Umlumbi wangitshela ukuthi kungani ungenakhononda ngokuphila nokuthi ungayifinyelela kanjani impumelelo nokuchuma endaweni yonke.
Ezweni lanamuhla, abantu abanegunya lokusebenzelana nemimoya baphathwa kaningi kunabelapha noma odokotela abahlinzayo. Abaphatheli umzimba, kodwa umphefumulo: buyisela ukulinganisela kwamandla emzimbeni, kukuvumela ukuba unqobe okungalungile empilweni futhi uphumelele. Kodwa yini ebangela imbangela yokubonakala kwehluleka, izinkinga zempilo nokuphila komuntu siqu? Abaqambi abanokuhlangenwe nakho abaye banceda abantu abaningi bazi impendulo: bayaqiniseka ukuthi wonke umuntu ubangalela izinkinga zabo, ngoba .... cishe sonke sisola njalo ngokuphila.
Umkhandlu Omangalisayo We-Witch
Enenethiwekhi, ungathola izindaba eziningi ngokuphela kokujabula, lapho umlingo noma umlumbi ephulukisa i-aura yomuntu futhi umqondise endleleni yangempela. Okuthandwa kakhulu yile ndaba yintombazane uDasha, leyo ncoma eyasikisela indlela yokubhekana nalezi zinkinga, enikeza indlela engavamile kakhulu. Owesifazane wabuza iklayenti lapho ebonga i-Universe ngesikhathi sokugcina sento ethile, futhi akazange acele esinye isicelo. UDasha uphuthunyiswe, wathi:
"Uma umuntu ekhononda kakhulu, ushiya amandla angaphezulu."
Umlumbi waphakamisa ukuthi uqhuba ukuzama - ayeke ukutshela abanye ngezinkinga futhi azizwele yena. Impendulo yeDasha enomdlandla mayelana nokuvakashela ku-kamongameli iphetha indaba yokuthi empilweni yakhe kukhona ukuvumelana okuphelele. Kungenzeka yini ukukhohlwa ukuthi ungakhononda kanjani futhi ushintshe umhlaba kumbuthano wedwa ukuze ube ngcono? Ngokuqinisekile - yebo, uma unamathela emithethweni eyishumi nemikhuba yomkhuba wokubonga.
1. Umkhuba wokushintshana kwamandla nomhlaba wonke
Okungenani kanye ngenyanga kudingeka uthathe ishidi nopeni ukuze uthole ukuthi yini ongayidumisa ngayo futhi ubonge amandla aphezulu okufezekisa kwakho. Akunzima ukwenza lokhu: kwanele ukubhala futhi uhlele izikhathi ezingu-2-3 uhlu lwempumelelo yakho ngokuzwakalayo. "Ngangilahlekelwa isisindo", "Ngisize isilwane esingenamakhaya", "Ngiduduza umngane wami ngemva kokuhlukanisa" - zonke lezi zizathu ezinhle kakhulu zokuziqhenya wena nokubonga lezo zwi ezikuphilile.
2. Ukutholakala kwe-talisman
Kuhlale kululeka ukuba nento kuwe, okuzohlale kukukhumbuza ukuthi imicabango kufanele ibe yinto enhle. Isibonelo, indandatho, isongo noma i-rosary, ehlale elele esikhwameni noma edeskini. Uma ubhekana nombono wakhe, uzokhumbula ukuthi isikhathi sesifikile sokubonga ngobuqotho amakhono akho.
3. Amakilasi wokwakha
Noma ubani owadala isintu, wabheka ukuthi umuntu ngamunye uyokwakha amakhono akhe. Ungayeki izinto ozilibazisa nje ngoba usukhulile. Ubuchopho bomuntu buhlelwe kahle kangangokuthi ngesikhathi esifanayo kuphelelwa yisikhathi ngezimbuso ezimbili - ukuphumula kanye nomsebenzi wokudala. Lapho ukuthula kunqoba, ukunganeliseki ngokuphila kuphakama. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuyishintsha ukwenza isinyathelo ekuqondeni ubuciko. Kungacatshangwa isidingo esifanayo esisisekelo somzimba njengephupho noma ukudla.
4. Ukwazi izimpande
Isihlahla ngasinye sinezimpande zawo, ngaphandle kwalokho ngabe ngabe sife. Ngakho-ke indoda ayikwazi ukujabula uma engazi ukuthi okhokho bakhe babani. Ukwakha ikusasa elihle, udinga ukuqiniseka esikhathini esidlule. Okungenani ngezinye izikhathi ukhuluma nezihlobo zakho mayelana nalabo ababeyikhokho bakho. Zama ukuthola konke okuphathelene nabo: obani ababeyikho, ukuthi yini abayifinyelele nokuthi yini ebabumbene nabazukulu? Uma umuntu eqonda ukuthi yini abantu abamangalisayo abamnike impilo, uzizwa eqiniseka kakhulu.
5. Ukuvuselela "izindawo zokukhula"
Umkhuba osebenza ekuhlanganiseni kwengqondo kanye nomlingo. "Izindawo zokukhula" yizo zinsuku ezibalulekile lapho kuqhubeka khona ukuqhuma futhi akukho ushintsho oluhlelwe. Abatshakathi bathi isizathu esiwukuphela kwalokhu ukuthi iziteshi ezivulekile zesikhathi esidlule zimdonsa umuntu, zingamvumeli ukuba aphefumule ngokukhululekile futhi afinyelele ibhalansi enhle. Ukuze 'uvale,' udinga ukuxhumana nabantu abanokuthile ngalokhu. Isibonelo, uma intombazane ingakwazi ukushada nganoma iyiphi indlela, kufanele ikhulume ngobuqotho namantombazane akhe asekuqaleni bese ibacela ukuba bathethelelwe zonke iziphambeko ezenziwe.
6. Ukudansa
Ukudansa kuyindlela yokuzibonakalisa, okuyinto enenzuzo ngaphezu kokudala, ngoba ivula isiteshi ngqo sokuxhumana ne-cosmos. Uthuthukisa ikhono lokulwa nokwesaba nezinkimbinkimbi. Futhi kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo kubhekwa njengomkhuba wemilingo wokuxhumana no "I" wangaphakathi.
7. "Ukuhlanza" imigqa yabangani
I-Vampires Yamandla - akuyona inganekwane, kepha yiqiniso, kuphela izazi ze-psychologists, ngokungafani nabalimi, zibiza ngokuthi "abantu abanobuthi". Bazama amandla abo emvelweni wabo ngokusebenzisa izikhalo futhi beqhubeka bekhala. Le "vampire" ayifuni ukushintsha - ufuna ukukudonsa elasha elifanayo lokuhluleka, okuyinto yena hit.
8. Ukuxhunyaniswa kolwazi
Ubuchopho bomuntu abukwazi ukubona ulwazi amahora angu-24 ngosuku. Udinga ukuphumula, ngoba usebenza ngisho nangesikhathi sokulala. Okungenani kanye ngenyanga udinga ukuhlela i-detox yolwazi: usuku olulodwa ukwenqaba amanethiwekhi omphakathi, ukubukela i-TV nezingxoxo ezinde efonini. Lena indlela enhle yokubonga isistimu yakho yezinzwa ngokuqina kwakho.
9. Usizo
Ukubonga "ukunikeza okuhle." Uma umuntu ehlanganyela lokho okutholwa nabampofu, uheha inhlanhla, inhlanhla, nemizwelo emihle empilweni yakhe. Ukuze usize, ungasebenzisi imali: ungaba isisebenzi sokuzithandela ukunakekela izilwane noma izingane ezigula kakhulu.
Ukuvuleka
Ukubonga kufanele kukufundise ukuqaphela amathuba okuba impilo ngokwayo inikeze. Nsuku zonke kuba okuthakazelisayo kakhulu: kukhona abantu ababaziyo nabantu abasha, amathemba okuthola olunye umsebenzi. Konke lokhu kudinga ukuthokoza - bese uMhlaba uzophendula ngokufanayo.