Uthando alunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi olulula. Phakathi kwabantu ababili kungaba khona izingxabano, ukungqubuzana kokubukwa ngokuphila, ubunzima ekukhulumisaneni, ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Zonke lezi zithole ezincane, kodwa ezibukhali kakhulu zingahle zibhubhise ngisho nobuhlobo obuhlanzekile nobuhle. Ukucela uNkulunkulu usizo ukuze alondoloze ubudlelwane obuyinkimbinkimbi kodwa obuyigugu, qala ngomthandazo olula kakhulu othandweni lwentombazane - umthandazo kaJesu wonke jikelele:
"Nkosi uJesu Kristu, Ndodana kaNkulunkulu, ngihawukele mina isoni."
Lo mthandazo ungasetshenziswa ngezikhathi zokuphikisana nabathandekayo (noma abathandekayo), khona-ke uNkulunkulu uzokusiza ukuba ufunde ukuyiqonda, futhi ngeke udale ukuhlazeka. Naphezu kokunciphisa komthandazo, ukusebenza kwayo kuphakeme kakhulu, kodwa kuphela ngenxa yokholo olungapheli nokuqonda okugcwele nokuqaphela lokho okukhulunywayo, okuvela ekujuleni komphefumulo.
Umthandazo wokubuyiselwa kothando lomkami
Uma ulahlekelwe umzuzu lapho ungalungisa okuthile, buyisane, ufunde ukuqonda nokuvimbela intukuthelo yakho, nomkakho uzizwa ukuthi indlela yokuphela kuphela ukuphuma, udinga usizo lwezinga elihlukile. Uma umbuzo wendlela yokubuyisela uthando lomfazi ngosizo lomthandazo, funda amagama alandelayo:
Umthandazo ubhaliwe kusuka ekukhunjini kokuqala ngobuningi nangobuningi, njengoba kuhloswe ukuba ufunde ngokubambisana, lapho wena nomkakho ungahambisani, futhi bobabili baqonda ukuthi ngandlela-thile udinga ukulondoloza ubuhlobo. Uma ufunda lo mthandazo othandweni nomshado wedwa, gxila sonke isikhathi sakho ngemizwa yecala phambi komkakho nokuphenduka okwenzile kakhulu ngaphambi kwakhe. Gcwalisa ngokwethembeka uthando lomkakho bese uzama ezingeni lezamandla ukuzithumela imizwa yakho, ukukhumbula ukuthi kunezinto ezinhle kangakanani oba nazo.