Incwadi ethandwayo kaWilliam Atkinson I-Power of Thought, noma iMagnetism of Personality, inikeza wonke umuntu ithuba lokuzijwayeza izifundo ezingu-15 ezivumela ukuthonya abanye abantu. Akumangalisi ukuthi le ncwadi yathola ngokushesha impumelelo: cishe wonke umuntu amaphupho okuba nesipho sokukholisa nokukwazi ukufuna kwabanye abantu. Noma kunjalo, amandla amakhulu okucabanga angasetshenziswa nje kuphela ngemiyalelo ka-Atkinson.
I-magnetism yomuntu wesintu
Abanye abantu ngokwemvelo banalo i-magnetism yomuntu - ikhono elikhethekile ngaphandle kokuzama ukuheha abanye, ukuba babonakale kumuntu onamandla, ongaqondakali, onobuciko, ukuba yimfihlo yimuphi ofuna ukukuthinta. Ubuntu obumangalisayo, njengombuso, akazi ukuthi lawa mandla avelaphi kunengqondo yabantu, kodwa ngokushesha ufunda ukuyisebenzisa ngenzuzo.
Ukuqaphela umuntu onjalo kungaba okulula: kuyakhanga, kuvuselele ukuzethemba, kubonakala kunamandla amakhulu angaphakathi. Awusoze wambona umuntu onjalo engabaza amazwi akhe - ukubonisa ukuzethemba kwakhe emehlweni, izingxoxo, izibonakaliso. Njengomthetho, abantu baya kubantu abakhulu, bahlonishwa, balalela umbono wabo.
Indlela yokusebenzisa amandla okucabanga?
Ngisho noma ungekho phakathi kwabanenhlanhla abanikezwa amandla omzimba wokuzalwa, ungakwazi ukufeza kahle lokho okufunayo. Amandla okucabanga azosiza othandweni, emisebenzini, ekukhuleni komuntu siqu nakanjani noma iyiphi insimu yomsebenzi. Kubalulekile ukufunda ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani ngendlela efanele.
Isibonelo, ufuna ukuthola ukuthandwa, ufuna abantu bafinyelele kuwe, cela iseluleko sakho. Kulesi simo, udinga ukusebenza ezinkolelweni zakho nasekuziphatheni, futhi amandla okucabanga azokusiza ukuba ufinyelele okufunayo.
Cabanga uma unezinkolelo ezimbi. Isibonelo: "Angizange ngithande abantu", "akekho ongithandayo", "Angiboni 100". Noma yiyiphi inkolelo ehleliwe ekhanda lakho, ubuchopho bubona njengeqembu. Ngenxa yalokho, unake kuphela lezo zenzakalo ezisekela umcabango onikeziwe. Ukuze ubuyekeze ubuntu bakho, udinga ukushintsha izinkolelo zakho zibe zilungile.
Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokuthi "Angithandi muntu" udinga ukuzifundisa ukuthi ucabangele ukuthi "Ngiyathanda abantu, bayangifinyelela". Memezela lo mqondo izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, futhi uzobona ubuchopho njengeqembu. Ngenxa yalokho, i-angle yakho yombono iyoshintsha, futhi wena, ngokuphambene nalokho, uzogxila ezimweni lapho abantu bakhishwa khona, bahlanganise le nkolelo nokuthola isiqinisekiso.
Ngokufanayo, umuntu angasebenza ngezinkolelo kunoma iyiphi insimu. Ungalindeli imiphumela esheshayo: kuzodingeka ubeke imibono emibi ngezindlela ezinhle phakathi kwezinsuku ezingu-15-20, ngaphambi kokuba ukukholelwa okusha kujwayele ikhanda lakho bese uqala ukwenza.