Inhloso yomhlangano wabazali enkulisa iwukuba ukudala ubuhlobo bomzali nomzali. Njengoba kuyoba namandla, izinzuzo ezinkulu kulokhu okuzoletha ingane kanye neqembu lonke lezingane.
Ungabamba kanjani umhlangano wabazali enkulisa?
Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, inhlangano nokuziphatha kwalesi senzakalo kuwumsebenzi wabafundisi. Basengaphambili bacabanga ngezihloko zomhlangano wabazali enkulisa, okungafani kakhulu futhi kuthinte izici ezihlukahlukene zokukhulisa nokuthuthukiswa kwengane, kokubili eqenjini nasemakhaya.
Izihloko ezihlinzekwa ngabanakekelwayo zivumela abazali ukuba bacabange ngezinkinga ezifana nalezi:
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane ikhuluma kahle nokuthi yini edingekayo ukuze ithuthukise amakhono okuxoxa kanye nesilulumagama;
- ukubaluleka kweminwe yemidlalo ekuthuthukiseni amakhono okudala kanye nenkulumo yokuhlangana;
- ukwandisa isithakazelo sabazali ekuzalaneni;
- ukungahambi kahle futhi, ngenxa yalokho - ukungabi nabulungisa nokuphumula kwengane;
- ubuhlobo bomntwana ngokuphila nokungafani, uthando lwabanye.
Amafomu okubamba imihlangano yabazali enkulisa
Ngokuqhubekayo, umuntu angakwazi ukuhlangabezana nalesi simo lapho imihlangano yabazali enkulisa ingahambisani nhlobo, kodwa ngendlela yokuxoxisana okusebenzayo noma emidlalweni elandelwayo ye-animated. Lokhu kuyinto engavamile, uma kuqhathaniswa nemikhuba evumelekile yokubamba izenzakalo ezinjalo, lapho abazali belalela inkulumo elungiselelwe yomfundisi, bese beya ekhaya. Ngemuva kwemihlangano enjalo evuthayo, umama noma ubaba bazizwa bengathokozi ngokuthi bathathe isikhathi esithile futhi bavame ukudweba noma yiziphi iziphetho, okuthathwa yilo titshala.
Manje othisha bazama ukuhambisana nabalingani babo futhi bafuna ukwenza imihlangano enjalo ibe mnandi futhi izuze abazali bayo. Phela, ukukhuliswa kwengane akuyona umsebenzi olula futhi kudinga amandla amaningi namandla, okuhlala njalo ematasa nomsebenzi wabazali, ngezinye izikhathi akwanele.
Ngemva kwemihlangano ethakazelisayo, omama nabazali banesifiso sokufundisa umuntu ophumelelayo emntwaneni wabo. Abazali abaningi bafika kulokutholwa okokuqala lapho bexoxa ngezinkinga zemfundo ngendlela ehlelekile yomhlangano onjalo.
Izingane ezinomfundisi zilungiselela izimemo ezimibalabala kubazali, ezinikezwa phambi kobufundisi. Imihlangano ivame ukumenywa evela ngaphandle - kwengqondo yengane, odokotela, othisha bezikhungo zentuthuko, ukuze baxoxisane ngokufutheka lapho ngamunye wabazali abangase bahlanganyele futhi benze iziphetho ezithile ngokwabo.
Izinhlobo zomhlangano wabazali enkulisa
Kuze kube manje, kunezinhlobo eziningana zokukhulumisana phakathi kwabazali nabafundisi, okuyizinhlobo zendabuko:
- imihlangano yabazali jikelele enkulisa (izingqungquthela, amathebula azungezile);
- Umuntu ngamunye - ukuxazulula izinkinga ezingenzeka ingane eyodwa;
- ulwazi olubukwayo - basebenzisa imibukiso yemisebenzi yezingane, izithombe namadivayisi wevidiyo nezingane, kulandelwa ingxoxo yabo.
Izinhlobo ezingezona zendabuko zifaka ulwazi-ukuhlaziywa, okufaka abazali abazali ngezidingo ezithile zezingane, nokuzilibazisa, lapho uxhumano lomzwelo lubekwa phakathi kwabafundisi nabazali, okudingekayo ekufundiseni isizukulwane esincane.