I-kid ne- pot ayinakugwema. Kufika isikhathi lapho wonke umama eqala ukubheka izihloko ezise-intanethi, shiya ngokusebenzisa izinkundla, uthintane nabangane abanolwazi oluhle, uzibuze ukuthi uzozijwayela nini ebhodweni. Okuthakazelisa kakhulu, naphezu kwayo yonke injabulo ehambisana nalesi sihloko, akekho ingane engayikufunda ukuhamba ebhodweni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imizamo yabazali iyini.
Imithetho ejwayelekile kanye nezincomo
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wonke umama kumele akhumbule ukuthi iminyaka yengane ejwayele ukupheka yikho . Uma indodakazi yomakhelwane unyaka nonyaka iqondise kahle imbiza, lokhu akusho ukuthi indodana yakho eneminyaka emibili inezinkinga, kungukuthi isikhathi sakhe asikafiki. I-Physiologists iphetha ngokuthi ingane ayikwazi ukulawula ngokugcwele izinqubo ze-excretory ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-2-3. Manje cabanga ngeziqephu eziyinhloko, lapho ubeka ingane ebhodweni kakade kunengqondo:
- ingane ikwazi ukuhambisa futhi okungenani yenza imizamo yokugqoka nokukhipha izinto;
- ingane ingachaza izifiso zayo ngamagama, izenzo, noma imisindo ehlakaniphile;
- izinhlanzi zenzeka "esimisweni" esilinganiselwe;
- Ukuvama kokuvuthwa kwehlile futhi okungenani amahora angu-1,5-2 ahlale emile;
- ingane iye yaqaphela ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi unayo "i-pee" ne "pokaki" futhi isazi kakade ukuthi amagama athi "peek" ne "pokakal" asho ukuthini.
Ukuqala kokutshala nokuqeqeshwa kwesikhathi
Ukuze ingane isebenzise ibhodlela ngenjongo ehlosiwe, kuyadingeka ukulinda kuze kube sekugcineni ubuchopho nezinhlaka ezihlanganyela kule nqubo zikhule ngokwanele. Iphethini ilula kakhulu, lapho ingane iqhubeka kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuqala koqeqesho, imizamo embalwa izodinga ukuthathwa ukuze ifinyelele umphumela. Yiqiniso, kunesinye isici - imizamo yabazali.
Ake sithi izingane ezimbili zikhula ngendlela efanayo ngokomzimba, kodwa zifundiswa embizeni ngokuhlukile: owokuqala ufundiswa kusukela ngonyaka kanye nezinyanga ezingu-9 zokuzama ukuthola umphumela osimeme, kanti owesibili - kusuka kokubili futhi uthole umphumela ezinyangeni ezingu-3. Eqinisweni, lapho ingane yokuqala icela imbiza yonyaka ongu-1 nezinyanga ezingu-9, ifanelwe udumo, kodwa lokhu kuyadumisa kuqala kubazali. Futhi lapha umndeni ngamunye kufanele ubeke izinto eziza kuqala. Uma inkinga ngebhodlela ingumqondisi, ungaqala uhambo ngokushesha, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba ulungele ukuthi kube yisikhathi eside. Uma lesi sihloko singabakhathazi abazali, khona-ke ukuqala kungase kuhlehliswe, ikakhulukazi kule minyaka kunokuthile okuphathelene nomntwana ngaphezu kokukholelwa isikhathi eside nokulindela ebhodweni.
Uvame ukuzwa ukuthi omama amantombazane bakhathazekile ukuthi indodakazi isengena embizeni, ephikisana ngokuthi ngokuvamile amantombazane akhula ngokushesha. Eqinisweni, isikhathi esithile, uma ujwayele ummbila womfana, nokuthi nini ukujwayela intombazane ebhodweni, akekho ozosebenza nge-physiologist noma udokotela wezingane. Ubulili kule ndaba akusizi ngalutho.
Izinzuzo nokuqeda ukuqeqeshwa kokuqala kwamanzi
Ngenxa yomfutho wesizukulwane esidala kanye nesifiso sokuba omama bangabi nakakhulu kunabanye, ngezinye izikhathi ukutshala embizeni kuqala
Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kungakanani ukujwayela ingane embizeni kuxhomeke ekuthuthukeni kwayo. Lapho ingane isencane kakhulu ukuba ingahlwanyelwe, akakwazi ukulawula izinqubo zomzimba. Ngabe abanye omama bafeza kanjani umgomo wabo? Kuyinto elula, esemncane umntwana angathuthukisa ukucabanga okuhambisana nesimo somsindo njengokuthi "pi-pi" noma "a-a." Lokhu kungukuthi, ingane ayihlaziyi ngoba iyakwazi futhi izwa isifiso, kodwa ngoba isilwane siphendula ngalokhu kuzwakala umsindo. Ngokuvamile yonke impumelelo yangaphambi kokuqala isingeniswe ngephesenti enkulu yokuhluleka.