Izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye zokulinda, isimangaliso sokuzalwa futhi manje - umzuzu osalinde isikhathi eside - uwedwa nomuntu othandekayo futhi othandekayo kakhulu emhlabeni - ingane yakho. Umbuzo wokuqala ovela enhloko yawo wonke umama ongenalwazi ukuthi ungayithatha kanjani imvuthu ngaphandle kokulimaza. Ngeshwa, akuzona zonke izibhedlela zokubeletha ezweni lethu elikhulu elibhekene nomsebenzi wazo, omama abasha abafundi ukuhlakanipha kokuphatha izingane ezincane, kubandakanya nendlela yokugcina kahle ingane.
Kungani kufanele ugqoke "umntwana"?
Ukuqaphela ukuthi ube ngumama kuza nokudla kokuqala kwengane. Ngomusi, umoya ungena esiswini somntwana, okungavuselela ubuhlungu. Ukuze ugweme ukuhlupheka kwengane, emva kokudla, kuyadingeka ukumhlambalaza nge "ikholomu" - ingane izophambanisa, umoya owedlulele uzophuma futhi amenze alale ngokuthula. Umbuzo uvela: kanjani ukugcina ikholomu lengane ngokufanele? Kulula kakhulu - thatha i-kid ngokuqondile, ubeke isikhumba somntwana ehlombe lakho, ubambe ikhanda nentamo ngesandla esisodwa, nomunye imbongolo nemilenze. Ukuxhumana okunjalo kakhulu nomama kuzophinde kunciphise ubuhlungu obuvela ku-colic emgodini we-crumb.
Ingane "Ingane" ingaba igqoke futhi ibheke phambili , lokhu kuzovumela umntwana ukuba acabange indawo yakhe entsha - isandla esisodwa esifubeni, ebeka isandla sakhe ngaphansi kwengalo yakhe, omunye ephonse phansi imilenze yakhe.
Indlela yokugqoka umntwana osanda kuzalwa akumele azi amagama omama kuphela, kodwa futhi nabazali, futhi zonke izihlobo zizoqonda ngokuyisimangaliso esincane, ngoba kule nkathi yokuphila ingane yenza umgogodla wayo kanye nesistimu yonke ye-musculoskeletal. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukusekela entanyeni nasenhloko yengane, ushintshe isikhundla kusuka ngakwesokunene kuya kwesobunxele, ukuze ingane ingabi nombono owodwa. Futhi nakanjani, mama, smile futhi ukhulume isimangaliso sakho encane. Ungakwazi ukugqoka usana ngokufaka ikhanda lakhe emgqeni wesigqoko , ubambe isandla esifanayo ngemuva kwakhe, futhi ubambe ingane ngesinye isandla ngembongolo nemilenze. Ngaphandle kwendwangu yesigqoko ungabeka intamo yemvuthuluka, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uyivule phansi, ngesandla esisodwa, cindezela umntwana wena, futhi okwesibili, ubambe phakathi kwemilenze, ugcine isifuba nesisu.
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Indlela ukuthatha umntwana osanda kuzalwa akufanele abalekele izihlobo. Akukho ukunyakaza okungazelelwe, ukungaqiniseki, futhi ngempela izandla ezimbili - lezi yizona imithetho eziyisisekelo kuwo wonke umuntu. Ingabe ingane ilele ngemuva? Sifake enye yesandla ngaphansi kwembongolo, enye ingaphansi kwekhanda futhi ikhuphuke kancane kancane, siqiniseke ukuthi ikhanda lomntwana liphakeme kunabapristi. Uma i-crumb rest on the tummy, sibamba isandla esisodwa esifubeni, sibambe intendeni yentamo, sibeke esinye isandla ngaphansi kwesisu.
Izinqubo zamanzi
Enye inqubo ebalulekile iveza ukudideka komama ongenalwazi ngemuva kokukhishwa esibhedlela - ukugeza. Izinqubo zamanzi zibaluleke kakhulu ezinganeni, ngosizo lwabo zivumelane nezimo ezintsha zokuba khona kwazo, futhi lokhu kunakekelwa kakhudlwana isikhumba semvuthu kanye nendlela yokunciphisa. Kunezindlela eziningana zokugcina ingane usanda kubhukuda. Okokuqala - ngesandla esisodwa ubamba ingane ngenhloko, entanyeni nangemuva, kanti enye igcina imbongolo nemilenze. Okwesibili, ukhululekile kakhulu kuwe nangomntwana - ikhanda lomntwana lihlezi esihlalweni sakho sangaphambili, futhi ihlombe elikude kuwe esandleni sakho. Le ndlela ilula kakhulu ngoba ingane ingahamba ngokukhululekile emanzini, ngaleyo ndlela iphumule imisipha,
Futhi ekugcineni, ake sengeze ukuthi awukwazi kanjani ukugcina usana olusanda kuzalwa. Khumbula imithetho elula: ungavumeli ikhanda lomntwana liphonswe emuva, futhi izibambo nemilenze zilenga, futhi akudingeki ukuthi uphakamise imvuthu ngemuva kwesibhamu - amalunga ayo namanje aswele kakhulu.
Uyabathanda izingane zakhe, uzigqoke ezandleni zabo, ngoba ngokuthinta izingane zifunde izwe elisha ngabo.