Iminyaka engu-11 yengane ibhekwa njengenkathi yokuguquguquka kusukela eminyakeni yobudala yesikole kuya ebusheni futhi ibonakala ngezici zayo zokuthuthukiswa komuntu. Izinguquko ezibalulekile kule nkathi ziyaqhubeka nokucabanga. Ingane ifunda ukucabanga ngokweqile, ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangene nokuhlaziya ulwazi olutholiwe ngaphambili emithonjeni ehlukahlukene. Umntwana uqala ukwakha umbono wakhe, izahlulelo, isimo sengqondo ngaye, umhlaba kanye nezinto ezithile.
Ngokuqondene nentuthuko yengqondo, iholayo. Ingane ifunda ukusebenza ngemicabango engaqondakali, isebenze ngolwazi, uyihlezi futhi uyiqokomise into esemqoka. Indima ebalulekile kule minyaka inikezwe ekwakheni inkulumo, ngomlomo nangobhaliwe, kanye nokufunda nokubhala. Esikoleni, ingane eneminyaka engu-11 inganezela isisusa esisha - ukuzifunda, okungukuthi, isifiso sokwazi olusha. Ingane izama ukuthola nokufunda ulwazi ngaphandle kwalokho okushiwo ezincwadini zokufunda. Kubalulekile ukuhlinzeka ngemithombo emihle yolwazi.
Kodwa esinye isimo kungenzeka, uma uhlelo lokubaluleka kwengane lungathuthuki kahle futhi ubukhosi balo buphukile, isisusa sokuqonda ngeke siholele emsebenzini wezemfundo. Izikhuthazo eziyinhloko emfundweni yengane enjalo zizoba amamaki esikoleni kanye nesifiso sokugwema isijeziso. Okusho ukuthi uzofunda ngokucophelela okudingekayo ukuze "abazali bangacasuli." Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kuyosho, imidlalo yekhompiyutha noma imidwebo yezingane ezineminyaka engu-11 ubudala.
Ngakho-ke, sibona ukuthi le minyaka ibaluleke kakhulu futhi kuzo zonke izici ezithinta ukuphila komuntu osemusha. Abazali, futhi, akufanele baphuthelwe kulo mzuzu futhi bakhokhele ngokwanele izingane, bafundele izifundo zabo nokuphila komphakathi.
Kuyaziwa ukuthi amantombazane angokwengqondo kancane ngaphambi kokuthuthukiswa kwabafana, ngakho-ke lapho eneminyaka engu-11, lokhu okulandelayo kungase kwengezwe kulokhu ngenhla:
- isithakazelo kobulili obuhlukile;
- isimo sengqondo esibucayi ngokubonakala komuntu siqu;
- ukuqala kokuthuthukiswa kobulili nazo zonke izimo ezihambisana nokuqhuma kwama-hormonal: ukujula kwemizwelo, ukuhlukumezeka, ukuzihlukanisa.
Ngakho-ke, uma intombazane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala ikhulela emndenini wakho, kufanele uqaphele ngokukhethekile kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwayo. Indima ebalulekile kule minyaka ibukele i-TV, noma kunalokho amafilimu, imibukiso ye-TV futhi, nakanjani, amathangi. Ungavumeli inqubo ihambe yodwa, ijabulise ukuthi ingane ihlezi phambi kwesikrini esikhundleni sokuthi "shasting" eceleni komgwaqo. Thatha ukuthi yini indodakazi yakho ebhekayo.
Yimaphi amathoni enza amantombazane abukeka eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala?
Akufanele likhohlwe ukuthi ngaphandle kokuzijabulisa, zonke izinhlobo zezinqola kufanele ziqaphele futhi zifundiswe, ukuthuthukisa imisebenzi. Kule minyaka yobudala, amathangi angakwazi ukufundisa amantombazane amamodeli okuziphatha nabangane, ukuhlakulela ukubaluleka kwamanani, ukugqamisa ukubaluleka kobungane, ukufunda okuhle, ukusiza abazali nokuhlonipha abadala. Ngakho-ke, amakhemikhali amantombazane aseneminyaka eyishumi nambili kufanele akhethwe ikakhulukazi ngokucophelela.
Izifundo zibonise ukuthi izinhlamvu zezintandokazi eziyizintandokazi zamantombazane ezineminyaka engu-11 ubudala ziyizinkosikazi, amafairies, izilwane zasendle. Amantombazane amancane akhangwa inganekwane, izwe lemilingo eligcwele izinhlamvu ezinhle ezimibalabala, lapho okuhle ngokweqile kunqoba okubi futhi wonke umuntu uthola lokho okufanelwe.
Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi ungabheka intombazane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala, unake izindaba ezindala zeDisney ezinjenge- "Cinderella", "Ukulala Ubuhle", "Ubuhle Bokudla", "I-Snow White ne-7". Ngokuqondene nezithombe zamanje zanamuhla, uchungechunge oluthi "Winx Club", "Barbie", "Bratz" luthandwa kakhulu.
Sikukhumbuza izithombe eziyi-10 ezithakazelisayo kakhulu kanye nochungechunge oluthambile lwamantombazane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala:
- Kuphelelwe umoya.
- I-Monster High.
- AmaFairies.
- USabrina ungumlusi osemusha.
- I-Magic Pop Pixie.
- Charlotte Strawberry.
- Izingelosi zemilingo.
- AmaFairies: ukuphefumula komlingo.
- AmaFairies: ilahlekile elahlekile.
- Rapunzel: indaba eyinkimbinkimbi.