Lapho umbhangqwana osemusha unamazibulo, bafuna ukuqala inqubo yokuxhumana naye ngokushesha. Kodwa-ke kuvela ukuthi omncane udinga ukuxhumana okuhluke ngokuphelele. Akukhona kulokho abantu abadala abakushoyo. Amantombazane afana nemilolotelo enesigqi futhi elula, ehambisana namahlumela nokunyakaza. Kuyini "poteshki", futhi yiziphi ezisetshenziswa kangcono uma usebenzisana nezingane kuze kube unyaka?
Kuyini i-poteshki?
Sekuyisikhathi eside, iRussia iqobile ingcebo ebalulekile - okuhlangenwe nakho okwenziwe kumlando. Sekuyisikhathi eside, izizukulwane zikagogo, ama-nannies, omama bebeka izingoma eziningi, amahlebezi kanye nemilolotelo.
Amaswidi - lokhu akuyona nje imisho emincane, izinkondlo, ezihamba ngokuqondile futhi zihambisane nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuzivocavoca nomntwana noma izenzo zakhe ezizimele: ukugqoka, ukudlala.
Yini edingekayo?
Izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zezingoma zokubeletha zingasetshenziselwa ukudlala nezingane, lapho sezivele zenza ukunyakaza okuthile ngokuzimela, futhi lokhu kwenziwa ngumama kanye nengane, ehambisana nezifundo ngezingoma.
Ukumomotheka kanye nemidvwebo yezingane okusetshenziselwa ukuphazamisa abantwana kuyamsiza futhi kumjabulise ngokushintshela into. Ngakho-ke, kaningi umama kunenkinga yokudla noma ukugeza umntwana, okuqala ukuba okungenangqondo. Ezwa i-poteshka efanayo, washesha wehlisa phansi wayesehlalisa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umlinganiso wezingane zokubeletha, ongakabi unyaka, ukhulisa isikhungo sakhe sokukhuluma, esebenzisa amakhono amakhono nokuhamba kahle, futhi kubangele ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo, ukukhuthaza ingane ukuba ithathe isinyathelo esizimele. Kubantu abaningi abadala, babukeka bengenangqondo futhi babonakala bengenangqondo, kodwa banikeza ingane injabulo.
Kodwa into enhle kakhulu ukuthi imilolotelo yezingane ezisiza ukuba kutholakale ukuthintana phakathi kwabazali nengane kusukela esemncane, ngokoqobo kusukela ekuzalweni kwakhe.
Iyiphi i-poteshki ekhona?
Kuze kube manje, kunoma yisiphi isitolo sezingane, umama uzokwazi ukuthola kalula iqoqo lemidlalo nemilolotelo yomlolozo yomncinyane. Kodwa, uma uzama, ukhumbule okuvame kakhulu ukuthi wonke umuntu uzwa: "Ladushki", "Soroka-Beloboka", "Sely-sat", njll. Nazi ezinye izibonelo zemidvwebo yezingane:
"Ukudwengula"
Lapha uvuka, welula,
Ushintshe kusukela ohlangothini kuya kwesinye!
Potyagushhechki! Potyagushhechki!
Zingaphi amathoyizi, i-rattle?
Wena, ithoyizi, uhlasele, uphakamise umntwana wethu!
Noma lokhu:
Ziphi izindlebe zethu?
Ukulalela ama-pestles!
Futhi ziphi amehlo?
Ukubuka izindabakwane!
Futhi amazinyo aphi?
Fihla isiponji!
Awu, umlomo wokukhiya!
Kukhona imithetho eminingana lapho udlala nezingane:
- Yenza lokhu ngesikhathi esithile. Okuhle kunakho konke, kuyoba amahora amabili ngemuva kokulala noma ngesikhathi sokudla, lapho ingane ingafuni ukuvula umlomo wayo eyedwa.
- Ungadluli. Akudingekile ukuba njalo futhi isikhathi eside isebenzise i-poteshki emdlalweni wezingane nezingane njengoba zisheshe zikhathele.
- Sebenzisa izinhlobo ezahlukene. Kungcono ukusebenzisa izinhlobo eziningana zemidlalo, usuku ngalunye luhlukile. Lokhu ngeke kusebenze ngokweqile imvuthuluka, futhi kuyoba ngcono ukuyikhumbula.
- Bobabili abazali kufanele badlale. Njengomthetho, umama uchitha isikhathi esiningi nengane kunokuba asebenze njalo emsebenzini nobaba, ubaba. Yingakho umntwana engathandi ukudlala noyise. Nokho, lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele anake ingane. Ukudlala nenzalo yakhe ngosizo lwezinkondlo zokubeletha, ungasheshe uqale ukuxhumana naye ngokushesha.
Ngemva kwesikhashana, i-kid izokwazi kakade yonke i-poteshki ngenhliziyo futhi ingabuyisela yona yedwa ngemuva kokucela kwabazali.
Sekudlule isikhathi eside kusukela imilolotelo yokuqala-izinkondlo ezivela ezinganeni ezincane. Kodwa, naphezu kwalokhu, abazange balahlekelwe ukufaneleka kwabo. Yingakho noma iyiphi ingane namhlanje kanye nabazali bayo abanesithakazelo esikhulu futhi injabulo izoyidlala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngemva kokukhula, ingane izobazisela yedwa. Ngakho-ke, singasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi imidlalo enjalo izongena kuphela ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo.