Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ukuphatha ikhono ngalinye kunebanga elithile leminyaka. Uma ngabe ingane yakho iyingcosana yontanga yakhe endaweni ethile, kubalulekile ukuqaphela nokulalela lokhu ngesikhathi esifanele ngudokotela oya khona. Mhlawumbe indodana noma indodakazi yakho idinga usizo lochwepheshe, futhi ngokushesha izinyathelo ezidingekayo ziyathathwa, ngcono.
Qala ukulawula izinga lokuthuthukiswa ngokomqondo nangokwenyama kwemvuthu kufanele kwenzeke ngemva kwenyanga eyodwa kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwayo. Kubonakala sengathi izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zingabalwa enyangeni eyodwa, ezazisanda kuzalwa. Noma kunjalo, ngisho nasencane kangaka, izinsana zivele zikwazi ukwenza okuthile, futhi ngokuhlola ngokweqile izinga lokuthuthukiswa kwengane enyangeni, umuntu angaqonda ukuthi konke kulungile yini naye.
Yini ingane esanda kuzalwa enyangeni engu-1?
Ngakho-ke, ungabheka kanjani izinga lokuthuthukiswa kwengane encane kangaka? Ake sibhale ukuthi yini ingane ekhulelwe okufanele iyenze eneminyaka engu-1:
- Amehlo omntwana asevele akhiwe ngokwanele ukuze asabele ekushintsheni isithombe. Ngenkathi eneminyaka engu-1 kuphela usukwazi ukugxila umbono wakhe esihlokweni esikhulu, ikakhulukazi, ebusweni bomama noma omunye umuntu oseduze. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umntwana angakwazi ukuqapha ngokucophelela ukuhamba kwento esikhaleni, futhi ahlukanise phakathi kwemibala ekhanyayo neyehlukeneyo, njenge-cage, imigqa ehambisanayo, imibuthano nokunye.
- Ukuzwa nakho kuthuthuka. Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zihlukanisa kahle imisindo ehlukene, isibonelo, uzohlukanisa kalula izwi lonina kulo lonke izwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngesikhathi senyanga 1, i-crumb isivele kufanele ikwazi ukwenza imisindo yayo. Ingane ngayinye ingabathola ngokuhluke ngokuphelele, umuntu uhamba njengejuba elikhukhulayo phakathi kwabo, kanti omunye umuntu usuvele ekhulile.
- Ngokuphathelene nokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, umntwana osenenyanga usenamandla kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, "esikhundleni sokulala esiswini," kumele okungenani azame ukuphakamisa ikhanda lakhe phezulu.
- Futhi eminye imithombo ungathola ulwazi lokuthi ingane eneminyaka engu-1 kufanele ivele imomothele ezihlotsheni nabangane bakhe. Eqinisweni, lokhu akude neze. Ukulinganisa kwengane kukhula ngokujulile, futhi usuvele unamandla okugwinya nokuveza ubuso obuhlukahlukene. Ngokuvamile, lezi zingane ziyabonakala futhi zifana nokumomotheka, noma kunjalo, zenza ngokungazi ngokuphelele futhi, kunalokho, ngisho nangengozi.
Ungasiza kanjani ingane yakho ithuthuke ngempumelelo?
Uma uqaphela ukuthi indodana noma intombazane yakho esanda kuzalwa engenzi lokho okufanele ukwenze ngenyanga engu-1, ungadangali. Sebenzisa le mihlahlandlela elandelayo ukusiza ingane yakho ikhule ngempumelelo:
- yakha umoya omuhle endlini yakho,
ukuthi wonke amandla omntwana ayehloselwe ukufunda amakhono amasha; - Ngaphambi kokudla okunye, beka ingane emathunjini akhe;
- nsuku zonke yenza ukuhlunga komama "ngobumnene" othandekayo;
- ngangokunokwenzeka ngikhulume nomntwana, ngimhubele izingoma, tshela ama-teddies;
- ezungeze ingane encane ibeka izithombe ezinkulu ezimnyama nezimhlophe ezizoheha ukunakekelwa kwengane futhi zizosiza ekuthuthukiseni nasekuthuthukiseni umbono wakhe;
- uthenge amathoyizi ahlukile futhi uwahambise njalo emkhakheni wokubuka wengane.