Isibusiso kubhekwa njengengxenye ebalulekile yomshado. Ngakho-ke, abazali banikeza imvume yabo emshadweni futhi bafisa izingane zabo ukuba zijabule futhi ziphile isikhathi eside ndawonye. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, kukholelwa ukuthi uma umakoti noma umkhwenyana engayitholi isibusiso esivela kubazali bawo, khona-ke umshado uyobe ungajabuli futhi umndeni ungasakazeka.
Indlela yokubusisa umbhangqwana osanda kushada ngesithonjana?
Ngokweziko ezikhona, abazali bawubusisa indodakazi yabo izikhathi ezimbili: ngesikhathi sokudlala futhi ngaphambi kokushiya umbhalisi. Abazali bomkhwenyana bababusise abasanda kushada ngemva komshado.
Ngokwesiko, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi imifanekiso iyakubusisa umakoti nomkhwenyana, ngoba izithombe zabangcwele ziyisici esibalulekile, ngaphandle kokuthi leyo nqubo iphenduke yifiso kanye namagama anomusa. Ngokuyinhloko, kusetshenziswe izithombe ezimbili:
- Isithonjana sikaKazan Umama kaNkulunkulu ungumfanekiso ohlonishwa kakhulu weVirgin. Lesi sithonjana sivame ukusetshenziselwa umkhosi wesibusiso sendodakazi. Bambheka umkhulumeli wakhe kanye nomphathi wezinto zokuphila emhlabeni wonke. Kukhona ubufakazi obukhulu mayelana nokuthi uMama kaNkulunkulu Kazan wasiza kanjani abantu ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo. Ngaphambi komshado, izithombe zicelwa ukuba zivikele umndeni omusha ezinkingeni ezihlukahlukene kanye neliso elibi, kanye nokunikeza izingane ezinempilo.
- Isithonjana soMsindisi kaMninimandla onke yisithombe esasakazeka kakhulu sikaKristu. Isibusiso sabazali bomkhwenyana ngokuvamile sidlula ngalesi sithonjana. Kulo, uJesu uboniswa ngeVangeli ezandleni zakhe, okubonisa indlela elungileyo, futhi ngelinye ilanga ubusisa abantu abaphendukela kuye ngomthandazo . Ngaphambi kwesithombe sicela umndeni ujabule nokuchuma. Yisisithonjana esidinga ukusungulwa kuqala endlini yabashadile.
Emcimbini, ungasebenzisa kokubili imifanekiso, futhi eyodwa kuphela. Njengokuzikhethela, ungathenga umbhangqwana womshado noma ipulazi, lapho lezi zimpawu ezimbili zixhunyiwe komunye nomunye.
Yisiphi isibonakaliso sesibusiso sezingane esaziwa manje, sisekhona ukuze siqonde ukuthi umkhosi ngokwawo udlula kanjani. Ngaphambi kwalokho, abazali akufanele balungiselele kuphela isithombe se-saint, kodwa futhi ithawula, okuyodingeka ukuthi igcinwe kuyo. Ekamelweni lapho isibusiso sidlula khona, kufanele kube nabantu abaseduze kuphela. Unina womlobokazi uthatha ithawula eliboshiwe ezandleni zakhe, futhi ubaba uyamnika isithonjana, okumelwe futhi athathe ngethawula futhi akukho nhlobo ngezandla zakhe. Ukubusisa isithonjana esincane, kungcono ukusebenzisa isithombe esisesendlini, kepha uma kungenjalo, kuzomele uzithenge esitolo sesonto, lapho zonke izithombe zigcotshwa khona. Umama kumele agcine isithonjana sibhekane nobuso nabancane.
Manje kudingeka sibheke isihloko ngokuningiliziwe, ukuthi sibusise kanjani abasanda kushada ngesithonjana nokuthi yini okudingayo ukusho ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ayikho umbhalo othize abazali okufanele bawukhanda ngekhanda njengomthandazo, ngoba imiyalo kumele ivela enhliziyweni ehlanzekile. Sicela wazi ukuthi inkulumo akufanele ibe yinde kakhulu. Umbhalo luhlobo lwengqondo yesikhathi esizayo, lapho abazali bafisa abantu abasha injabulo , ukuchuma, ukuthula, ukuvumelana, njll. Enkulumweni, hhayi izifiso kuphela, kodwa futhi nemiyalo kufanele izwakala. Ngesikhathi sokubiza amagama, umama nobaba kufanele baphinde badlule uphawu lwesithathu, bese bebamanga. Ngemuva kokuqedela umkhosi, isithonjana nethawula kudluliselwa kwabasha, okumele bahlale njengenhlawulo, futhi futhi, bayoba nendima ye-amulet.