Uqhinga lomhlangano lubhekisela ekuthandeni umlingo, ngoba kukuvumela ukuba uhambe kumuntu osukwini. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi imikhosi enjalo ngeke ibangele imizwa, kodwa iyoba yinto eyengeziwe yokuxhumana. Akukho miphumela emibi yezinhlelo ezinjalo, futhi ungawafunda noma yiliphi usuku, futhi nganoma isiphi isikhathi sosuku. Ukufezekisa umphumela oyifunayo, kumasiko anjalo, ukubukeka nokugxila emicabangweni nemizwelo yomuntu siqu kubaluleke kakhulu.
Umlutha wokuhlangana nomuntu othandekayo wakho
Uma kukhona isifiso sokuhlangana nomthandi, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile asibonakali, kusho ukuthi ungaqhuba umkhuba ozokwenza ube nesifiso esingenakuqondakala. Ngaphambi kokuba uqhubekele esakhiweni ngokwawo, kubalulekile ukuxhuma kumsakazo odingekayo. Hlela kahle futhi uzibone ngeso lengqondo ukuthi umuntu othandekayo ungena kanjani endlini, uvula umnyango, ukuthi ubukeka kanjani, njll. Okubaluleke kakhulu imininingwane ephezulu. Uma kukhona isithombe esicacile somhlangano ngaphambi kwamehlo akho, udinga ukuvala izandla zakho ekukhiyeni esifubeni sakho nokuhlekisayo ngaphandle kokungabaza ukufunda isakhiwo esinjalo:
"Mina, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), ngibiza inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), hhayi esithandweni somlilo, hhayi emanzini olwandle, hhayi ezweni elifile, hhayi emcimbini wecingo, hhayi esontweni segolide, hhayi emnyango owenziwe, kodwa kusuka emgodini wami.
Imicabango yenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), uyibiza kimi, kunalokho, izinyawo zakhe, uyithwala kimi.
Izingelosi ezimbili zokulondeka zizohamba naye emgwaqeni, ukuthi zombili zombili isigqila sikaNkulunkulu (igama) sizohamba, ziyoholela emnyango wami.
Ngamazwi ensizwa enhle engiyishayela yona, ngivala ukhiye wami.
Yebo kuyokwenzeka, njengoba kushiwo. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Phinda amagama izikhathi eziyisishiyagalolunye. Umkhuba uqala ukwenza ngokushesha ngemva kokubiza amagama okugcina.
Isakhiwo esinamandla somhlangano
Ukufezekisa umphumela oyifunayo, kulo mkhuba, ukulungiselela kwangaphambili kubalulekile - ukuhlanzwa kusuka engalungile. Ngenxa yalokhu kunconywa ukuba uhambisane nokudla okuqinile izinsuku ezintathu futhi udle kuphela ukudla okuvela emifino ngamanani amancane. Ngisho nakule nkathi, kufanele ulahle yonke imikhuba emibi futhi ungabi nobulili. Kubalulekile ukugwema ukungqubuzana nokuphikisana okuhlukahlukene nabanye, ngokujwayelekile, uzivikele kunoma yikuphi ukukhathazeka okubi.
Umkhuba udinga ukuqala ngemva kokushona kwelanga. Vala wonke amafasitela, vala amakhethini uphinde ukhanyise ikhandlela lesonto. Uma ubheka ilangabi, cabanga ngomhlangano nendoda bese uthi ugobe olunjalo:
"UNkulunkulu uzohlangana nami endleleni. Uyonginika isibusiso ebuhlotsheni, ukuhlangana nenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), nginike ithemba, nginike ithuba, nginike amandla akhe. INkosi uNkulunkulu izongisindisa ekudleni imfucumfucu, ekuhlanganisweni okungahle kwenzeke, emehlweni amabi, inhliziyo yami ayiyikukhathazeka, ngeke kube khona ukwesaba emicabangweni yami, kuyoba khona ukuxhumana ngothando nami, izigqila zikaNkulunkulu (igama) nenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) futhi sizokhula kuphela , yebo banda. Ngizokhuleka kuNkulunkulu, yebo, umhlangano uyadingeka. Yiba njalo. Amen. Amen. Amen. "
Isiqephu sokuhlangana nendoda ngensipho
Lo mkhosi ufanelwe amacala lapho kudingekile ukuhlangana nomuntu. Isibonelo, uma umhlangano udinga ukunquma ukuthi yiyiphi inkinga, khona-ke lesi sakhiwo sizosiza ukuqaphela lokhu. Ukuze uthole umkhuba ngesandla sakho sokunene, susa ucezu oluncane lwesepha futhi usule igama lomuntu ofuna ukuxhumana naye. Ebhayeni elingenalutho, faka le ngcezu, uncike phezu kwalo bese uthi:
"Ukuqamba amanga, ngaphandle kwemimoya nemvula. Akukho ukuduma, akukho isiphepho, kuphela ukuzola nxazonke. Konke kuyodlula kahle, ngokushelela futhi ngaphandle kwenkinga. "
Ingxenye yesepha kufanele igcinwe esikhwameni, kuze kube khona umhlangano.
Plot for inhlangano yokuqala kanye nengxenye
Lo mkhosi uzosiza abantu abanesizungu ukuba bahlangabezane nomuntu ofanelekayo ongakha naye ubuhlobo obujabulisayo nohlala njalo. Ngenxa yokuziphatha kwayo, udinga ukuthenga amakhandlela amathathu esonto, nesinye isithonjana seThe Ngcwele kakhulu i-Theotokos ne-Guardian Angel. Vala ekamelweni, ukhanyisa amakhandlela nendawo elandelayo imifanekiso elungiselelwe. Ngemuva kwalokho, funda lolu qhinga kathathu:
"Ingelosi yami yothando, ngiyakunxusa,
Kusukela ekuzalweni usuhlezi kimi.
Ukusheshisa umhlangano wami ngendlela enzima,
Injabulo engalindelekile emaphikweni aletha.
Mhlawumbe endaweni ethile yayifihliwe,
Ngithumelele konke lokho okufakwe khona.
Amen! Amen! Amen! "
Kubalulekile ukufunda amagama ngokuzethemba ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukubeka imizwa nemizwelo yakho kuzo. Amakhandlela kufanele ashise ngokuphelele, futhi i-cinder ingasuswa.
Isakhiwo esiphuthumayo somhlangano osheshayo
Umkhuba olula uzokusiza ngosizo lwamandla akho angaphakathi ukuze "ushaye" othandekayo wakho emhlanganweni. Ukuqala ukuqaliswa kwayo kuhle kakhulu phakathi kwamabili. Ngaphambi kwesikhathi udinga ukuthenga amakhandlela ayisonto angu-13. Uma isikhathi sifika, sibakhanyise futhi, nibheke ilangabi, cabanga ngomhlangano wesikhathi esizayo ngemininingwane encane kakhulu futhi uthi isakhiwo:
"Ngilungiselela amakhandlela omhlangano, ngoba usuku lwangaphambili luzophela. Nakuba othandekayo wami ede kakhulu, makabe eseduze nami. Ngiprofetha ngokwami ukukubona maduzane, funa izinhlamvu zomlilo omubi. Njengoba umphik'ukristu ebulala imiphefumulo yethu, uthando ngeke luhambe kimi manje. Kanjani ukuthi wonke amakhandlela azoshisa futhi afe, anganikeza umlilo emazwini ami ebusuku. Ake ngenze icebo elingenalutho, zonke izithiyo ezivulekile. Yiba njalo. Amen! Amen! Amen! "
Funda kuze kube amakhandlela
Plot kuya emhlanganweni esithombeni
Umkhuba ongenakunzima kufanele wenziwe ekuphumeni kwelanga nokushona kwelanga izinsuku ezimbili ulandelana. Kuye, amakhandlela amabili we-wax nesithombe somuntu othandekayo kufanele alungele. Etafuleni faka isithombe, futhi ngaphambi kokukhanyisa ikhandlela. Ukubuka ngelangabi emehlweni omuntu othandekayo, tshela icebo elilandelayo: "Usuku lwadlula futhi ubusuku budlula. Ngilindele usuku futhi ngilinde ubusuku. Manje ngikulindele, (igama lomuntu ozobizwa). "
Funda kuze kube yilapho uzwa ukuthi kwanele. Khona-ke, khanyisa ikhandlela ngeminwe yakho, ngoba awukwazi ukukushaya. Kusihlwa, phinda umkhuba futhi ushiye lelikhandlela lishiswe ngokuphelele. Ngosuku olulandelayo, lo mkhosi ubanjelwa elinye ikhandlela. Enye incazelo ebalulekile - ekuseni ukufunda isakhiwo, udinga ukubhekana nokubheke empumalanga, futhi kusihlwa - entshonalanga.