimweni ezingavamile, ingane ingahlushwa ukucindezeleka okungahambi kahle, okubangelwa ikhanda. Kukhona kakade akekho usizo olufanelekayo alukwazi ukukwenza. Ngokudabukisayo, lapho umntwana engalali, kunzima ukuthi alele. Isistimu yezinzwa zezingane isesezingeni lokuvuthwa, ngakho-ke izenzakalo ezinjalo zenzeka.
Kunoma yikuphi, izinkinga zokulala zixoxwa kangcono nodokotela wezingane, futhi mhlawumbe ne-neurologist. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi impilo yengane ilungile, ungazama izindlela ezimbalwa kodwa eziwusizo kakhulu ezizosiza ukulala umntwana ngaphandle kokubunzima okukhulu.
Izindlela zokubeka umntwana
Indlela ethandwa kakhulu, indlela yokubeka embhedeni wengane, ukuyibeletha ngokushesha ngaphambi kokulala. Lokhu kungcono uma abazali benza iphupho elihlangene, elikhuthazwa ngamandla ngabantwana besimanje. Ngokuvamile, lapho usubuyela esitokisini esithile, umntwana uvuka ngokushesha nje lapho seliyeka ukuzizwa sisondelene nomama, futhi ubuthongo ngokuhlanganyela le nkinga ibhidliza. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi uyihlo usendlini, futhi unina udinga ingane engaphansi kwengane. Ekugcineni, kuyindaba yomuntu oyedwa ukuba ulale kahle: kulula ukulala ubusuku bonke thina, ukuze sinikeze ubaba wethu indawo yokulala noma izikhathi eziningana ngobusuku ukugibela esikhungweni somntwana ukuze sondle ingane.
Ingabe unamandla okwanele ukugubha ingane ezandleni zakho? Kuhle! Ingane ivuselela umzimba womama, iphunga lakhe lingisiza ukuba ngilale. Ungasebenzisa ukubethela, umbelethi noma i-fitball. Ukukhulumisana nokugula okuhambayo kanye nobaba, ngoba ingane ikhula, futhi amandla omzimba angamkhawulo. Uyacelwa ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi udinga ukulala ubuthongo obunzima, ngoba umzuzu owodwa we "podoukachivaniya" uzoholela eqinisweni ukuthi kufanele uqale futhi.
Indlela enengqondo kakhulu, ebonisa imiphumela emihle uma kungenakwenzeka ukubeka ingane ukuba ilele, kulandelana kwezenzo / amasiko. Usuku nosuku, ingane kufanele ijwayele ukuthi ukugeza kulandelwa ukudla, nokudla - ukulala. Kodwa indlela yokulondoloza ukulandelana okucacile, uma isigqi samanje sokuphila asinikezi njalo isimiso esithile sosuku kubazali? Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukulandelana kuzokwenza umphumela hhayi ngesikhathi esisodwa, kodwa ufuna ukulala ubusuku bonke ...
Enye indlela, indlela yokubeka ingane ukuba ilale ngaphandle kwebele, "ixwayisa ukungazinaki", kodwa ifaneleka kuphela kunomama abanezinzwa zensimbi. Beka umntwana, obesevele ekhombisa izimpawu zokuqala zokukhathala (ukushaya, ukugubha amehlo akhe nama-wawns), ungene esihlalweni, kodwa hlala usondelene. Ungabheke emehlweni akhe, kungenjalo uzocela ngokushesha ukuba abe ezandleni zakho. Dwala umkhumbi, mhlabelelele ingoma, tshela inganekwane - ngokujwayelekile, yenzani ukuthi angaqhubeki izinyembezi. Uma ingazange isebenze, futhi ugweme ukuqina
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abazali bahlakulela indlela yabo yokubeka ingane: abanye izingane bathanda ukushaywa emhlane noma ukushaya umuthi, abanye balala ngokuthula ngaphansi komsindo wensimbi eboya izinwele, abanye bezolile bese bevala amehlo abo, bebona ubuso bomama phambi kwakhe, umuntu uvele elele, esiswini.
Ingane ayizwa ngempela umehluko phakathi kwamini nobusuku, ngakho-ke uma ungazi ukuthi ungayilalisa kanjani ingane emini, sebenzisa amathiphu anikezwe ngenhla. Amaphupho amnandi!