Isikhumbuzo somshado kuyisikhathi esihle sokubuthana izihlobo nabangane abasondelene nabo, futhi kulomkhathi umfudumalo womndeni kufanele sigubhe lesi senzakalo esimangalisayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isikhumbuzo somshado sifakazela amandla enyunyana yomndeni nangothando phakathi kwalabo abashadile. Emindenini eminingi, leli holide liphathwa ngokuhlonishwa okukhulu.
Ngonyaka ngamunye olandelayo, umndeni uyaqina futhi uqine. Emphakathini wanamuhla, kuwumkhuba ukugubha izinsuku zomshado zomshado - 5, 10, 15, 25. Ukuphawula noma ukungaboni ezinye izinsuku kuyindaba yangasese yabashadile.
Yini ongayinikeza umkhosi wokugubha umshado? - lo mbuzo ubuzwa wonke umuntu owamukele isimemo kulo mkhosi obalulekile obomndeni. Isikhumbuzo ngasinye somshado sinalo igama, eliqukethe lokho okumele sikunike. Lokhu kusiza kakhulu ukusesha isethulo futhi ikuvumela ukuba ulethe isipho esingcono kunazo zonke zomcimbi womshado.
Yini ongayinikeza ukugubha usuku lokuqala lomshado?
Isikhumbuzo sokuqala sibizwa ngokuthi umshado wekotini. Igama lifanekisela ukuthi isilikhi ithathwe esikhundleni se-chintz, futhi izintambo ezixhuma abaqashi zenziwa ziqinisiwe. Futhi, leli gama lithi ukuthi kulo nyaka lo mbhangqwana usuvele uzibophezele komunye nomunye, njengoba ukotini yindwangu yokugqoka nsuku zonke.
Isipho sokugubha usuku lokuqala lomshado kufanele sibe yi-textile. Izindwangu zokulala, izindwangu zokulala, amathawula kanye nanoma yimiphi imikhiqizo yezindwangu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu kulokhu okugubha usuku.
Yini ongayibonisa ngomkhosi wesibili womshado?
Usuku lweminyaka emibili yomshado libizwa ngokuthi umshado wephepha. Kulolu suku kuyisiko ukunikeza izipho kusuka ephepheni nasekhadibhodi. Izipho ezinhle kakhulu zokugubha usuku lokugcina lomshado yizincwadi.
Njengomnyaka wokuqala nonyaka wesibili, akulula ukukhetha isipho kwamanye amadethi. Ngakho, ngonyaka wesithathu (umshado wesikhumba) kuyisiko ukunikeza izipho esikhumbeni. Ngonyaka wesine (umshado welineni) - imikhiqizo eyenziwe ngeflaksi nezimbali. Ngonyaka wesihlanu (umshado wokhuni) - imikhiqizo evela enkuni, izikhumbuzo ezihlukahlukene. Futhi njalo.
Ngosuku lomkhosi lomshado, ungathola esinye isipho sokuqala. Kuye wonke umuntu ugcina isiko kanye nezipho kulezi zipho zosuku olukhanyayo, esekelwe egameni lesikhumbuzo. Njengesipho sokukhumbula umshado, abangani banganikeza kanye nemishini yasendlini, nemali, nemikhumbuzo, nezinto ezidingekayo zasendlini. Ngezansi kukhona izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zangasese nezingavamile zokugubha umshado:
- uhambo lomusa. Uma unesidingo esidingekayo, ungakwazi ukunikeza abangani bakho emgodini wokugubha umshado noma iholidi ehhotela. Okukhethwa okuthobekile kakhulu ngamathikithi ekhonsathi, iklabhu noma i-movie;
- isipho samahlaya. Isipho sokuhlaya singaboniswa kanye nesipho esiyisisekelo. Izinto ezithokozisayo noma ezihlekisayo zokuphila kwansuku zonke, isikhumbuzo esihle, isithombe esibucayi kanye nezinye izinto eziningi ngokuqinisekile kuzobangela ukumamatheka ebusweni babenzi bokugubha umkhosi. Izipho ezinhle zingathengwa ezitolo ezikhethekile;
- isidlo sothando esitolo sokudlela. Lesi sipho sihambisana nanoma yisiphi isikhumbuzo somshado. Kulo mcimbi, umuntu kufanele akhethe isikhungo lapho abashade bakhetha ukuhamba ngaphambi komshado wabo. Kubo, lokhu kuzoba yisikhathi sokukhumbula lezo zikhathi lapho besithandana kakhulu futhi ubuhlobo babo buqala ukukhula;
- isipho ngezandla zakho. Lapha ungafaka ingqondo yakho ngokugcwele. Into eyinhloko ukuthi isipho sibonisa amandla eminyano yomndeni kanye nobunye bomshado.
Imibono emihle yezipho zokukhumbula umshado ingatholakala ezitolo ze-intanethi, futhi wabelane ngemicabango yakho futhi uxoxe ngezipho ezingcono kakhulu ongayenza esithangamini sesayithi lethu. Into eyinhloko, ngenkathi isethulo sesipho sosuku lomshado kubangani, batshele ngenhliziyo isobho esihle - leso sipho sizokunikeza injabulo kabili.