Izilwane ezifuywayo zasekhaya zivame ukuba ngamalungu omndeni ogcwele, zinakekelwa ngokulingana, futhi ukulahlekelwa kwabo kubangela ukuhlupheka okuningi. Singasinda kanjani ekufeni kwesilwane, singalinda ngempela kuze kube yilapho ubuhlungu buyeke? Ngempela, umsizi ongcono kakhulu kule ndaba yisikhathi, kodwa usengasiza ngezenzo ezifanele kanye nemicabango.
Indlela yokusinda ekufeni kwesilwane?
Ukushaqeka ngokomzwelo kuhlale kululeka ukwabelana nabanye, kuyingozi ukuba yedwa, kepha uma kwenzeka ukufa kwesilwane kungase kungabi nomthelela omuhle. Labo abangakaze babhekane nesimo esinjalo bathambekele ekuboneni ukuthi bangaziqondi kahle isimo, bangasho ukuthi lokhu kuyinja noma ikati, okungashintshwa kalula yizintambo ezintsha ezintsha. Ngakho-ke, uma unquma ukwabelana ngamava, bheka umuntu oye wabhekana nesenzakalo esinjalo futhi uzokwazi ukukuqonda. Kodwa ukuthola isilwane esisha akufanelekile, kuze kube yilapho ubuhlungu bokufa kwesilwane esithandekayo akupheli. Ukuze wenze lokhu kwenzeke masinyane, kubalulekile ukuphazamisa ekuziphatheni okudabukisayo, ukuzithokozisa okusha, izindaba zansuku zonke, abanye basizwa umsebenzi wokuzithandela ezindaweni zokuhlala ezilwaneni.
Ngokuvamile ukulahlekelwa isilwane kubhekene nobunzima ikakhulu ngenxa yemizwa yecala , abanikazi bacabanga ukuthi akenzanga konke okusemandleni ukuvimbela ukufa kwakhe. Kulokhu, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuthonya yonke imicimbi, futhi konke okwakudingeka kwenziwe kwilwane, ngoba akekho ongayinakekela kangcono kunomnikazi onothando.
Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokusinda ekufeni kwesilwane ukukhipha zonke izikhumbuzi zalo, njengokungathi akukho nhlekelele eyenzekayo. Kodwa lesi sinyathelo akunakwenzeka ukuholela kumphumela oyifunayo, uzobe usakhumbula isilwane sakho, futhi ukunyamalala kwezithombe kuzokwenza umuzwa wokungabi nalutho ube namandla nakakhulu. Kungcono ukubuka izithombe zesilwane sakho bese ushiya othandekayo kakhulu endaweni evelele, noma wenze i-albhamu enezimele ezihle kakhulu nezinkumbulo ezimfushane zezikhathi ezivalwe.