Amapheya, njengoba uyazi, uphawu lwesifazane oluhambisana nenhlanhla nokuhluleka ebhizinisini nasekuphileni komuntu siqu. Uphawu lushintshwa kakhulu, njengabesifazane ngokwabo. Ukushintsha kwendalo yethu kuyisici esiyinhloko esiyinkimbinkimbi yomsebenzi wokuhumusha, yiziphi amapayipi aphupha ngazo.
Kungani uphupha ukudla ipeyari?
Uma uphupha ukuthi udla ikhasi elimnandi elimnandi, kusho ukuthi lokho kuzokuthakazelisa kuwe. Kodwa-ke, iphupho lapho ujabulela khona ukunambitheka kwesithelo kanye namacala lapho kudingekile ukuhumusha ukuthi amapheya avuthiwe abaphuphayo akufani neze. Uma ikhasi elivuthiwe ngaphakathi liphendukile, bese uzizwa unesizathu sokudumazeka esikhathini esizayo noma uzobhekana nokukhwabanisa nokukhashelwa .
Kumele ucabange futhi icala elivamile - kungani uphupha ngokukhetha amapheya. Isimo lapho uvuna izithelo zisho ukuthi kuzoba khona ubunzima obuseduze, kodwa uzobanqoba, futhi uzuze okufunayo. Ukubona ephusheni engapheli, amapheya amancane kanye aluhlaza - ukugula okuncane noma amazinyo.
Ukuze uphuphe amapheya amaningi ahlukahlukene emashalofini emakethe, ubikezela isifiso sokuhamba futhi wenze abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo. Futhi, ngeke sikhohlwe ngalokho okufunwa ngamapheya, okuthengayo. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuthembisa inhlanhla ezindabeni zothando kanye nezindaba ezinhle emndenini.
Kodwa uma uthenge amapheya, kodwa ke ungazi ukuthi ungenzani nabo, futhi ngokujwayelekile awugculiswanga ngokuthenga, kubonisa ukuthi ukhathazeke kakhulu ngekusasa lakho eshaweni futhi unezizathu ezithile zokulindela inhlekelele noma inkathazo emndenini futhi isevisi. Kuyafana nalokho uma uphupha ngomuntu oshaywe yi-pear.
Iphupho elihle kakhulu elihlotshaniswa namapheya ukuwabona livuthiwe ezihlahleni futhi kunambitheka omunye nomunye - esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ngeke ube nenhlanhla nje kuphela, kodwa futhi okubonakalayo okumangalisayo nokuzijwayele.