Abesifazane abanomona kuphela, futhi bayaphikisana. Inkohlakalo iyindlela ephumelela kakhulu yokukhipha isithandani othandweni, noma ukuphindiselela kowesifazane. Omunye wemonakalo odumile kakhulu osetshenziselwa umbuthano wesifazane kungumonakalo wokukhuluphala.
Inkohlakalo ukukhuluphala
Uma ubheka izikali, into eyodwa efika engqondweni yukuthi uchithekile ngokweqile futhi kufanele unqume ukuthi ungayisusa kanjani. Ukuphela kwesibonakaliso salokhu kuphazamiseka ukuthi ayikho izizathu zomzimba zokuthola isisindo, kodwa lukhula njalo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwenzeka ukuthi ube ngufakazi emiphumeleni yokuphulukiswa komuntu othandekayo wakho. Khona-ke umsebenzi unzima nakakhulu - ukususa umonakalo ovela kumuntu, uma engakholelwa kuwo futhi angeke enze lutho.
Indlela enesibani iyona yonke indawo.
Thenga isibani esisha, uthele amafutha kuwo, ukhanyisa i-wick. Kufanele uqale ngo "Baba wethu" - funda umthandazo kathathu, futhi kathathu ulandelelwano olulandelayo:
"Njengoba ilangabi lesibani livutha, liyashisa njengelangabi, ubumnyama buyaxosha, njengoba bushelelezi futhi buphakeme. Ngakho inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomuntu ohlukunyeziwe wenkohlakalo) liyoba lincane futhi liphakeme, ngakho-ke lizoba likhanyayo futhi lihlanzeke, ngakho konke ubumnyama nobubi kuyomshiya. Egameni likaYise neNdodana, noMoya oNgcwele. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Umonakalo wezezimali
Imali yokuqoqa ivame ukuthunyelwa kubantu abacebile kakhulu abancintisana nabantu abanobukhwele. Kulesi simo, umuntu uzizwa ngokoqobo ukuthi umzila wakhe wezimali uvinjelwe, futhi inhlanhla esuka kuye iyafulathela.
Kunendlela elula futhi ephumelelayo yokususa umonakalo wemali. Kumele kwenziwe ubusuku obuthathu ngokulandelana.
Ngokwesiko, thatha ingilazi yamanzi ufunde kathathu amagama alandelayo:
"Amanzi kaNkulunkulu, amanzi emthonjeni, kwakungamanzi okufa, abe ngamanzi okuphila! Nkosi, uma amanzi eqiniso, ungcwelise lamanzi, ugeze kanye nenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) iziqalekiso, izifundo, ukuhleka, iso elibi, amazwi amnyama, umona, inzondo, ukuhlekisa, ukufumbathisa, ukukhungatheka, ukulimala noma yimuphi umonakalo. Ububi, hamba kumzali wakho, futhi uNkulunkulu ungubaba wethu. Ngigeza ubuso bami ngamanzi, ngibusise ngesiphambano esingcwele. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Emva kokufunda, amanzi kufanele ahlanzwe futhi alale.