Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi impilo yowesifazane iqala kanjani, kodwa ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo, indawo yayo ikhona ekhaya, futhi ukukhathazeka okuyinhloko ngumndeni . Njengoba eshadile, lo wesifazane, engazange abe nesikhathi sokuvuka, uthola ibhonasi "yengane" yokuqala - indoda yakhe. Ngempela, kuxhomeke kumfazi, ukuthi ngabe indoda izophumelela, ukuthi uzogqoka kanjani, kuyoba yini impilo yakhe, imizwelo, inhlanhla. Insimu yowesifazane ingaphakathi, la madoda angaphandle. Ngakho-ke, isimo sezulu endlini sincike kuphela kumfazi.
Ngakho-ke, umthandazo womkakho umyeni wakhe unamandla kakhulu njengomthandazo womama wengane, emva kwakho konke, kokubili, okuqine, okukhanyayo, okomoya okukhalela kuNkulunkulu usizo.
Kodwa sizoqala okufanayo nalezo zimo lapho ongashadile ethandazela umyeni. Okusho ukuthi, ngemithandazo efundwa ukuthola umyeni omuhle.
Ukuthola isigamu sesibili
Umthandazo oqinile kunazo zonke wama-Orthodox ngomyeni uyisikhalo kuTheotokos ngaphambi kwesithonjana esithi "The Unfading Color". Masinyane uxwayisa ukuthi ngeke isetshenziselwe ukukhohlisa amadoda abanye abantu emakhaya abo. Ngikholelwa, uMama kaNkulunkulu uzokusiza ukuba uhlangabezane nomuntu okhululekile.
Lo mthandazo usetshenziselwa ukwelashwa kwezidakamizwa zothando (lapho umthandi engakwazi ukuphula ukuxhumana nomuntu oshadile), ukuthethelelwa kwezono, inhlanhla othandweni, ukusiza ekutholeni umngane womshado, futhi-ke, isipho sobuqiniso, uthando oluqhakazile. Kumele siqonde ukuthi nakuba sibheke kuTheotokos, akusiyo ogcwalisa isicelo sethu, kodwa iNkosi uNkulunkulu, ngoba uMama kaNkulunkulu, njengomama, usinxusa phambi kukaNkulunkulu futhi ngomusa amcele ukuba asize.
Umthandazo impilo yomyeni wakhe
Yiqiniso, konke owesifazane okufanele akwenze lapho umyeni wakhe egula, futhi angeke asisize ukunquma umphumela wesifo, ukuthandazela usuku nempilo yomyeni wakhe. Umbuzo uwukuthi, obani?
Ochwepheshe, njengoba kungenangqondo ngabantu besikhathi, odokotela uKosma noDamian baphatha iziguli mahhala, bengakwamukeli ukukhokha noma izipho. INkosi yathi: "Ngithole isipho samahhala - sinikeze ngokukhululekile." Yingakho baba bangcwele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umthandazo weCosme noDamian usiza ukuphulukisa lowo owukhulekayo, futhi kunomthelela ekulondolozeni ukuthembeka komshado, futhi kusiza ukuletha uthando , ukuvumelana nokuqonda okuphakathi endlini.
Umthandazo ngomyeni endleleni
Abesifazane ngokuvamile bathambekele ekuhlangenwe nakho nasekukhuliseni. Emva kwakho konke, ngisho noma sikholwa njengabafowethu futhi singabazi ukungathembeki kwabo kude nekhaya, siqala ukungabonakali "izimo" eziningi ezicacile ukuthi kukhona okwesabekayo okwenzekile kumyeni wakho othandekayo, akasithathi nje ucingo okokuqala.
Ngakho-ke, ukuthandazela indoda akugcini nje ekubambeni ekubuyiseni okuphelele kwendlu yesibili, kodwa kusiza futhi ngezikhathi zokukhathazeka okukhulu komkakhe ukuthola ukuthula nokuqiniseka ukuthi konke kuyintando kaNkulunkulu.
