Uma ungazange uphumule ngamanzi futhi ngokungazelelwe ube nephupho, lapho ugeza khona, kungaba nomqondo ozwakalayo. Okuhle kunakho konke, uma ephusheni uzibona ngokwakho emanzini athulile, ahlanzekile ahlanzekile. Ngokuvamile amaphupho alo hlobo afanekisela impumelelo emsebenzini, izindaba zomuntu siqu, kanye nenhlalakahle yezezimali, mhlawumbe maduzane ulindele iqembu elimhlophe emsebenzini futhi ukwanda kwimiholo.
Kuthiwa uma uphupha ngokubhukuda emfuleni ongcolile - kufanekisela ukulimaza esikhathini esiseduze esikhathini esiyinkimbinkimbi ekuphileni. Umuntu angase abhekane nokuhluleka kanye nezinhlobo ezahlukene zezifo, kodwa uma ubona iphupho elinjalo, ungakhathazeki, futhi uzilungiselele kangcono kusengaphambili ukuxazulula izinkinga eziseduze futhi uzame ukwenza konke ukuze umzimba ungangeni ekuguleni.
Kungani uphupha ngokuhamba ngomkhumbi?
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ubukhulu bomfula umuntu agijimayo ephusheni kubalulekile, ngoba luphawu lwezinto ezingabalulekile kuphela, kodwa futhi namandla omzimba womuntu. Abantu abaphupha ukuthi bayabhukuda emfuleni omkhulu, ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho kaFreud, bahlukaniswa nemicabango yokuqala yokuziphendulela. Kuyisibonakaliso sothando olukhulu. Abantu abaningi bazibuza ukuthi yini iphupho lokubhukuda ngaphesheya komfula - isibonakaliso esiphelele sokuthi masinyane zonke izifiso zakho zizoba ngokoqobo.
Abantu abaphupha ukuthi bazama emfuleni abakwazi ukwesaba, ngoba iphupho lolu hlobo libonisa ukuthi unabangane abaqotho abangasoze balahlekelwa futhi bazohlala bezosiza. Uma umuntu egeleza emfuleni - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokunqoba kokuqala. Yingakho, uma ubhukuda emfuleni ugqoke ngokugcwele, uthembiswa imali eningi. Kufanelekile ukulalela uma uphupha emfuleni bese uphahla izingubo, ngakho-ke kungaholela emiphumeleni engathandeki. Iphupho oyifaka emfuleni liyisibonakaliso sokuqala komdwebo omhlophe empilweni.