Imishado, lapho abashadile abanomthelela omkhulu weminyaka yobudala, njalo bawela ngaphansi kwemibono yomphakathi, omunye umuntu uyalahla, omunye ukhonjiswe. Kodwa uma othandweni olunjalo luthando lubusa, izibalo azibe zingabalulekile.
Umongameli osemusha nomfelandawonye waseFrance, u-Emmanuelle Macron, onguFulentshi abanethemba eliphezulu, wakwazi ukumangaza abakhethi bakhe: unkosikazi wezombangazwe iminyaka engu-64, kanti yena wayeneminyaka engu-39 ubudala. Isigodlo sase-Elysee okokuqala sithatha okuthakazelisayo futhi engavamile embonweni womphakathi wokuqala wezwe.
Ubani lona - owesifazane wokuqala waseFrance?
Umfazi wamanje kaMacron Brigitte wayengumfundisi wakhe eminyakeni yakhe yesikole. Futhi lapho u-Emmanuel osemncane eneminyaka engu-16 ubudala, wathembisa uthisha wakhe othandekayo ukuthi uzomenza abe ngumkakhe, naphezu kokuthi uneminyaka engama-24 ubudala kunaye. Futhi wayengumuntu wezwi, ngo-2007 bashade. Nokho, ngaphambi kwalesi sikhathi esiphuthumayo kwakudingeka bahambe ngendlela emincane yezithiyo.
Konke kwaqala kanjani?
Indaba yothando phakathi kwothisha wezincwadi bese umfundi weJesuit Lyceum e-Amiens waqala ngombuthano wezemidlalo, owaholwa nguBrigitte Tronier. Khona-ke u-Emmanuel Macron osemusha wammema ukuba abhale ukudlala ndawonye. Phakathi nomsebenzi ohlangene wokudlala, u-Brigitte waqala ukulinganisa umfana phakathi kwabanye abafundi futhi, ekugcineni, wamnqoba ngokuphelele.
Izithiyo zokujabula
Ngesikhathi umongameli wamanje waseFrance etshela owakhethiweyo ukuba amshade naye, wayeneminyaka engu-16 kuphela ubudala, futhi wayeneminyaka engaba ngu-41 ubudala. Uthisha wayengowesifazane oshadile futhi wakhulisa izingane ezintathu, enye yendodakazi yakhe yayingumfundi ofunda naye ngo-Emmanuel.
Yiqiniso, abazali bomfana babengahambisani nobuhlobo obunjalo futhi ekuqaleni babecabanga ukuthi indodana yabo imane nje inqume ukuba i-priudarit yothandana naye, indodakazi yothisha.
Kodwa-ke, lapho beqaphela ukuthi izitatimende zendodana yakhe akuyona amahlaya, futhi lo mfana wayezimisele, abazali bakhe bamthumelele ukuyofunda eParis, kanti uthisha naye wacelwa ukuba ashiye indodana yakhe okungenani engu-18 ubudala. Nokho, ngokuphendula, bezwa kuBrigitte ukuthi akakwazanga ukuthembisa noma yini.
Khona-ke iminyaka eminingi yamakholi nothando yaqala kude. Abathandekayo bangalenga amahora efonini, futhi, njengoba uBrigitte ekhumbula, ngesinyathelo ngesinyathelo u-Emmanuel wanqoba konke ukumelana kwakhe nokubekezela.
Happy Together
Uma uthando lwe-platonic oluye lwakha ubuhlobo bangempela, lo mbhangqwana uthula, futhi uthi lokhu kusebenza kuphela kulabo ababili, ngakho lolu lwazi luzohlala luyimfihlakalo. Kodwa ngonyaka ka-2007, uBrigitte wanquma ukuza eParis ku-Emmanuel.
Ngesikhathi eseqedile kakade. Cishe ngokushesha, abathandi bashada. Umyeni ngaleso sikhathi wayeneminyaka engaba ngu-30, nomakoti - iminyaka engu-54.
Umshado womongameli waseFrance wesikhathi esizayo wenziwa ekhanda likaLe Touquet elikhangayo ehholo ledolobha. Lo mbhangqwana wanikeza isifungo sokuthandana okuphakade, u-Emmanuel wathi uyathokozisa abazali nabantwana bakaBrigitte ngokusekela, futhi waphetha inkulumo yakhe ngale ndlela:
"Nakuba singewona umbhangqwana ojwayelekile, kodwa nokho singumlingani wangempela!"
Manje umbhangqwana u-Macronov usuvele unesiza izingane ezingu-7 ezivela ezinganeni zikaBridget. Yiqiniso, "umkhulu" u-Emmanuel oneminyaka engu-39 ubudala akabizwanga, bamnikeza igama elithi "daddy" eliphansi lesiNgisi. Ngombuzo wokuthi ngabe umongameli uyazisola ngokuthi wayengenabo abantwana bakhe, uMakron uyaphendula:
"Angidingi izingane eziphilayo, noma abazukulu bezinto eziphilayo."
Umholi waseFrance ukhuluma ngenkosikazi yakhe emhlabeni, abashadile bahlala ndawonye. Kungamanga ukuthi uBridget wasiza ngokungathí sina umyeni wakhe emkhankasweni wokhetho, waze wabhala izinkulumo zezinkulumo zakhe, konke lokhu ukuze "abe ndawonye."