Kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokuzalwa kwengane, umama ngamunye ufuna ukugcina ubuhlobo obuseduze nengane yakhe ngokusebenzisa ukuxhumana. Yiqiniso, omncane akakwazi ukuqonda incazelo yamazwi futhi ngeke akwazi ukuphendula.
Kodwa lokhu akuyona inkinga: kulula ukusungula uxhumane nosana olusanda kuzalwa ngosizo lwezinkondlo zezingane, izingoma, imilolotelo. Amaswidi - le nkondlo elula, okuyinto efinyeleleke kumntanami izokutshela mayelana nezwe elizungezile, vula imikhosi yokunakekelwa yansuku zonke ibe ngumdlalo ohlekisayo.
Kungani sidinga imilolotelo nemilolozo yabantwana?
Abazali abaningi bayashesha ukwethula ingane yabo yobuciko bendabuko. Kodwa ngeze. Cishe, ngamunye wethu uzokwazi ukukhumbula izinkondlo ezimbalwa kanye nezingoma kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi umama noma ugogo utshele. Futhi lokhu kusho okuningi, ngoba uma imilolotelo yama-nursery yayingeyona imfundo emvelweni kanye nombala okhanyayo ongokomzwelo, bekungaba nzima ukugcinwa enkumbulweni iminyaka eminingi kangaka.
Imimoya ingasiza hhayi nje ukuthokoza nokuhlehlisa ingane, bafaka amakhono okuhlanzeka nokuyala amakhemikhali, ukuletha imvuthu hhayi nje kuphela kumathoyizi akhe okuqala - ama- rattles , kodwa nakwezinto ezizungezile, ukuthuthukisa isiteleka sengqondo, emva kwakho konke, imilolotelo yokugqoka - lena yinto yokuqala abazali. Esikhathini esingadalwa isizukulwane esisodwa, izingoma kanye nemilolotelo yezingane ezincane kunazo zonke, incazelo ejulile yokuphila, imibono yokuziphatha kanye namasiko isetshenzisiwe.
Amaswidi ezinsana
Cishe ngokushesha ngemva kokubeletha, umntwana uvulekile ekukhulumisaneni. Amaswidi namaculo wezingane kuzosiza ukwenza le nqubo ibe nengqondo futhi ijabulise ingane kanye nabazali.
Kumele utshele izinkondlo ngezwi elimnandi ngezwi nokuzwakala kwesigqi, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhohlwa ngesimo sobuso. Ngakho-ke, ingane kulula ukubona ulwazi futhi ithuthukise isimo sakhe somzwelo. Ngempela ufana nomntwana, uma umama ezohlabelela ingoma noma atshele imilolotelo ehlelekile phakathi nezinqubo ezivamile, njengokugqoka, ukugeza, ukudla, ngenkathi eshaya izandla, imilenze, emuva, isisu. Lokhu kuzokwenza isikhathi sakho sijabulise futhi sisebenzise.
Izingoma zezingane kanye nemilolotelo yezingane kufanele zibe mfushane futhi zilula. Lapho uneminyaka eyizinyanga eziyisithupha, ungethula ingane izinkondlo ezifundisa izingxenye zomzimba. Bazosiza umsizi ukuba avele lapho enesifo khona, lapho amapenki, amehlo njalonjalo. Ezinye izinkondlo zezingane zibhekisela emidlalweni yokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono amakhono emoto kanye nezikhungo zokukhuluma zobuchopho, isibonelo, wonke owaziwa ngokuthi "Ladushki":
Ladushki-ladushki!
Bekuphi - ngogogo!
Yini abayidla - kashka,
Yini ephuza - isixha!
Ladushki-ladushki,
Siphindela futhi kunogogo!
Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-poteshki yenzelwe ukubamba iqhaza okusebenzayo komntwana lapho kwenzeka, uma ingane ingakakwazi ukwenza izinyathelo ezihlelekile, abazali bayenza izinyathelo zokuhamba.
Khupha izingane emva konyaka
Oomama abaningi bayazi ukuthi izingane ezinengqondo ezingenangqondo nazo ziyiminyaka emibili noma emithathu. Lesi yisigaba esinzima ekuthuthukiseni nasekuthuthukiseni ubuntu, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abazali bahlale bexhumane ngokomzwelo nangokomoya nengane kule nkathi. Futhi kulo msebenzi obunzima uzosiza i-poteshki. Ungakwazi ukutshela isigqi futhi uphazamise umbala uma engafuni ukugeza noma ukugqoka. Ukufundisa i-poteshki utshele ingane ukuthi akulungile yini ukuhaha nokucasula abanye. Ezinye izinhlobo zezinkondlo zibonisa isidingo somsebenzi, isibonelo, njenge "Forty-Crow": "
I-Forty-Raven
I-Porridge yayipheka,
Wayengumhlengikazi!
Lokhu kwanikezwa,
Lokhu kwanikezwa,
Lokhu kwanikezwa,
Lokhu kwanikezwa,
Kodwa akazange akwenze:
"Awuzange uthwale amanzi,
Awuzange uthathe izinkuni,
Awushisanga isitofu,
I-bummer fly lazy! "
Izingane kule minyaka ziyi-fidgets zangempela, zisebenza futhi zifuna ukwazi. Kulesi sixhumanisi, ukulimala nokuvuna akunakugwema. Uma ingane iwa noma ilimazekile, ungazama ukumnciphisa phansi ngosizo lwemilolo yezingane.