Ezinye izinsizwa zithobekile kangangokuthi azidingeki isibindi ngisho nokumema into yokububula ngosuku. Yiqiniso, ungathatha lesi simo ngokwakho. Kodwa, kanjani ukuziphatha ngokuqhubekayo nomuntu onamahloni kangaka, futhi uphumelele ubuhlobo phakathi kokunye okungaphezu nje kobungane? Sizokukhuluma ngalokhu ngokuningiliziwe.
Ungathanda kanjani umfana othobekile?
Abantu abathobekile bayamangalisa futhi ngezinye izikhathi awukwazi njalo ukucabanga ukuthi yini engqondweni yabo. Mhlawumbe nawe uyamthanda, kodwa ngalokhu, futhi, akaqapheli ukusho. Futhi, uma uqaphela ukuthi umthandi wakho uyaziqhenya, uthola amahloni noma aze avimbele ukuzungezile kwakho - Yebo, lokhu kungase kube uphawu olucacile lokuthi le ndoda ayinamahloni kuphela, naphezu kweminyaka yakhe, kodwa futhi ethandana nawe . Kodwa kuhlale kuphazamisa umdanso, futhi lapha kubonakala ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo kungakhuluma nje ngokuntuleka kwamakhono okuxhumana .
Ngakho-ke, yini okumelwe uyenze uma umfana engathobekile, ukuthi ungamtshela kanjani futhi ngokujwayelekile, lokho akuzwayo - sizozama ukuphendula lokhu ngosizo lweziphakamiso ezilandelayo:
- Uhlala ebuka wena? - Awukwazi ukwenza lutho, ngoba usuvele unesithakazelo kumfana osemusha.
- Uma igama lakho engxoxweni njalo lenza ukumomotheka ngokuzibandakanya - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sokuthi uthanda umfana othobekile kakhulu kusuka kumvelo wakho.
- Yamukela ngaso sonke isikhathi ukunikezwa kosizo kubantu abanjalo - empeleni ngokuzikhandla bayabantu abanozwela abahlale bekulungele ukusiza.
- Ngento yokuzwelana kwakhe, abafana abanamahloni kakhulu
inhlonipho ekhethekile.
Indlela yokukhohlisa umuntu othobekile?
- Yenza kucace kumuntu othobekile ukuthi awukhathazi ngaphezu kokuba nje abangane.
- Mcele usizo. Masize endlini yakho, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uthenge ibhodlela lewayini.
- Ungalokothi ugobe induku. Ungapheli ngokweqile.
Khumbula, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekusebenzelaneni nabantu abanjalo ukubekezela, futhi uma uthando luqinile kakhulu, yenza izinto ezimbalwa ezithokozisa kakhulu.