Uma isimo esiyinkimbinkimbi senzekile empilweni yakho futhi awukwazi ukuyixazulula, kungcono ukuxhumana nochwepheshe. Kodwa akunakwenzeka njalo ukuchitha isikhathi nemali ekuvakashelweni kwesazi sengqondo. Khona-ke ungasiza ezincwadini ezikhethekile. Amabhuku emqondweni wengqondo yomndeni azosiza ukuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani futhi uzoqondisa imicabango nezenzo ngendlela efanele. Kulesi sihloko uzothola ukukhethwa kwezincwadi ezingcono kakhulu kwengqondo yomndeni. Siyabonga kubo uzokwazi ukuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo ephathelene nawe.
Amabhuku on the psychology of ubudlelwane bomndeni
- "Psychology of ubudlelwano bomndeni." I-Karabanova OA . Le ncwadi iyisiqondiso esilandelayo ezinkingeni zobudlelwano bomshado. Izici zemindeni ehambisanayo, kanye ne-disharmonious zibhekwa ngokuningiliziwe. Umlobi ukhuluma ngobuhlobo obungokomzwelo phakathi kwabantwana nabazali, wembula okucacile uthando lomama nobaba. Izinto ezibalulekile emfundweni yomndeni zichazwe kahle kakhulu.
- "Kungani amadoda eqamba amanga, futhi abesifazane bekhala?" U-Alan Pease, uBarbara Pease . Abalobi bangabasebenzi abaphezulu kakhulu emkhakheni wezinkinga zomqondo womndeni futhi bamane nje bachaze okuyinkimbinkimbi. Le ncwadi inikeza inqwaba yezibonelo ezivela ekuphileni kwangempela, yembula izihloko ezibucayi kakhulu, kunomqondo wokuhlekisa . Abalobi bazama ukuxazulula isisombululo sezinkinga ezivela embonweni osebenzayo futhi bathinte esihlokweni sobudlelwane obuseduze phakathi kwabashade, ngoba kaningi izinkinga emndenini zihlobene nalolu daba olubucayi.
- "Amadoda avela ku-Mars, abesifazane baseVenus." John Grey . Ngokusho kwabantu ababhekene nalokhu "inzuzo", le ncwadi ingumdayisi wangempela futhi ongcono kakhulu. Lo msebenzi wembula lesi simo kusuka emibonweni ehlukene: kokubili nowesifazane nowesilisa. Ungayifunda, kokubili kumibhangqwana eshadile, nokukhulula abesifazane namadoda.