Manje eHollywood, "ukusebenza" kuyaqhubeka nokubona abadumile ekuhlukumezweni ngokocansi nokudlwengulwa. Futhi uma ngaphambilini abadlali abathandwayo kuphela, amamodeli nabahlabeleli besho amadoda acebile nabathonya kulokhu, khona-ke maduzane igama lomfazi wokuqala - uMariah Carey uvele emaphephandabeni. Kodwa-ke, kwakuyiyona nje iphuzu le-iceberg, ngoba izolo abezindaba bashicilele ukuvuma okwesabekayo komdlali waseMelika u-Anthony Edwards, ongatholakala kalula kumateyipu "I-Ambulance" ne "Best Shooter", owatshela ukuthi esemusha wayehlukumezwa ngokocansi ngumdumo eqondiswa nguGary Goddard.
U-Anthony esemncane wayengakwazi ukukhuluma ngokuhlukunyezwa
Umdlali oneminyaka engu-55 ubudala uqale ukuxoxisana naye ngokutshela ukuthi uyazi kanjani noNkulunkuludard. Yilokho okwakushiwo u-Edwards ngalokhu:
"Ngaqala ukuhlangana noGary lapho ngineminyaka engu-12 ubudala. Naphezu kokuthi umehluko eminyakeni yobudala sasineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili nje kuphela, u-Goddard wangenza umbono ongenakulinganiswa kimi, waba yingcindezi yami ebusweni bami. Kusho ukuthini kimi? Yebo, ngokushesha kakhulu waba umeluleki wami, umngane, uthisha ... Wangifundisa ukuthi ngiyabonga ubungane, wabonisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukutadisha kahle, futhi-ke, wafundiswa ukuba abe nesibopho sezenzo nezenzo zabo. Naphezu kwakho konke lokhu, wayengumuntu ohamba ngezinyawo.Lapho ngineminyaka engu-14 umama waqala ingxoxo ebaluleke kakhulu nami. Uzwile amahemuhemu ukuthi uGary wayenamathele kubangani bakhe abancane. Ngaphezu kwami "gang" yethu kwaba abanye abafana 4. Sonke sasizungezwe ukunakekelwa kukaGary. Angisayikuqonda ukuthi wakwenza kanjani ngokuhlakanipha kangaka. Sibone kuye isithombe sakhe futhi asikholelwa ukuthi wayengenasithakazelo sothando kuphela kithi. Ngabe mina nomama sasingavumi ukuthi uNkulunkuludard wayehlukumeza ngokocansi nami. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umngane wami omkhulu wangivuma ukuthi uGary wamdlwengula, kodwa nami angikwazi ukutshela lokhu kubantu abadala. Ngisazizwa ngingumfokazi, indoda engakwazi ukuvikela umngane wakhe, kodwa ngenxa yokwesaba ayengakwazi.
Ngicabanga izikhathi eziningi ngokuthi kungani ubungane noGary kubaluleke kakhulu kimi. Ngicabanga ukuthi ubaba, ongakwazi ukunginika uxhumano oluthile lwangokomzwelo, washo konke. Wayesegula futhi njalo ehlushwa ukucindezeleka ngemva kwempi. U-Goddard wazi ukuthi ngisengozini futhi wenza konke okwenzela le gale empilweni yami. "
Emva kwalokho u-Edwards wanquma ukutshela ukuthi kungani engavumelani nobugebengu bomqondisi odumile kunina:
"Uyazi, abahamba ngezinyawo bangabantu abahlakaniphile kakhulu. Bayazi kahle ukuthi izingane zithinta kanjani i-psychology futhi ziqonde ukuthi zingasetshenziswa kanjani. Wabe esitshela kaningi ngothando, okubangela ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uGary wasenza sizizwe sinecala ngalokho okwenzekayo endaweni yethu. Ngesizathu esithile, bonke abafana bacabanga ukuthi ngokuziphatha kwabo bavusa uNkulunkuludard ukuziphatha okungcolile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwakukhona njalo ukwesaba ebuhlotsheni bethu. Ukwesaba ukuthi ubuhlobo bethu buzobonakala ngabanye futhi buzolahlwa ngokweqile, kanye nokwesaba ukuthi sizoxoshwa phakade ezweni esijwayele kulo. NjengoGary kunciphisa ukuhlukumezeka okukhulu ezinganeni, okuyinto izisulu ezizobe zithwala kuyo yonke impilo yazo. Ukuze ngisuse konke lokhu, nginesikhathi eside sokuphathwa ukwelashwa. Efana ne-Goddard kufanele ihlukaniswe nomphakathi, ikakhulukazi kubantwana. "
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U-Anthony wazama ukuthethelela uGary
Futhi ekupheleni kwengxoxo yakhe u-Edwards wanquma ukukhuluma ngesikhatsi ebona uNkulunkuludard okokugcina:
"Manje angizange ngitshele ukuthi ngineminyaka engakanani lapho ngiqaphela konke ubungane obubi noGary. Ngikhumbula kuphela ukuthi kwakunzima kimi futhi ngidinga usizo lomhlengikazi. Kuhle ukuthi abangane bami bangikhuthaza udokotela omuhle kakhulu ofundisa ngamaqembu. Uma uphakathi kwabantu abaye bahamba ngaleyo ndlela, kulula kakhulu ukuba ukhulume ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi ekukhuleni. Ngaphathwa isikhathi eside kakhulu ... Ukwelashwa kwahlala iminyaka eminingi, kuze kube yilapho ekugcineni nginomuzwa wokuthi kube lula.Ngesikhathi sokugcina ngibona uNkulunkuludard eminyakeni engu-22 edlule. Lo mhlangano wawungalindelekile futhi kwenzeka esikhumulweni sezindiza. Ngacabanga ukuthi sizophonsa amagama ambalwa, kodwa uGary waqala ukungicela ukuba ngithethelelwe. Uthi uzisola ngokuziphatha kwakhe eminyakeni eminingi edlule. Ngabe sengibona ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuthethelela. Naphezu kokuthi ngisazibona njengendlovukazi, ngazama ukuthola incazelo yezenzo zakhe. Noma kunjalo, konke kwashintsha eminyakeni engu-4 eyedlule, lapho umshini wezindaba uvela ulwazi olulandelayo ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili kwentsha nokudlwengula. Eqinisweni, ngathukuthele. Bengingazi ukuthi ngingaphila nokuthi ngubani okufanele ngikholelwe. Kwadingeka ngiphinde ngibuyele kumthandi. Ngaphandle kwakhe, angikwazi ukuphuma emibonweni yami embi. "