Imindeni eminingi esikhathini sethu, lapho kukhona khona izingane - imindeni enomntwana oyedwa. Yiqiniso, akekho ophikisanayo ukuthi lokhu kukhethwa ngumzali ngamunye, kodwa kubalulekile ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuba ikhule ijikelezwe umzalwane noma udadewabo.
Ngempela, eqinisweni, izingane eziningana emndenini - kuhle, kokubili kubazali kanye nezingane. Abafowethu nodadewethu bayakwazi ukwakha isiyingi sabangane babo, babelane ngemfihlakalo nempumelelo, baxoxisane ngenhlebo futhi bakhulise uhlelo lokubamba umhlaba. Cabanga ngamaphi amathuba amangazayo "ingane yakho engashadile" ephuthelwayo, uma ikhula ngaphandle komfowenu noma udadewabo.
1. Emndenini omkhulu, akukaze kuvele umbuzo othi ubani oqala ukugeza. Emndenini omkhulu, konke kwakhiwe ngesimiso esithi: "Ubani owokuqala ukwenza lokho, sekwenzile."
2. Ungakhohlwa ngomzabalazo womhlaba onelungelo lokuhamba esihlalweni sangaphambili semoto yomzali.
3. Kodwa ngokuvamile uvame ukuhamba esihlalweni sangemuva futhi, ngokuqinisekile, ubonise ngesibindi umfowenu noma udadewabo ukuthi isibopho sesibhande singaphansi kwabo.
4. Nguwe kuphela umfowenu noma udade wakho ongabelana ngokudla okumnandi nakakhulu okuthandayo. Futhi ngempela ngokulinganayo.
5. Uma umfowenu noma udade ngenxa yamasu akho athola "ishaja", uthola injabulo yangempela. Lokhu kungenzeka kuphela ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwezihlobo.
6. Futhi futhi wonke umuntu uyazi isimo lapho emndenini omkhulu umama ukhohlwa amagama abo bonke abantwana nangaphambi kokukubiza uhlu lwabantu bonke. Akusilo yini isimangaliso!
Ukuhlolwa kwesikhashana kwezinhlelo zethelevishini kuqeda izimpi zangempela zethuba lokukhetha uhlelo noma ifilimu.
8. Futhi, uma uphuma empini kule mpi, awuyikukhulula kude nakwezandla zakho ukuze umzalwane noma udade angashintshi isiteshi.
9. Khumbula lo mzwelo lapho ushaya umfowenu noma udadewabo kakhulu, bese uzama ukuzola.
10. Uma emndenini omkhulu umama uthenge okuthile okhethekile, okumele umzalwane noma udade akufanele azi, khona-ke uba ingane enhle kakhulu kule planethi.
11. Uqeqeshwe kakhulu ekutshweni kwezingcingo zokusesha kwekhabhinethi yomunye umuntu ukuthi uma uzwa izinyathelo eziseduze zomfowenu noma udadewabo, ngokushesha ushiye isimo sobugebengu.
12. Izipho ezinhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni zingabalingani noma odadewethu, abahluke ngendlela engcolile.
13. Abazalwane nodade kuphela abazi isimo lapho omunye wabo ezama ukubuza abazali okuthile okubalulekile komunye, kodwa uthola ukwenqaba.
14. Futhi-ke, isikhathi esesabekayo uma uvela kubazalwane noma udade uzofunda ukuthi abazali bakhuluma nawe.
15. Ngesikhathi sokukhukhumazeka, awunanto ongayenza kodwa uhleka usulu umfowenu noma udadewabo.
16. Isikhathi esihle sokuthandana kwenzeka uma ulwazi "oluyimfihlakalo" lufinyelela kubazali emlonyeni womzalwane noma udadewabo.
17. Ubuso bakho uma umuntu evuma ukuthi bathandana nomfowenu noma udadewabo.
18. Futhi-ke, ubuso bakho ngenkathi umzalwane noma udade bekodwa, kodwa awukwazi ukujabulela ukubuka isimo esinjalo "esidabukisayo".
19. Abafowethu nodadewethu bakhetha ukuzama into emisha komunye nomunye. Futhi ngokuvamile kaningi akulungile.
20. Ukusabela kwakho ngokomzwelo akunakwenzeka uma umzalwane noma udade ethatha isikhundla sakho sokuphakanyiswa.
21. Izicelo zabafowethu nodadewethu zihlale zaneliseka ngokuphambene ngqo. Ikakhulukazi liphathelene nokudla.
22. Naphezu kokungalungi, umzalwane noma udade kuphela ozimisele ukusiza ezimweni ezinzima kakhulu.
23. Futhi, ebuhlotsheni obunjalo, akekho ophakathi: impi kuphela enonya noma uthando olungapheli.