Uma wakwazi ukukhohlisa indoda uLoon, manje kufanele usebenze ukuze umgcine eduze kwakho. "Inkosi yezilwane" ifuna ngokulinganayo owesifazane ozokwazi ukuhlangabezana nale ndlela. Abesifazane abaningi banesithakazelo sendlela yokuwina nokubamba indoda kaLeo eduze kwakhe. Khumbula ukuthi amadoda anjalo awawamukeli noma yikuphi ukucindezela nokuthungatha. Ukuze ube eduze nabameleli bale mbonakaliso, udinga ukwazi okuthandayo.
Uyithanda kanjani uLeo futhi umgcine?
Ukusebenzisa iseluleko esinikezwa izinkanyezi, wonke owesifazane unethuba lokubopha owesilisa. Indlela yokugcina indoda kaLobert ngokuphila:
- Amadoda azalwe ngaphansi kwalesi sibonakaliso akhetha amakhosikazi angempela kuphela, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuhambisana nesimo. Amabhubesi ayawuthanda uma amanye amadoda ebheka umngane wabo, kepha ngokwenza kanjalo, akufanele, noma kunjalo, anike impendulo.
- Amabhubesi athande ukuqashelwa kwabanye futhi, okokuqala, kusuka okhethiweyo wabo. Yingakho nganoma yisiphi ithuba, dumisani othandekayo wakho, ikakhulukazi nabanye abantu. Kubalulekile kulabo abamele lesi sibonakaliso ukuthi bathatha iseluleko sabo futhi balandele imiyalo ngokungenakulinganiswa.
- Ukuthola indlela yokugcina indoda kaLeo, kuyadingeka ukusho ngekhwalithi ebalulekile njengokwethenjelwa. Kubalulekile ukwabelana ngezintshisekelo nezinkinga zomuntu othandekayo, ngenkathi enikeza iseluleko esiwusizo nesisebenzayo.
- Ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhlala njalo nomuntu onjalo, kubalulekile ukuthi ube nesineke futhi udehlise. Ibhubesi lidinga inkululeko, ngakho-ke khetha eceleni uhlangothi olufushane ohlangothini. Ungazami ukumfundisa bese ubuhlobo buzoqina.
Ibhubesi lizothandana nomfazi othembekile ozokhanya emphakathini, kodwa eduze kwalo uzohlala nenkosikazi enokwethenjelwa futhi ekhuthazayo.