Ukubiza amagama okufanele, ulwazimagama ocebile, ukulalela, ukuqoqa amagama afanele kanye nokukhuluma - zonke lezi zimfanelo zivela kuphela kubantu abanezinga eliphakeme lesikhungo esingokomoya, abahlakaniphile nabahlukumezekile, abafundayo nabahlakaniphile. Akunjalo yini, ingabe wonke umama uphupha ngokubona ingane yakhe? Kodwa-ke, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane iyajabula ngempumelelo yayo, labo abakugcina kumele bakhokhe ngokucophelela ukuthuthukiswa kwayo kakade esikoleni sokuqala, ikakhulukazi, kubalulekile ukugxila ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo.
Izigaba zokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo ezinganeni zasenkulisa
Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, ukuphumelela okuyinhloko kwezixhobo zamagama ezinamazwi kubhekwa njengokubukeka kwezwi okuthiwa ukubiza nokubiza amagama athile athile. Inombolo yabo encane, uma kuqhathaniswa nenani lalabo abangakwazi ukukuqonda. Lapho uneminyaka eyi-1-3 ubudala, inkulumo yezingane zasenkulisa ikhula ngokugcwele, ngenxa yokwandiswa kwezidingo ezahlukene. Kulesi sigaba, izingane zidinga ukuxhumana nabantu abadala. Ngokuyinhloko kusiza ukwandisa isilulumagama, sithumela ingane emibhalweni enjengeyiningi kanye nokukhuluma. Eminyakeni ecishe ibe yintathu, izingane eziningi zithola ubunzima obunzima ngokumemezela imisindo. Ngokuyinhloko, imvuthuluka yenza izintandokazi ezinzima, "ulahlekelwe" incwadi "p", ubeke esikhundleni se-sibilant neminye imisindo.
Ngokusemthethweni, ukukhubazeka okunjalo ekulimeni, okuhambisana nokungapheleli komhlathi omncane, ulimi, izindebe noma i-palate elula, kuyingxenye yesithathu yokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo ezinganeni zasenkulisa. Naphezu kwalokhu, abafana namantombazane abaneminyaka engama-3-7 bangaziqhayisa ngolwazi olunolwazi olwanele, ikhono lokwakha imishwana eyinkimbinkimbi eyakhiwe inkulumo engokomongo.
Kusho ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo ehambisanayo yezingane zasenkulisa
Ingane enempilo inezinto ezidingekayo zomzimba, ukuze esikhathini esizayo inkulumo yakhe ibonakale futhi icacise, futhi incazelo - ephelele futhi ephelele. Noma kunjalo, inkulumo akuyona ikhono elingenasici, kepha lihlanganiswa namanye amakhono namakhono. Futhi ukuze inqubo yokwazi ulimi lwendabuko idlule ngempumelelo, omncane kufanele akhule othandweni nasekukhathalelweni, futhi imvelo yakhe yomphakathi kufanele ifanelwe.
Ngokuyinhloko, izingane zifunda futhi zibalingise abazali bazo, ziwabamba ngekhanda amazwi amasha, zicebise inkulumo yazo ngezivumelwano, izichasiselo nokuphenduka. Ngakho-ke, omama nabazali badinga:
- qapha ngokucophelela imishwana nemisho ekhulunywayo;
- Ukuxhumana njalo nomntwana;
- ukuthuthukisa umkhuba wokubuka i-interlocutor ngenkathi ingxoxo, ukuze ingane ibone ukunyakaza kolimi nezindebe;
- funda amathekisthi azokwandisa ukukhanya kwengane, amethule kumaqiniso angaziwa nemicimbi. Ngendlela, amatheksthi amatheksthi ayinikele kuphela ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo, kodwa nakwezinganekwane. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abalingiswa abayinhloko bayoba abangane abalingane bomntwana, futhi izindaba abazizwayo ziyi-script yomdlalo.
Futhi, umuntu akufanele anganaki ithonya lokukhulumisana noontanga kule nqubo. Yiqiniso, amazwi azwiwe emgwaqweni noma kubangani awakhulumi ngaso sonke isikhathi kulabo abanelungelo lokutholakala komuntu wamasiko kwisichazamazwi. Kodwa yini okumelwe ukwenze, kodwa kuyithuba elihle lokuchazela ingane ukuthi kubi ukukhuluma kanjalo.
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi lo mdlalo - lena ingenye yezindlela eziyinhloko nezindlela eziphumelelayo zokufundisa izingane. Ngakho-ke, emindenini eminingi nasezinkulisa, ukucebisa ulwazi lwesilulumagama, ukuthuthukisa ukuveza ngokuzwakalayo kwenkulumo yezingane zasenkulisa nokuthuthukisa umbono wokuhlola, ukuqhuba imicimbi ekhethekile yemidlalo.
Isibonelo, umdlalo wakho wezingane ozithandayo uyisikhwama esimangalisayo. Okusemqoka komdlalo wukuthi izingane kufanele zisho into ngayinye esikhwameni, zichaze noma zenze indaba - kuye ngokuthi iminyaka yabadlali.