Ukubhapathizwa kwengane kungukubusa komama

Kwababakholwa bama-Orthodox, ubhapathizo aluyona nje isenzakalo esibalulekile noma umhlangano wesonto omuhle, kodwa iSastramente, okwenzeka lapho umuntu ezalwa ngokomoya. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane akufanele aphuthume ukwamukela isimemo sokuba unkulunkulukazi, kumele enze lokhu kukhetha ngokucophelela. Ngempela, ukuba umamukeli akuyona nje inhlonipho enkulu, kodwa futhi nomthwalo omkhulu.

Umkhuba wokubhapathizwa kwengane awunayo imithetho ethize ka-unina, kodwa wonke owesifazane ozobhapathiza usana kufanele ahlole amaqiniso athile amancane kanye nezikhundla ezingavumelani. Lokhu ngeke kubangele ukuthi ingane ingalimazi ngenhloso.

Imithetho ejwayelekile yokubhapathizwa kwengane kumama kanina

Ukuze lolu hlelo lufeze ngokuhambisana nayo yonke imithetho, unkulunkulu kufanele aqale ukulungiselela iSamrament of Ubhapathizo kusengaphambili. Njengokholo, akufanele kube nzima ukuvuma nokuthola inhlanganyelo. Ngeke kube yinto engadingekile futhi ngaphambi kokuba umkhosi ujabule. Noma kunjalo, lezi zinhlinzeko azizona eziphoqelekile. Kwabazali bomama, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uvakashele ekukhulumeni kompristi kanye nesonto lapho kuyokwenziwa khona umkhosi. Leli thuba elihle kakhulu kunkulunkulukazi ukuthi bafunde kabanzi ngemithetho yeSigceme yobhapathizo lomntwana futhi bajwayele uhlu lwezihloko ezizodingwa ukuze kube khona umkhuba.

Ngokwesiko, isakramente lokubhapathizwa kwengane unkulunkulukazi kumele alungiselele futhi alethe endlini izingubo zokugqoka nezokubhapathizwa. Kodwa uma okwamanje enenkinga yezezimali, le misebenzi ingenziwa ngaye uNkulunkulu. Umkamukeli kufanele akwazi ukubhekana nezinsana, ngoba ezimweni eziningi kufanele asule ingane futhi agqoke ngemuva kwefonti. Namuhla, ibandla lithembeke kakhulu ezintweni eziningi, kepha ngesikhathi seSigramente se-Epiphany isiphambano kufanele singakunaki izidingo ezibekwe kuso kusukela esikhathini esidlule:

1. Yiba nesiphambano entanyeni yakho, ungcwelwe isonto.
2. Qinisekisa ukumboza ikhanda lakho nge-handkerchief.
3. Ezingubo zokugqoka ingubo engaphansi kwamadolo, kanye nokumboza amahlombe.
4. Ukukhipha izithende eziphezulu kanye nokwakheka okukhulu kakhulu, futhi wenqabe ngokuphelele ukusetshenziswa kwe-lipstick.

Ukungafani emithethweni yokubhapathizwa kwengane ka-unina wentombazane nomfana

Inendima kankulunkulukazi ibaluleke kakhulu uma ebhapathiza umntwana. Ngokuvamile u-godfather akanalo ithonya elikhulu kumsulwa wesifazane futhi umhlangano wobhapathizo ungenziwa ngisho nalapho engekho. Ngokomthetho wokubhapathizwa kwengane, unkulunkulukazi wentombazane ubophekile ukuba agcine umntwana ezandleni zakhe kulo lonke iSigramente, futhi ukuyiqonda ngemuva kokungena emfonini. I-Godfather, ivele imile eduze, futhi iyingxenye kuphela uma kudingekile ukusiza ukusula ingane futhi ibeke isambatho sokugqoka kuye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, unkulunkulukazi uzodinga ukubiza imithandazo ethile endlebeni, ngakho-ke akuyona into engafanele ukuthola amagama abo ezinkulumweni zokuqala nompristi futhi uzifunde kusengaphambili.

Imithetho ehambisanayo yokubhapathizwa kwengane kumama womfana kamfana ngokuqondile. Kulesi simo, umthunjwa ubona nje iSigramente, futhi imisebenzi ekhulunywe ngenhla yenziwa ngu-godfather. Uma kungenjalo, imithetho yokubhapathizwa kwengane kumama womfana akufani neze nezinhlinzeko zentombazane yentombazane.

Othandana nabo kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi imithetho eyakhiwe ngumpristi ngokusebenza kweSigamente sokubhapathizwa kumele ihlonishwe ngokungenasisekelo. Uma kungenjalo, kungase kuthinte kabi ikusasa elizayo le-godson noma umfelokazi.