Iso liyabhuqa - izizathu

Ngesinye isikhathi ngoMeyi ofudumele kusihlwa emnyango wendlu yami, abangane ababili-izintombi bahlangana ngemva komsebenzi, bahlala phansi ebhentshini baqala ukuxoxa. "Uyazi, Nomauta, iso lami lesobunxele lilokhu lishaya, ijwabu leso futhi ngaphansi kwalesi sono, azi ukuthi kungani"? "Angazi, u-Irisha, mhlawumbe umlutha wakho, usebenza kanjani manje, kuyinto evamile?" "Yebo, kubonakala sengathi ukuthula, ukubika kanye nokubuyekezwa akukaze kulindeleke." "Hhayi-ke, angikwazi, hamba kudokotela, ubuze, mhlawumbe lokho kuzobekwa isiphuzo." Abesifazane basalokhu bephutha kancane ezindabeni zabo, futhi baya ekhaya. Ngosuku olulandelayo u-Irina waya ku-neurologist ukuthola izizathu zokuthi kungani amehlo akhe adutshulwa futhi athole iseluleko kule ndaba. Futhi bangaki abesifazane abahlala nale nkinga futhi benze lutho, kodwa nje bahlupheke futhi balinde lapho kudlula ngokwalo? Lesi simo asamukeleki, kufanele sibhekiswe futhi sichithwe. Ngakho yilokho esizokhuluma ngakho namhlanje.

Izizathu ezenzekayo ukuthi kungani iso lishaya, ijwabu leso noma ngaphansi kweso

Embuzweni walokho okushoyo, uma iso lishaya, ayikho impendulo eyodwa neyodwa. Phela, izizathu zalesi simo zikhulu kakhulu kusukela ekusebenzeni ngokweqile ekuguleni okukhulu. Qinisekisa lokhu kufanele ube ngodokotela wezinzwa zezokwelapha, futhi uzobe ebeka ukwelashwa okudingekayo. Kodwa, naphezu kokuthi le nkinga iphezu kwamakhono odokotela, izizathu zokuthi iso lesokunene noma lesobunxele liphikisayo, ngisho nezisisekelo, kudingeka ziziwe. Nasi uhlu lwabo.

Isizathu 1. Ukucindezeleka

Noma yikuphi ukushaqeka okukhulu ngokomzwelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyinkathazo emsebenzini noma ekhaya, ukuxabana nomyeni wakhe, ukuthukuthela kokuthutha, ama-pranks ayingozi wengane nokunye okuningi, kuphazamisa isimiso sezinzwa kakhulu. Ukusabela komzimba kungaba yinto. Abanye abantu banento yokulimaza, abanye bayakhala, kanti abanye bakhamuluka. Kodwa kukhona nesigaba esinjalo somlingiswa, okuthiwa "ukuthula". Ngokuvamile kwenzeka phakathi kwabesifazane, omama nabahlakaniphile, abanomusa nababekezelayo. Kuloluhlu lwabantu futhi kukhona isimiso sezinzwa, okungukuthi, ukuthungatha okwesabekayo kweso noma ijwabu leso. Lapho bezolile, umkhawulo uyadlula. Kodwa lapha kufanelekile futhi ukuba nesaba, futhi kuvuselelwe. Ukwelashwa okungcono kakhulu kuleli cala kuyisimo sokuzolile nesimo somoya, uhambo endaweni ethile olwandle noma ngaphandle kwedolobha, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, ukuqeqeshwa ngokuzimela.

Isizathu 2. Ukwedlulela kwembono

Isizathu esilandelayo sokuthi iso lesokunene noma lesobunxele likhungatheka kumuntu omdala noma kumntwana kuyinkinga ende isikhathi esisezingeni lombono. Isibonelo, babeka izifundo eziningi esikoleni, ingane ihlala phezu kwezincwadi nezincwadi zonke kusihlwa, ifunda inkondlo ngenhliziyo, ikhetha izibonelo, yenza izivivinyo ezibhaliwe. Amehlo, of course, ukhathele. Akumangalisi ukuthi uma ijwabu leso noma ngaphansi kweso livela ukunyakaza okubonakalayo. Umphumela ofanayo ungabangela amahora amaningi ehlezi kukhompyutha, ku-TV, noma ekufundeni izincwadi ezincane zokuphrinta ekamelweni elibi. Indlela kuphela yokuphuma ukugcina umbuso womsebenzi nokuphumula. Isibonelo, sisebenza imizuzu engu-45, siphumula imizuzu engu-10-15. Cabanga, esikoleni nhlobo akuyona into yokuthi izifundo zihamba imizuzu engu-45, futhi izinguquko zingamaminithi ayishumi. Thatha yona enkonzweni.

Isizathu 3. Izifo zaseSomatic

Kuleli qembu lezizathu zokuthi kungani iso lihlose, umuntu angafaka uhlu olubanzi kakhulu lwezifo ezivela ku-neuritis ye-facial or trigeminal nerve kuya emathunjini ebuchopho. Ukuze uthole inkinga yangempela kuleli cala kungenzeka kuphela ngaphakathi kohlaka lesikhungo sezokwelapha, esedlule ukuhlaziya okuningi nokuhlolwa okuvela ochwepheshe abahlukene. Kodwa uma iso lishaya, akusho ukuthi konke kubi kakhulu. Isizathu esingahle sinikezwe lapha sihlukile ngaphandle komthetho.

Noma kunjalo, uma iso noma izinwele zejwabu leso, izizathu zalesi simo zidinga ukucaciswa ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngempela, lokhu kuyimpilo yakho, okuyigugu futhi ebiza kakhulu kunokuthi akukho lutho. Zizinakekele, futhi ungavumeli ukugula kukuthinte.