Umbono wesonto
Abafundisi bebelokhu bebumbene, bengasiqondi ukuthi kungani kubakholelwa ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuba khona emngcwabeni, ngoba kungumcabango ongenalutho. Ingane esesesibelethweni ivikelwe yingelosi yokulondoloza, futhi akukho lutho olusongelayo.
Kukholelwa ukuthi amathuna - indawo efanayo nanoma yimuphi omunye, futhi akukho lutho olungalungile lokuthi owesifazane okhulelwe ufuna ukusho isihlobo sakhe othandekayo eshonile. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma owesifazane ekholelwa ngempela, khona-ke umuntu akufanele anake zonke izinhlobo zezibonakaliso, kodwa landela okushiwo kwenhliziyo yakhe.
Izimpawu, kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe bengakwazi ukuya emngcwabeni
Kukhona imibono ehlukene kulokho okushiwo owesifazane ngesikhathi sokubeletha ingane kufanele wenqabe ukubamba iqhaza emngcwabeni womngcwabo. Okuyisisekelo kunazo zonke kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi umhlaba welabafileyo uzosusa umphefumulo ongenalutho olungaphephile, olungalondekile lwengane engakazalwa.
Kukholelwa ukuthi kuze kufike ngesikhathi sokubhapathizwa, umphefumulo womntwana usuke unomthelela kakhulu kuzo zonke izinhlobo zethonya elibi ukusuka ngaphandle, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona amabutho angaphandle noma iso lomuntu. Kungenxa yalesi wesifazane okhulelwe ukuthi awukwazi ukuya emngcwabeni womuntu othandekayo. Kungcono ukuya esontweni futhi uhlele inkonzo yesikhumbuzo futhi ufunde imithandazo yokuthula komphefumulo womuntu oshonile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu asebekhulile bakholelwa ukuthi emathuneni amathuna angenazo kuphela izihlobo nabangane bomuntu oshonile, kodwa nalabo abasemlenzeni omfushane onamandla amnyama. Kulezi zikhathi ukuthi ungabangela umonakalo omkhulu kumuntu, futhi umama onomntwana esibelethweni uyinhloso engozini kakhulu.
Akuzona nje izinkolelo-ze zabantu ezingaba yisizathu sokungena emngcwabeni, ngisho nasomngane othandekayo. Phela, kuyinamathiselwe futhi kuthandana nomuntu oshonile ongakhonza insizakalo enhle kumfazi osesimweni.
Isimo esicindezelayo, ukukhala, ukukhala ngenxa yomuntu oshonile ngendlela engafanele kunazo zonke kungathinta, futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, ingqondo engalinganiselwe yowesifazane okhulelwe. Ukwehlisa impilo yengqondo ngesikhathi sokubeletha ingane kungenza izinto ezihlukahlukene, futhi ukufa komuntu othandekayo kuyisizathu esibi kakhulu salokhu. Yingakho kufanele uhambe kahle kumuntu oshonile emicabangweni yakho, ucele intethelelo evela kuye, okuyiqiniso ukuthi uyakwamukela futhi aye esontweni ukubeka ikhandlela ngemuva kwakhe.