Kuyini uthando olungenakuqhathaniswa ? Ingabe uthando lungabheki, futhi ukuthini uthando ngokuvamile? Uma ekugcineni siyiqonda le mqondo, singacacisa ngokucacile ukuthi yini ukuphila kwethu, ngokuqinisekile, kuyoba lula kakhulu, futhi ... kunesibindi. Kodwa, sinakho lokho esinakho, futhi sithi usuke ungathandabuzeki othandweni. Yini okufanele uyenze nokuthi ungazuza kanjani kulesi sizwe, funda.
Ukufunda ukuthanda kude
Wena uzizwa njengomfel 'ukholo, ubuza izulu, kungani kwenzeke nawe lokhu "okubi". Kodwa izikhalazo zakho ziphikisana nomgomo oyinhloko wothando - ukwenza kanjalo ukuthi imizwa yakho ihle. Uma engakuthandi (okwamanje), ungaphazamisi futhi umiswe kulo muntu, ngoba kuyoba kubi kuwe nakwe. Funda ukujabula ngaye, ngoba konke kulungile futhi umfisela konke okuhle.
Zizinikele kokuthile okukhulu
Ukuhlupheka kungumthombo omuhle wokuphumelela kokudala. Uma sithanda ukungathandabuzeki, i-pallet ekhanyayo yemizwelo , imizwa eqinile, engenakulinganisela kufanele iqhubekele kwisiteshi esithile. Yenza "intandokazi" yakho ye-muse, uzizwe ungumuntu wezwe lokudala futhi uzithole kule ndawo. Mhlawumbe ngeke ube ngumlobi ovelele, umdwebi onomdwebo onomdwebo noma ubuhlakani bepiyano (nakuba lokhu kwenzeka), kodwa umsebenzi wokudala uzokusiza uzizwe injabulo yokuphila, ube usizo emhlabeni, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, vula ubuhlungu bakho kube into enhle futhi ephakade.
Uthando olungalindelekile yisisusa sokulahlekelwa isisindo?
Ube ususa uhlelo lwakho lokulahlekelwa isisindo isikhathi eside kunazo zonke ebhokisini elide kakhulu lemisebenzi namasu? Khona-ke isimo sakho samanje singase sibe yisikhathi esihle sokushintsha. Hlela wonke amandla akho ekushintsheni, ekupheleleni, futhi mhlawumbe amafomu wakho aguquliwe azothola abalandeli bawo.
Pamper ngokwakho!
Abesifazane bahlale bezisindisa, ngenkathi bechitha imali enhle ngezihlobo eziningi, izilwane ezifuywayo, iminikelo. Uthando lwezwe kufanele luqale ngothando loqobo, okusho ukuthi unayo ngokwanele ukuze uzigcinele imali. Ziqiniseke ukuthi esimweni samanje nje udinga ukuzithenga okuthile okubizayo nokunethezeka, into oye waluphupha isikhathi eside.
Ngena kumidlalo
Ezemidlalo - lena yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuphazamisa imicabango. Noma kunjalo, lapho ukuthuthumela kudlulela kuwe, umoya ulahlekile futhi inhliziyo iphuma esifubeni sakho, kholwa kimi, ngalesi sikhathi awucabangi nganoma yiluphi uthando, hhayi ngokubambisana noma ngokungahambisani nalutho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphefumula okwenyuka ngesikhathi sokuzivocavoca umzimba kunomthelela ekuhlanganisweni kwe-endorphins - ama-hormone wenjabulo, futhi yilokho okushiwo!
Vumela ukuba ube nesihawu
Cishe ube nabangani abakulungele ukuzwelana, babelane nabo usizi lwakho. Bavumele bazisole, bavumele bakunakekele futhi bakujabulise. Khumbula, noma yimuphi umngane wangempela uzoqala ukukunika isikhathi esiningi, ukugqugquzela ukunyakaza nokuphuma ekucindezelekeni. Esikhathini sokuqala kuzoba usizo kakhulu, ngoba akuwona wonke umuntu okwazi ukuzitholela ejimini elifanayo.
Finyelela imigomo yakho
Ngokuvamile ukucasuka amantombazane azama ukuba ngcono "kokubi" kubenzi babo ababi. Indlela ayiyona ehloniphekile kakhulu, kodwa ezimweni eziningi isebenza. Zivuselele, uhlale uphelele - ikhanda elihle, eligqoke ngezinaliti, lize lithwale imfucuza yonke indawo. Isikhuthazo esikhulu "uma ehlangana nami, kufanele ngibheke njengo-100, ake azisole ngokunganaki."
Ngakho-ke, konke okungenhla kuyokwanela ukuqeda uthando oluncibilikisayo. Zama ukulandela lezi zincomo, futhi uthando lwakho olungenakulinganiswa luyoba yisinyathelo sakho empilweni entsha - enhle, ehlanjulisiwe, egcwele, owaziwayo kanye nempumelelo yomuntu siqu.
Ngolunye usuku uzohlangana nesoka lakho elihlulekile. Uzozizwa kanjani? Uyamangala ukuthi angakulimaza kakhulu, ngoba uye waba ngcono ngalesi sikhathi, futhi wahlala lapho, esikhathini esedlule.