Indlela kaDoman - amakhadi "omlingo"
Akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuthi umsebenzi womzimba nengqondo wengane kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu ixhumane kakhulu. Ngokwenza ukunyakaza okuhlukahlukene, umntwana ukhulisa ubuchopho bakhe, futhi ngokufunda inqubo yokucabanga, ingane iyasebenza futhi igcine imvelo. UGlen Doman, abe physiotherapist, wayekholelwa ukuthi abantwana kuze kube nonyaka babe nekhono eliyingqayizivele lokufunda. Ngakho-ke, njengoba edale indlela yakhe, wancoma ngokuqinile ukuthi aqale ukubhekana nengane ngokusuka ku-diaper. Amakhadi okuthuthukiswa aseDoman adalwe ukuze asebenze ngezinkomba ezimbili - ukuthuthukiswa kwedatha yezolimi nezibalo zomntwana. Umlobi wezinqubo wayeqiniseka ukuthi lezi zinhlobo ezimbili zomsebenzi wengqondo ziyiqiniso. Imikhuba eminingi iye yabonisa ukuthi izingane eziye zathuthukiswa ngokuvumelana nalesi simiso ziba abantu abahlukumezekile nabaphumelelayo. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, lapho ubuchopho besabumba, izingane ziqala ukuqaphela ukuthi akukho mkhawulo ekupheleleni. Yingakho le nqubo idinga ukusetshenziselwa ebusheni, lapho ubuchopho bengakabikho ngokugcwele.
Indlela yokwenza amakhadi akwa-Doman nokuthi ungasebenza kanjani nabo?
Enye yezinzuzo zale nqubo ukuthi ungenza amakhadi kaGlen Doman ngezandla zakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, uzodinga amakhadibhodi amhlophe avamile, okudingayo ukuba uthathe izikwele ezingu-30x30. Uma uhlela ukuthuthukisa amakhono omlimi wengane, khona-ke amapulethi kufanele abe mhlanga. Ake sinike isibonelo sendlela yokwenza amakhadi ngezibalo kuze kube ngu-10 ngendlela kaDoman:
- ngepeni elibomvu elizwelayo eliphethe induku enamandla, sebenzisa kumakhadi iphuzu kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10. Zingafakwa epulatifeni ngokuhleleka ngokuphelele;
- ngemuva kwekhadi, bhala inombolo elingana nenani lamaphuzu;
- Emaphethelweni amakhadi ashiye amasimu ukugcina ikhadi lingavali amaphuzu.
Isimiso esifanayo sisetshenziswa lapho ufundisa amagama. Emakhadini, amagama alotshwe ezincwadini ezinkulu, futhi ehlangothini oluphambene aphindaphindiwe ukuze ubone ukuthi ubonisani ingane. Uma unephrinta, lokhu kuzokwenza kube lula ngezinye izikhathi, ngoba ungaphrinta amakhadi ngokushesha kunokuba uwidwebe.
Amakhadi kaDoman Glenn, njenganoma iyiphi indlela, adinga ukuhambisana nemithetho eminingana. Kubalulekile ukuwakhumbula ngaphambi kokuqala ukuqeqeshwa futhi ungakhohlwa ngenkathi usebenza nengane.
Khumbula, ingane encane, kuyoba lula ukuthi ifunde.- Dumisani ingane ngokuphumelela kwayo konke. Khona-ke uzobe ethanda ukubhekana nawe.
- Bonisa ingane yakho ikhadi elingasekho kunamasekhondi angu-1-2. Ngalesi sikhathi, udinga kuphela ukusho igama elilotshwe ekhadini noma inombolo, uma ufunda izibalo.
- Ukuboniswa kwamakhadi ngamagama afanayo akufanele kuphindwe kathathu ngosuku.
- Okubalulekile okusha okufaka kukho konke ukuqeqeshwa, ingane yakho izokwazi ukuyikhumbula ngaphezulu. Uma ingane icela amakhadi amaningi, yenza okuningi.
- Ungaphoqeleli ingane ukuba yenze uma ingafuni. Khumbula ukuthi ingane ingakwazi ukukhathala, ingase ingabi nemizwelo, njll. Uma uqaphela ukuthi umntwana usuphazamisekile, uhlehlise ukuqeqeshwa okwesikhashana.
- Ungakhohlwa ukubhekana nengane yakho nsuku zonke. Kunconywa ukuba ukhethe isikhathi esifanayo, ukuze ingane isazi kakade ukuthi kuyoba khona umsebenzi futhi kulindeleke.
- Lungiselela amakilasi kusengaphambili. Shuma amakhadi ukuze isikhathi ngasinye ukulandelana kwamagama nezibalo kuhluke, futhi futhi ukwaziswa okusha kubonakala phakathi kwabakudala.
- Akudingekile ukuvuza ingane ngokuphumelela kwayo nanoma yimaphi amaswidi kanye nezinto ezihamba phambili. Uma kungenjalo, uyoba nomhlangano wokuthi ukuqeqeshwa kuhlotshaniswa nento enhle.
- Qala amakilasi lapho ingane ihlezi kahle. Khumbula ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane akufanele kuguquke. Kufanele athathe izenzo zakho njengomdlalo. Khona-ke izifundo zakho zizomlethela injabulo.
Ukungaphumeleli kwemindlela kaGlen Doman
Okokugcina, kufanelekile ukuphawula ukuthi inqubo yeGlen Doman inezinselelo zayo. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ingane ingenzi lutho ngesikhathi samakilasi. Le nqubo ifundisa kuphela ukukhumbula, kodwa hhayi ukubonisa.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kufanele kuvumelane. Futhi uma unquma ukukhulisa umuntu omkhulu, umuntu akanakuzikhawulela kumakhadi. Ukuba ngumzali kuwumsebenzi omkhulu. Kodwa imiphumela yalo ngeke ikugcine ulindile futhi ngokuqinisekile iyoba nesimo esihle.