Isipho somthandi woNyaka Omusha

Unyaka omusha uyiholide eliqhakazile nelomusa, lapho ufuna ukujabulisa khona othandekayo wakho, ngokubonisa isipho. Kodwa-ke, kuthiwani uma futhi enomfazi, ukunikeza izipho kulokhu? Emva kwakho konke, uma unikela okuthile okubalulekile, ungenza umonakalo kumuntu, kodwa akukho lutho olungeke lunikezwe noma yini. Kubalulekile ukuhlinzeka konke ukuze okwamanje okwamanje kube kokubili enhliziyweni ethandekayo, futhi kungathathi hlangothi kusuka ekubukeni kwabahlobo.

Izici zesipho somthandi oshadile, okudingeka uwakhumbule

Indoda eshadile mayelana nanoma yiziphi zezinto zakhe ezintsha kufanele ukwazi ukuthi "zinikezwe emsebenzini" noma "zivela kumngane". Ngokusekelwe kulokhu, umthandi onyakeni omusha angaboniswa njengesipho into edingekayo futhi ehlakaniphile. Isibonelo, i-DVR emotweni, isikhwama, incwadi, izesekeli zekhompyutha, idayari , isikhala, ikhalenda, isethi yamapenki amahle. Uhlu lungenziwa ngokuqhubekayo kuze kube phakade. Futhi akukhathaleki ukuthi konke lokhu ekuboneni kuqala kubonakala kungabonakali, kodwa othandekayo uzokukhumbula ngawe, esebenzisa lezi zinto nsuku zonke.

Kodwa isipho esifiseleka kakhulu futhi esivela ekuqaleni somuntu omthandayo wonyaka omusha ngumhlangano othandana nomdlandla. Into eyinhloko akumele ukukhohlwa mayelana nomngcele omuhle, hhayi ukufuna ukuchitha ubusuku naye, ngoba lesi sifiso asikwazi ukufeza ekuqaleni. Ngakho-ke, ungakhathazeki ngokwakho nangomzwelo womuntu, kungcono ukuchitha kahle futhi ngempumelelo ndawonye ngonyaka omdala.

Yini ongayinika umthandi, okungekho isibopho kuye?

Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi ukuthanda uthando akude kakhulu nokudlala ngothando futhi akusho ukuthi ube nobuhlobo obunzima. Uma kunjalo, ukucabanga ngesipho esikhulu, esibizayo kuyisiphukuphuku futhi akufanelekile. Nakuba kusengenzeka ukujabulisa indoda, ngokulungiselela isipho esincane, kunalokho esingokomfanekiso. Isibonelo, Isipho esingcono kunazo zonke somuntu ozithandayo singaba ibhodlela lesiphuzo esiphuzo esiphuzo (i-rum, i-whisky, i-tequila), amadoda afana nokuba nebha enhle ekhaya. Futhi isimo sengqondo sizophakanyiswa ukukhanya okumnandi, ikhofi elibizayo, elimnandi. Uma umuntu ebhema, ungamnikela ngoNyaka Omusha isethi yama-cigare, ugwayi we-hookah nokunye.

Ukucabanga ngomthandi oshadile, umuntu kumele akhumbule ukuthi umthunzi womkakhe uzomlandela njalo. Ngakho-ke, uma kungekho isifiso sokumlimaza, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, ngifuna ukujabulisa leli holide, kubalulekile ukukhetha isipho esingabangela ukusola. Ngokuvamile lezi yizinto ezilula, zansukuzonke, ukuthi, noma kunjalo, ziyokwazi ukumlethela injabulo yokukukhumbula nsuku zonke.