Cishe noma yimuphi umama, ngokushesha noma kamuva, ubhekene nombuzo wokuthi ungakuhlakulela kanjani ingane, uma engakwazi ukuhlala endaweni emizuzu emihlanu, engabuyiseli icala, uthola izizathu eziyinkulungwane zokungafezeli umsebenzi obelwe wona. Lokhu akunakucasula kodwa kubacasula abazali. Futhi ngifuna ukuthi ingane, eya esikoleni, ifunde kahle futhi ijabulele impumelelo yakhe. Yiqiniso, kubalulekile ukuqala ukuthuthukiswa kwe-assiduity kwengane kusukela ebusweni.
Indlela yokuhlakulela ukukhonza ingane?
Kuze kube yiminyaka engama-6 inqubo yokufundiswa kwe-assiduity kumntwana iqukethe imidlalo ehlukahlukene ehlangene yokukhulumisana nokukhulumisana okukhiqizayo nabazali. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, udinga ukukhuluma okuningi nengane, funda izinkondlo, uhlabelele izingoma, ubuyekeze ngokuhlanganyela futhi ubeke amazwana ezithombeni ezincwadini, funda izindabakwane, njll. Ungadluli ingane, khetha imidlalo nemisebenzi efanelekile ezingeni layo lokuthuthukiswa kanye neminyaka. Ungalawuli noma uphoqe imisebenzi okufanele yenziwe ngokumelene nezifiso zengane, zithandeke. Fundisa ingane yakho ukwenza umsebenzi kahle futhi ekugcineni. Qiniseka ukuthi udumise ngisho nempumelelo encane futhi zama ukugxeka kancane.
Nanka amathiphu ambalwa okuthi ungahlakulela kanjani ukubekezela kwengane:
- Bambelela esimisweni esiqinile sosuku, ngaleyo ndlela uvumele umntwana ukuba aqonde lokho "okudingekayo".
- Imidlalo eminingi esebenzayo emoyeni ovulekile. Nika ingane ithuba lokulahlekelwa amandla akhe: inqwaba ye-napegatsya, gxuma futhi umemeze. Ngokuvame ukuhamba ngendalo, vakashela amapaki, izenzo ezihlukahlukene zedolobha.
- Ukuhlinzeka ngemidlalo yokwenyuka kwemfuno yokuhlushwa nokubekezela kwengane (abaklami, ama-embroideries, imodeli, amapuzzli, amapuzzli, njll.) Hlukanisa imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi zibe izingxenye, unikeze imiyalelo emifushane futhi eqondakalayo yokuqaliswa kwayo. Hlaziya, yini eyandise intshisekelo yengane yakho, khuthaza isinyathelo sakhe futhi uqhubekele kule ndlela.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi unciphisa isikhathi esichithwa ku-TV nakumakhompiyutha, ukunikela ngokubuyisela imisebenzi ewusizo futhi ethakazelisayo.
- Ngomzwelo okhulile wengane, ukuzivocavoca kuzokusiza.
- Khuthaza ingane ukuthi ihlanzeke igumbi, ibeke amathoyizi ezindaweni. Ukugqugquzela ukujeziswa.
Ukuthunjwa komsebenzi wezingane kuba umsebenzi onzima kakhulu. Ngempela, ingane kuqala kuqala ithatha isibonelo kithi, abazali. Bonisa ukucabanga kwakho, ukubekezela nokuqonda - futhi uzophumelela.