Amaphupho ngejele awanambi, kodwa, njengoba kuyaziwa, ngokuvamile izithombe ezimbi, ngokuphambene nalokho, zinezincazelo ezinhle. Ngakho-ke, noma cha, ungathola ngokusebenzisa imibhalo ekhona.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ngejele?
Iphupho elinjalo lingaba yisixwayiso sokuthi amalungelo akho maduze azophulwa. Ukubona abanye esitokisini kusho, esikhathini esizayo, abantu obathembayo kufanele bavikeleke. Umbono ebusuku, lapho ijele elinamafasitela angcwelisiwe, libonisa ukuthi ngenxa yokuqonda kwalo, kuyokwazi ukugwema izinkinga ezinkulu. Uma uphupha ukuthi uboshiwe ejele, kubonisa ukuthi unomuzwa wecala noma othile ozama ukukuphuca inkululeko yakho. Umhumushi wephupho uncoma ukuba uqaphele, ngoba ubuthongo bungaba yiqiniso. Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukubhujiswa kwezinhlelo zekusasa. Kukhona nombono, lapho ngiphupha ukuthi ukuboshwa kungumuthi wokugula okungathí sina.
Umbono ebusuku, lapho usejele, kusho ukuthi isikhala esiphilayo empilweni yangempela sinciphile. Owesifazane oshadile iphupho, lapho umyeni wakhe ejele, kuyisiginali sokungathembeki kwakhe. Uma uphupha ukuphunyuka ejele, kusho ukuthi konke kuzoba ngcono maduze futhi izinkinga zizophelelwa yisikhathi. Enye yezinguquko zephupho ihumusha izindawo zokuboshwa okwesikhashana njengophawu lokufihlwa, okuzobe kunzima ukugcina imfihlo. Ukulala, okwakwazi ukuphunyuka etilongweni, kubikezela inkululeko ngaphandle kwethonya langaphandle. Enye indlela yokuphuma ejele ibonakaliso esihle, ekhombisa ukuvulwa kwamathemba amasha nokuqala kwebhande "elimhlophe". Ukubona izibopho zasejele ephusheni kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhlaziya impilo yakho, cabanga ngezinto ezedlule futhi udwebe iziphetho ezifanele futhi ushintshe. Uma ubuke ifasitela etilongweni - lokhu kuyisixwayiso sokuthi maduzane umuntu okhohlisayo uzovela empilweni yakho.