Ngakho-ke kungokwemvelo ukuthi kusukela ekuzalweni kwakhe umntwana ukhuluma nezwe ngokukhala nje - ukukhala, u-noah, ukumemeza kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo. Ngokuvamile ukungabi nempendulo engokomzwelo kuletha izinyembezi umama omncane, umama ongenamanga. Kodwa ungasheshi ukuphelelwa ithemba, konke kunesikhathi saso kanye nekhono lokubonisa imizwelo ejabulisayo, ingane kufanele ikhule.
Ingane ihleka nini?
Ikhono lokubonisa imizwa emihle likhonza ingane yengane njengesibonakaliso sokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nokucindezeleka kwayo. Kuyinto engavamile ingane ukuba imomothele ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokuzalwa, ukumomotheka ephusheni noma ngezikhathi ezincane zokuvuka, kodwa lokhu kumamatheka akukakabonakali, umzimba, ngaphandle kwenjabulo ehlanganisiwe nganoma iyiphi indlela. Kubangelwa, cishe, ukuthi ingane inhle - ifudumele futhi igcwele. Kuphela lapho ingane ifunda ukugxilisa amehlo akhe futhi iqaphe phakathi kobuso abaningi abomama - bomama, khona-ke ukumomotheka ebusweni bayo kuyoba isibonakaliso senjabulo.
Lapho umntwana eqala ukumamatheka kuxhomeke kuphela ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Ngokuvamile ukumomotheka kokuqala ingane ihlinzeka umhlaba eneminyaka engama-6-8 amasonto. Ukubukeka kokumomotheka kokuqala kuhambisane kaningi kanye nezinye ukubonakaliswa kwe-reflex of animation - i-kid ishukumisela ukuphatha izingalo nemilenze, ikubuka ngentshisekelo nangesikhathi eside. Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kuhamba ngendlela evamile, futhi usevele wafunda ukuhlukanisa abantu abavela ezintweni ezizungezile. Kuphawulwe ukuthi isikhathi esiningi abazali abachitha ngaso ekukhulumisaneni nomntanakho, ukufudumala nokuthandana okufakiwe kulokhu kukhulumisana, kuqina futhi kugcwalise ukubonakaliswa kwalesi sakhiwo. Futhi ngisho nezingane ezikhubazekile - izimpumputhe eziyizimpumputhe noma izithulu ngokumomotheka ngenxa yokuthinta ngobumnene namagama abathandekayo abazali. Futhi izingane aziphefumulwanga, abazali abangazinaki, ngokuyisisekelo ngemuva kokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yabo.
Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukumomotheka?
Kodwa ngisho nabazali abathandekayo nabanakekako kwenzeka ukuthi ingane iyamamatheka kancane noma ingamomotheka nhlobo. Ungesabi, ngoba zonke izingane zihluke kakhulu, bonke banesikhathi sabo sokumomotheka, kanti isimo sengqondo sihlukile - emva kwakho konke, umuntu kusukela ekuzalweni kwe-beech nokuthula, kanti omunye uhleka futhi uyamomotheka. Uma ingane yakho ingazange ithole izwe lokumamatheka inyanga nengxenye inyanga nengxenye, awunayo enye into kodwa ukufundisa ingane ukuba imomotheka. Ukwenza lokhu, thatha izandla zakho, ucindezele, uzwele futhi uzwele naye, futhi ungakhohlwa ukumamatheka ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ingane ifuna ukufana nawe, iphinda ubonakalise ubuso bakho futhi maduzane uzokunika ukumomotheka okwenziwe njalo. Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi ukushintshaniswa kokumomotheka - isisekelo sabo bonke ubudlelwane bezenhlalakahle, isisekelo sokwemvelo. Ukumamatheka komama kwenza ingane iqiniseke ukuthi izwe elizungezile linobungane futhi liphephile. Ukumamatheka kwengane kukhishwa yi-hormone yenjabulo emzimbeni womama, okunika amandla nokuzethemba, kukuvumela ukuba ukhohlwe
Kusukela lapho umntwana eqala ukumomotheka, uqala kanjalo ukwamukela ukubonakala kwakhe kunoma yimuphi umuntu, ikakhulukazi othandekayo nabathandekayo - umama nobaba. Ukuchichima umzimba wakhe omncane ngenjabulo ingane ikulungele ukunikeza wonke umuntu. Ukuqapha okukhulu ekukhethweni kozwela kuyoba kuphela eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala, lapho eyokhathazeka kakhulu ngabantu abanye abantu. Lokhu kuzoba yisibonakaliso sokuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kusendleleni.
Ukuze wenze ingane imomotheka emuva, khetha isikhathi lapho umntwana ekhululekile futhi ezolile, engalambile futhi engafuni ukulala. Okuhle kakhulu lapho ingane ifuna ukunakwa kwabazali. Kumntwana akayeki ukumomotheka, ungaba nesivikelo ukumthumelela ukumomotheka.