Inzalo esikhathini esizayo ihlale ikhona. Namuhla wonke umuntu unethuba elihle lokuvula ikhethini lokufihla futhi uthole ukuthi yini engenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ukuze uthole ulwazi olunembile, udinga ukwenza izinto ezimbili: okokuqala, udinga ukucabangela ezinye imininingwane zesakhiwo, futhi okwesibili, kuyakudingeka ukudweba izinkomba phakathi kwemibhalo etholakele kanye nezenzakalo zokuphila kwangempela.
Kungani iphupho elibomvu lokuphuza utamatisi?
Njengoba umbala kubaluleke kakhulu, futhi kulokhu kubomvu, iphupho elinjalo lihlobene nothando. Ngisho nephupho elinjalo lithembisa ukuthuthukisa esimweni sezinto ezibonakalayo. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, ngeke kube khona izimo ezingaphazamisa isimo sengqondo . Ukulala, lapho utamatisi obomvu wawusegadini noma esitolo esitolo, kusho ukuthi zonke izinkinga zizokudlula. Kulabo abagulayo, iphupho ngemifino enjalo lithembisa ukuphola okusheshayo. Uma uphelile hhayi nje ukubona kuphela, kodwa futhi ukuzama utamatisi obomvu - lokhu kuyisibindi sokuthola izindaba ezinhle, futhi kubonisa ukuthi umkhulelwe uzophela empumelelweni enkulu.
Ukuphuza utamatisi obomvu okheniwe owanambitha ukubabaza, ngakho-ke, maduzane uzizwe unamahloni noma udumala. U-Snyknik uthi ngenxa yamazwi abo nokuziphatha bazofanele "bahlume". Kukhona ulwazi oluthi obomvu utamatisi ephusheni umuntu uveza uthando lomfihlo olukhona, okuyinto umphuphi azama ukuyifihla ekubhekeni amehlo isikhathi eside. Kungenzeka ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze konke kuzokwaziwa. Imifino evuthiwe ingathathwa njengesincoma ukuthi kufanelekile ukuqhubekela phambili ekusebenzeni okusebenzayo. Isibonelo, abantu abanesizungu kudingeka bakhulume ngemizwa yabo, kanye nabantu obuseduze, mhlawumbe udinga ukucabanga ngomshado. Abesifazane abakhulelwe ukuba baphuphe ngamatamatisi abomvu yisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukuthi ukwesaba okukhona ngeke kube ngokoqobo futhi konke kuyoba kuhle. Ukuze ubone inani elikhulu lezithelo, ke, maduzane, ukujwayele okungalindelekile. Noma kunjalo kungaba yinto ekhishwa ngayo idili lomkhosi.
Utamatisi obomvu wobukhulu obukhulu luwuphawu lokuzijabulisa okuhle. Umbono ebusuku, owawuphethe isidlo sezitamatisi obomvu, uthembisa ukuphila okude futhi okujabulisayo embuthanweni wezihlobo eziseduze. Sika utamatisi ube isaladi, khona-ke, esikhathini esizayo, ungathuthukisa isimo sokucindezeleka. Uma ubona izithelo ezibolile obomvu ephusheni, kuwubuhlungu bokuhluleka okuhlukahlukene nezinkinga zempahla. Ukuze uphonye utamatisi onjalo, kusho, kubalulekile ukuthi ulungele ukunqotshwa empini enkulu ukuyigwema, udinga ukuba uqaphele. Uma ngabe utamatisi obomvu abuhlungu - lokhu kuyisixwayiso mayelana nokuvela kwezinkinga ekusebenzelaneni nomthandekayo wakho. Ukulala, lapho uthenge khona futhi uletha izithelo zasekhaya, uthembisa ukukhawulwa komuntu othandekayo. Uma othile ephonsa utamatisi ovuthiwe, khona-ke maduzane kuzodingeka uzizwe ukudelelwa kwabanye.
Uthini utamatisi obomvu engadini ubonakala?
Imifino ensimini engadini yemifino noma ebamba ukushisa ifanekisela izinguquko ezinhle ezizokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ngokuvamile kuvame ukuhambisana nokuphila komuntu siqu . U-Sonnyk uthi isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuqala ubuhlobo obusha noma ukuthuthela kwesinye isigaba. Utamatisi obomvu egatsheni kusho ukuza kwenjabulo enkulu. Ukubuka ukukhula kwemifino, khona-ke ungathembela empumelelweni empilweni.
Kusho ukuthini ukuqoqa utamatisi obomvu ephusheni?
Iphupho elinjalo lithembisa izinkinga ezijabulisayo ezizobhekana nalesi sigaba sokuphila esisha. Uma uzilahlela ngokuzithandela izithelo, khona-ke ungathembela ekuphileni okucebile nokujabulisayo.