Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi amaphupho omuntu ongathandabuzwayo kuphela ukubonakaliswa kwesifiso sangaphakathi sokuthola ukunakwa kwamalungu obulili obuhlukile. Abalobi bezincwadi eziningi zokuphupha babheka ngendlela ehlukile. Ukuhumusha kuyadingeka ukuzama ukukhumbula okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka imininingwane.
Kungani uphupha lokwenza uthando?
Uma kwakudingeka wenze uthando endaweni yomphakathi - kuwuphawu lokulimala nezinkinga. Kubantu abanobuhlobo, iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukwehlukanisa nomthandekayo wakho. Ukwenza uthando nomyeni noma umfana kusho ukuthi kufanele ulindele izinkinga ebuhlotsheni, okungabangela ukuhlukanisa. Iphupho lapho kubambisana khona uthando lomlingani wesilisa ocansini obufanayo, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi umporozi uvame ukuphanga konke okukhona empilweni yakhe. Ubulili ebumnyameni obumnyama buyingqayizivele yokuthandana empilweni yangempela nokuthola ulwazi olubalulekile. Ukwenza uthando nomuntu ongaziwayo kuyisibonakaliso sokunganeliseki empilweni obuseduze empeleni. Iphupho lokulala ocansini nomuntu owayengumthandi noma umyeni wakhe ngaphambili kubonisa ukuthi kukhona ukuhlupheka noma kungumhlangano wokungalindelekile. Ukubuka indlela abanye abantu abenza ngayo uthando, khona-ke lophupho unesithunzi esiphansi.
Kungani uphupha lokwenza uthando nesihlobo?
Amaphupho anjalo aphezu kwamathuba okuthola amathemba nokuvula amathuba okuvula. Kukhona umbono wokuthi ukwenza uthando nesihlobo kungumngane womshado ngokubala. Ubulili nomfowenu noma ubaba kuyisibonakaliso sokuthandana ngokomzwelo noma lezi zihlobo zivame ukusivimbela empilweni yangempela.
Amaphi amaphupho anephupho othandweni?
Mayelana nezinguquko ezihle empilweni yakhe siqu zizobonwa ngamaphupho mayelana nokumanga, iminyango kanye nentwasahlobo. Izizukulwane zothando ziyizilwane, isibonelo, ingonyama ithembisa inkaba entsha, futhi ihlengethwa ibe ngumshado oqinile. Mayelana nomshado utshela i-nightfall iphakethe lezimpisi.