Kuze kube nini inyanga yokukhulelwa ungaba nobulili?

Ubuhlobo bobulili buyingxenye ebalulekile empilweni yimuphi umbhangqwana. Isikhathi sokulinda umntwana asinjalo. Abanye omama esikhathini esizayo balahlekelwa isithakazelo ekusondeleni, futhi abaningi, ngokuphambene nalokho, kwandisa isifiso sobulili. Kodwa njengoba abashadile abanezinkinga besaba ukulimaza imvuthuluka yabo, banesithakazelo embuzweni wokuthi iyiphi inyanga yokukhulelwa ongenza ucansi. Abaningi bazoba nesithakazelo ukuthola ulwazi ngalesi sihloko.

Yini okufanelekile ukwazi ngezocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?

Ngesinye isikhathi udokotela angaluleka umama ozayo ukuthi angafuni ukuya ocansini. Kungase kube nezizathu ezihlukene zalokhu:

• izifo ezithathelwanayo;
• usongo lokuphuphuma kwesisu, ithoni yesisu;
• i-placenta previa;
• uma ukukhulelwa kwangaphambilini kwaphazanyiswa ukukhulelwa kwesisu.

Kunezinye izinkampani eziphikisanayo, okuzoboniswa udokotela ngazo.

Esimweni esijwayelekile sempilo yomama ozayo, odokotela abavunyelwe ukulala ocansini. Kodwa uma lo mbhangqwana ulindele ukuzalwa kwamawele, ubulili akufanele busebenze kancane. Kukholelwa ukuthi kungcono ukunciphisa ukusondelana ezinkathini zokuqala.

Kufanele ukhethe izimo lapho umphumela wesisu kukhishwa khona. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukusebenzisa amakhondomu.

Zingaki izinyanga zokukhulelwa ungaba nobulili?

Ngokuvamile, obaba besikhathi esizayo besaba ukusondelana nomkakhe, ikakhulukazi esikhathini esizayo. Bakhathazeka ngokuthi bangalimaza ingane. Kodwa uma owesifazane ezwa kahle, unesifiso socansi, futhi udokotela akabonanga noma yikuphi ukuphikisana, ngokobulili kungenzeka cishe sonke isikhathi.

Abanye ochwepheshe, ukuphendula umbuzo wenyanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ucansi nabesifazane abakhulelwe, bathi ezinyangeni ezingu-9 (kusukela emavikini angu-36) kuyadingeka ukunciphisa ucansi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi i-orgasm ibangela ukuhlukumeza okukhulu kwesibeletho, futhi lokhu kungabangela ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngesikhathi esifanayo. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi umntwana usungulwa, kodwa kungcono ukungabi nengozi. Ezinganeni ezizalwa eneminyaka engu-8, uhlelo lokuphefumula luhlukile kulabo abazalwa emavikini angu-40, futhi umntwana angase abe nezinkinga ngokuvula amaphaphu.

Kodwa odokotela abathile bancoma nokuba nobulili ngaphandle kwekhondomu ngaphambi nje kosuku olubalulekile. Phela, ukubeletha ngaphambi kokubeletha komama ozayo akusekho okubi, futhi izinto ezikhona emdlelweni, zibambe iqhaza ekunciphiseni umlomo wesibeletho.

Uma owesifazane enokungabaza, angakwazi njalo ukuhlola umjozi wezinzwa, zingaki izinyanga ongalala naye nabesifazane abakhulelwe.