Akekho ongaziqhayisa ngempilo yengqondo enhle kakhulu, lapho isimo sengqondo ngaso sonke isikhathi singasazi izifo, akukho ukukhathazeka. Futhi lokhu kuyinto evamile. Into eyinhloko njalo ukwazi ukwazi ukuzisiza uma kwenzeka into engahambi kahle futhi kubonakala sengathi akuyikubuyisela umphefumulo esimweni sezulu esishisayo.
Isimo sangaphakathi somqondo womuntu
Ukuvumelana neyakhe "Mina" kuyathinta ngokubili, kokubili enhlalakahleni yomuntu siqu, emsebenzini wokusebenza, nasebudlelwaneni nezwe elizungezile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane zibalingisa abazali bazo futhi, lapho zibona isimo somama ophazamisekayo "obona" umyeni wakhe nsuku zonke, bathola ukuthi ubuhlobo obuvamile emndenini. Esikhathini esizayo, izingane ezinjalo ziyakwazi ukuthola ifa lezenzo, imikhuba yomama ongalingani. Okubalulekile kunye: kusuka kusiphi isimo sengqondo manje, kuncike ekutheni izenzakalo zizokhula kanjani esikhathini esizayo.
Ungafaki izinketho zokulimala okungazelelwe kokuphila kwengqondo. Uma kunzima ukucacisa izimbangela zezinkinga zalesi senzakalo, kungenzeka ukuthi i-subconscious isizizwisile. Ngolwazi olunembile kakhulu, ukwesaba, okuhlangenwe nakho, izinkumbulo ezingalungile umuntu angafuni ukuziqonda, aziphoqelelwa ukuba azikhishwe engqondweni yomuntu. Ngenxa yalokho, ekugcineni konke kufike phezulu.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa isimo sakho sengqondo?
Izici eziyinhloko zesimo sengqondo esingathí sina kukhona ukuthukuthela, ukwesaba okwedlulele, ukuleleka, ukuhlaselwa kwesibindi, ukuguquka okubukhali nokuphindaphindiwe. Okubi kakhulu isinqumo sokuvumela izinto zihambe ngokwazo. Uma ungakwazi ukuphulukisa ngokwengqondo ngokwengqondo, kubalulekile ukubuyela ochwepheshe ngesikhathi. Kulesi simo kungumqondo wezengqondo noma isazi se-psychotherapist.
Ngakho, izikhathi ezimbalwa ngesonto, ungakhohlwa ukuzindla, ukulahla imicabango yokukhathazeka kwansuku zonke kanye nokukhathazeka. Ngeke kube okungenakuqhathaniswa ukwenza umbukiso, ukubiza amagama okuqinisekiswa . Njalo ekuseni kufanele uqale ngamazwi athi "Ngizizwa ngijabule. Ngibheka kakhulu. Ibhizinisi lihambisana nempumelelo. "