Ukuzalwa kwesithathu

Kunombono wokuthi zonke izizukulwane ezalandela zilula futhi zifushane kunezidlule. Izinto zihamba kanjani ngempela, futhi kunjani uMama, osevele enabantwana ababili? Uma wabelana ngemibono kule akhawunti yabo bonke abantu abanegunya, cishe u-60% bacabange ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwesithathu nokubeletha kulula ukuba owesifazane adlulisele kuneyesibili, futhi ngisho nokuqala.

Mangaki amasonto ukuzalwa kwesithathu kungaqala?

Ezimweni eziningi, ukuzalwa okulandelayo kuqala ngaphambi kwalokho okwedlule. Uma ukukhulelwa kokuqala sekuphelile ngeviki lesishiyagalombili, ukuphela kwesithathu kungalindelwa emavikini angu-37. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukwedlula ukukhulelwa okuncane, izindonga zesibeletho azikwazi ukubamba ingcindezi yesisu, kanti umlomo wesibeletho, njengomthetho, unciphise kakhulu ngaphambi kwamasonto amane anqunyiwe.

Ukubeletha okwesithathu kudlule isikhathi esingakanani?

Lapha odokotela nabamaMama bayabumbana ngemibono - ukuzalwa kokuqala kokuqala, kuqhubeka amahora angu-12. Konke okulandelayo amahora angu-3-4 amafishane, kanti okwesithathu futhi kungase kube masinyane. Kodwa kufanele wazi ukuthi sikhuluma ngenqubo evamile yokuzalwa, ngoba uma kukhona noma yiziphi i-pathologies, ukubukeka kwengane ekukhanyeni kungadonsela phambili.

Ingabe kulula noma kunzima kunokuzalwa kwesithathu?

Ayikho imibono eyodwa, ngoba ukukhulelwa konke akufani nenye. Okufanayo kungashiwo ngokuzalwa kwengane. Kodwa ezimweni eziningi, abesifazane abaye bazalwa ngokubeletha okwesikhashana ukuthi kwakulula ukuwabeletha, umzimba uvele wenza ngokuzenzakalelayo izibonakaliso zobuchopho futhi umama uyazi ukuthi aziphathe kanjani ngendlela ethile ngendlela efanele.

Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, ukukhulelwa nokubeletha kwengane yesithathu kuyaqeda kakhulu, ngoba nakuba owesifazane esaba ukuzwa ubuhlungu bokubeletha, usevele uyayazi le nqubo, ngakho-ke, imphatha njengendaba.

Izici zokuzalwa kwezintathu

Ngezikhathi ezinhle, umuntu angabonisa ukuthi intamo ivuliwe ngokushesha futhi ngaleyo ndlela inqubo isheshisa.

Lokho esingenakuyithonya kuyindawo engazinzile yengane esibelethweni, ngenxa yobuthakathaka bayo nodonga olude. Ingane ingahle ibuye futhi iphenduke ngisho nangesikhathi sokubeletha.

Ukuphuma kwe-postpartum okwenzekayo kanye nokuchotshozwa okubuhlungu kwesibeletho , kuvame ukubheka ubuthakathaka emsebenzini wokusebenza, ngakho-ke sebenzisa inqubo yokuvuselela. Mayelana nokuthi izingane zokuzalwa ezintathu zingafundwa kanjani kubangane abanolwazi noma izincwadi, ukuze babe nomqondo walokho okumele bakulungele, kodwa umuntu akufanele azame empilweni yomunye umuntu, ngoba umzimba ngamunye uqobo, futhi ukukhulelwa kuhlukile. Isithembiso esiyinhloko sokuzalwa okuthathu okuphumelelayo yisimo sengqondo esihle nokuzethemba wena!