Lapho ingane ivela endlini, wonke amalungu omndeni azama ukumzungezela ngokunakekela, uthando nokunakekelwa. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi ingane iqale ukukhala futhi ngezinye izikhathi abazali abakwazi ukuqonda isizathu sokukhala okunjalo. Kubonakala sengathi umntwana ulungiswe kahle, udliwe, ugqoke, uxoxe naye, futhi abazali bavele bedidekile, kanjani ukusiza ukuzola ingane.
Ingane esanda kuzalwa isakhala njalo: kanjani ukuqonda lokho akufunayo?
Ngokuvamile abazali bayazibuza ukuthi kungani ingane ihlale ikhala ngenxa yesizathu esicacile. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kuwukuqala kokubheka, akukho zibonakaliso ezinjalo ezicacile, ezibonisa ukunganaki kwengane. Ingane encane ngeke ikhale ngaphandle kwesizathu. Uhlale enesizathu salokhu. Kungokuthi ngezinye izikhathi abazali abaqapheli ngokushesha izimpawu ezivela kumntwana.
Njengoba umntwana osanda kuzalwa engakwazi ukukhuluma, akakwazi ukutshela abazali bakhe ngezifiso, imizwa nemizwa yakhe ngaphandle kokuqala ukukhala. Ukumemeza kuyindlela yokukhulumisana, ithuba lokubonisa ukuthi okuthile okuhlangenwe nakho akusikho. Futhi izizathu zokukhala okunjalo zingase zihluke:
- Ngokuvamile ingane iqala ukukhala lapho ilambile. Ukukhala okunjalo kuvame ukuhambisana ne-reddening ebusweni, izinyane liqala ukudonsa izingxube zakhe phambili nokukhala kancane, ezifuna ukudla;
- Okuhlangenwe nakho kwezingane kuyathandeka ngenkathi kunesidonsa emanzi. Ngosizo lokukhala, uzisa abazali bakhe ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba ashintshe izingubo zakhe. Futhi ukukhala okunjalo kungaba noma kunini kosuku, lapho umntwana engasasebenzi kakhulu, ebonisa ngalendlela isimo sakhe;
- Izambatho ezingakhululekile nazo zingaba yisizathu sokukhala, okwenza kube nezinzwa ezingathandeki. Abazali kufanele babheke izingubo zengane ngokuseduze, mhlawumbe, endaweni ethile kwakukhona amafolda engeziwe phezu kwezingubo noma ukuxubha inkinobho. Kulokhu, ukukhala kuyashesha ngokushesha, njengoba umzuzwana ocasulayo uqedwa;
- ingane ikhathele ukulala ngephutha elilodwa. Esikhathini esiningi, ingane encane ichitha isikhathi esifanayo - ilele phansi. Akumangazi ukuthi amanga njalo angaba yisithukuthezi, ikakhulukazi uma kunezithakazelo eziningi ezungeze. Ingane ingabiza abazali bayo, ikhala kancane, kanjalo ibadonse amehlo futhi ifune ushintsho endaweni yabo. Kulesi simo, izingane ziyakuthanda kakhulu lapho zigqoke izikhonkwane, ngakho zithula ngokushesha;
- Ukushisa okungenakususwa ekamelweni kungabangela ukucasuka kwengane. Kungashisa noma, ngokuphambene, kubanda kakhulu. Uma eshisa, uqala ukuphazamisa futhi azame ukuphuma ezigqoke zakhe, ehambisa izandla zakhe imilenze. Uma efriziwe, okokuqala ingane ikhala ngokukhawuleza, bese kuthi ngokuthula nangesikhathi eside, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho ne-hiccup;
- ukukhala ngesikhathi sokudla kubonisa ukuthi ingane inezinkinga zempilo. Mhlawumbe, indlebe yakhe iyabuhlungu futhi ngesikhathi yokudla, ukugwinya kuyandisa ubuhlungu. Ngenkimbinkimbi yamanzi, ingane nayo ilukhuni ukuyidla, ngoba ikhala livaliwe. Ukukhala ngalesi simo kakhulu, ingane ingamemeza. Umama angakwazi ukususa i-aspirator snot futhi aqhubeke edla;
- Ukukhala emva kokudla kubonisa ukuthi ingane iphazamiseke yi-colic. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi emva kokudla kuyadingeka ukugcina ingane ekholomu ukuze igesi ibaleke;
- ukuqothulwa, njengesizathu sokunganeliseki kwengane, kuvame kakhulu ezinganeni ezikudla okufakelwayo. Ngenxa yokucasuka ngokweqile kwe-anus, umntwana angakhala ngokuzwakalayo nangokuzwakalayo;
- ingane ikhathele imvelo futhi ifuna ukulala, iqala ukugcoba futhi ingaphenduli kancane ekushintsheni okwenzeka nxazonke;
- ingane ifuna ukuxhumana nabazali bayo. Kulesi simo, ukukhala kusebenza njengesignali ekukhulumisaneni okunjalo.
- ngokuvamile ingane ingasabela ngokukhala ngenxa yezinguquko zesimo sezulu. Akukhona nje abantu abadala, kodwa futhi izingane ziyiziqhingi. Udinga ukukhokha ukunakekelwa kwengane ukuze unciphise ukukhathazeka kwakhe.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ingane ikhala njalo isikhathi eside?
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abazali baqala ukuqonda amandla wezwi, isiqu, isimo lapho umntwana ekhala khona. Futhi sebeqonde ngokucacile ukuthi yini ngempela ingane efunayo okwamanje. Ukucwaswa okunjalo ekukhaleni kwengane kubazali kwenzeka kuphela isikhathi lapho bazuzile khona futhi bazi ukuthi ingane yabo ikhala kanjani futhi nini. Kulesi simo, kulula ngabo ukusiza ngokushesha ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zomntwana.
Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala kubazali ukuthi umntwana uyakhala ngaphandle kwesizathu. Mhlawumbe lokhu kubangelwa ukutholakala kwesimiso somsana esilula kakhulu. Uma umntwana ejabule masinyane futhi ephendula ngokweqile emvelweni, kuyadingeka ukuba uchithe isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka emoyeni ovulekile, hhayi ukufaka umculo ophezulu noma i-TV phambi kwakhe, hhayi ukukhuluma ngamathoni aphakeme, ukunciphisa inani lezinywana eziphakeme kakhulu ezingakhulisa ukukhushulwa kakhudlwana kwengane . Yilokho, umsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali ukukhipha izici ezicasulayo.
Kungakhathaliseki isizathu sokukhala umntwana, kunemithetho eminingi yokuziphatha ebalulekile ukugcina:
- uma ngabe ingane iqale ukukhala, kufanele usabele ngokushesha kuyo: yenyuka, ubambe izibamba, udoti ekhanda;
- ukuqeda imbangela yokukhala: uma umntwana efuna ukudla, bese ukondla; uma kushisa, khona-ke emoyeni ekamelweni; lapho ezama ukuheha - mtshele indaba noma uhlabele ingoma;
- Abazali ngokwabo kudingeka bahlale bezolile, ngoba isimo sezinkinga emndenini sizoqinisa kuphela ukungezwani kwengane.
Uma ingane ingakwazi ukuzola isikhathi eside futhi zonke izinyathelo ezithathwe zingakusizi, ungaxhumana nomsizi wezengqondo oyosiza ukuqala ukuxhumana nengane futhi anikeze ithemba kubazali emakhono abo. Noma, uma kwenzeka ukusola ukugula ngokomzimba, shayela udokotela.
Ngokuvamile abazali bangazwa ukuthi abafuni ngaso leso sikhathi