Ukufunda ukuthi usemeni, wonke owesifazane ngokushesha uyaqala ukuzibuza ukuthi amasonto amangaki ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, futhi uma engathatha ingane yakhe ezandleni zakhe. Ngeshwa, angaphezu kwamandla kwanoma ubani ukusetha usuku oluqondile nehora lokuzalwa kwakhe. Kungenzeka ukuthi izibalo zakho noma izibalo ze-obstetrician zizobe zilungile, kodwa kuyoba nenhlanhla kunomthetho.
Isithiyo esikhulu sokuthola isikhathi sokukhulelwa kwesiguli esithile ukuthi akukho ndlela yokwenza usuku oluqondile lokukhulelwa noma ukukhulelwa. Futhi ukwazi ukuthi isivinini sizolandela "ijubane" kanjani uma siwufaka, futhi umbungu usungulwe esibelethweni futhi uzoziveza ngokukhula nokuthuthukiswa kwawo. Ukuze ufunde le nqubo, kubalulekile ukunika isikhathi esiningi owesifazane okhulelwe. Ngakho-ke, ababelethisi baqala "inkulumo yegolide" ethile yamasonto amaningi ukukhulelwa okuvamile.
Ososayensi bathole ukuthi ezimweni eziningi, cishe 70-80%, kusukela ekukhuliseni kuze kube sekuqaleni kwesinqumo somthwalo, amaviki angu-38 noma izinsuku ezingu-266 zidlula. Yilapho izinkinga zavela khona, ngoba cishe bonke abesifazane abazi usuku lapho bebelethwe khona noma bavotela. Into kuphela ephuma kwimemori kule akhawunti yilapho iqala khona ngenyanga eyedlule. Ngakho kunqunywe ukuthi lolu suku luzoba yisiqalo sokubala isikhathi sokukhulelwa kwabesifazane. Ngokwale mbono, isikhathi sokubeletha sithatha izinsuku ezingama-280 noma amaviki angu-40.
Kodwa-ke, ngale ndlela futhi, kukhona ukulungiswa: kusukela ekuqaleni kokuya esikhathini, angeke kube khona inkulumo nhlobo, leli gama elitholakale ngale ndlela lanconywa ukuba libizwa ngokuthi ukuya esikhathini, ngoba iminyaka yobu fetusi okungenani amaviki amabili amfushane kunalokho kubalwa.
Indlela yokubala isikhathi sokukhulelwa?
Ngokuvamile umzuzu wokuvuthwa kwenzeka ngemva kwamasonto amabili ngemuva kokuphela kokuya esikhathini. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi kusukela ezinsukwini ezingu-280 ezamukelwe kudingekile ukuba ususe lezi 14, lapho ukukhulelwa kungenakwenzeka. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi ukubeletha kuthatha izinsuku ezingu-266. Futhi, ungalokothi ulahlekelwe umbono wobuntu bomuntu ngamunye wesifazane, ngenxa yokuthi yikuphi ukuvuthwa okungase kufike ngaphambili noma kuphuze.
Yingakho isikhathi sokukhulelwa kwabesifazane, okuyinto evamile, kusuka emasontweni angu-32 kuya kwangu-34. Nakuba nje lezi zikhombandlela ziye zashintsha futhi zathola inani lamasonto angu-37-43. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi zonke izibalo zezibalo zilinganiselwa futhi azikwazi ukucacisa usuku lokubukeka kwengane.
Yini engashintsha isikhathi sokukhulelwa ngamasonto?
Ubude besikhathi 'sokuthakazelisa' singathonywa yizici ezilandelayo:
- isimo sempilo kamama;
- ukuthuthukiswa kanye nempilo ye-fetus;
- ukufeza;
- isikhathi sokukhulelwa okujwayelekile singancika ngisho nasesimweni sengqondo somama,
lapho ezimisele ukubeletha ngosuku oluthile futhi aphelelwe isikhathi sokuzalwa ngosuku olubalulekile.
Uma uhlale uhlukunyezwa izinkinga ezihlobene nokuthi zingaki amasonto okuvimbela ukukhulelwa okuqhubekayo, nokuthi ngabe uveza ingane ngesikhathi esifanele, akufanele wenze izibalo ezizimele futhi ungadonsa ingqondo yakho ngisho nangaphezulu. Lo mcimbi awuxhomeki kuwe, kodwa ulungiswe ngokuphelele ngezinqubo zemvelo eziqhubekayo. Phakathi nesikhathi esijwayelekile sokukhulelwa, kufaneleka ukujabulela isikhundla sakho esisha, ukulalela ukunyakaza kwengane nokulandela imiyalelo kadokotela. Lokhu kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi ingane izovela ngesikhathi esifanele.